ok small problem with 2 hotties....saw me with the other

[electron]

OK I called her.....we chatted for a bit....she never brought it up and neither did I, other than the fact I asked if she had a good time etc.....


So I asked her for a date Thursday and she said yes.....

So no worries apparently.......

 

[electron]

Hey all....just an update if anyone is interested....


I took girl #2 (19) out on a 1st date last night (Thursday) went out for a bite to eat at a fun restaurant (Jungle theme) we had some nachos, she had a daquiri and I had a beer...it was fun, we talked about things....I got some kino in....Noticing the rings on her hands, I gently took hers in mine (we were sitting across from one another) and touched her rings and at the same time kinda stroked her fingers and held her hands in mine.....seemed to go over well, she let me and told me about her rings...

Then during dinner (which was all I had planned and told her we would do) I mention (as if spontaneously) that American Wedding was playing at the cinema.....and that we should go check it out (I had a felling she would like this) she was very enthusiastic about that....so we leave


We get there and as we are in line I decide to try out some of this C&F stuff you guys are always taking about.....when a good opportunity arose, I kinda did like a little hip check/tap and "lightly" bumped against her.....she smiles, and later on I kinda jokingly snap her leg with a plastic straw....whatever just wanted to try it out....nothing to lose

Anyway we are watching the movie, she is laughing a lot (although this is probably more due to the movie than I, but I figure she must be comfortable)and we are chatting, I decide to take her hand in mine....so I casually reach over and place my hand on hers and she takes mine in hers and we clasp fingers....I only held it for a few minutes...but then I did it again later...this time I kinda put my hand on her leg and she held my hand again.....seemed to go well, I didnt sense any objections and she held mine back....


Anyway after the movie I drive her home....I decide to go for the "kiss close" we pull up to her door...she says she had fun......I gently reach over and touch/put my hand on her arm and turn towards her, she turns towards me at the same time....I then lean in towards her more closely and she does the same and we kiss open mouth for about 10-15 secs as I gently had my hand on the side of her neck.......then I pull away slowly.....she says call me, I say " I will, goodnight... and I say her name"


That was it.....thoughts? It's hard to relay the entire night and conversations.... these were the highlights....the low point was when I left my keys in the theatre and had to go back and get them, lucky we hadn't even reached the lobby when I realized it....

 

[electron]

Bump

Come on guys
what do you think? Is she interested?

 

[Quick]

you're kidding, right.

It was a first date and you had a deep kiss at the end. You can't seriously be wondering if things went okay.

Oh, yeah. C&F = ****y plus funny when you're talking to her. Inadvertent touching is "Kino".

 

[electron]

It was a first date and you had a deep kiss at the end. You can't seriously be wondering if things went okay.

haha... I like to give you guys the details for analysis...case I overlooked something

C&F = ****y plus funny when you're talking to her. Inadvertent touching is "Kino".

Thanks I didn't know what it meant exactly........

 

[electron]

I called Lindsey today (Sunday) we had gone out on the date Thurs....I said hi, asked about her weekend etc, and told her the date was fun and that we should do it again (she is a single mother of 2 1/2 yearl old girl)

I ask if she got out for the weekend she says yeah, 1 night (Sat) but that's all she usually gets (due to the baby etc) so I tell her we should go out again this week.......she says sure but cannot do it on Mon/Tues for whatever reason...baby?? she didn't clarify.... and says she wouldn't be able to go out again until Wed or Thurs etc, I say ok, I'll talk to you then....

What do you guys make of this??

I feel the date went well, but this girl is a little more on the shy/reserved side and it is hard to get a read on her....

Should I have countered maybe with a suggestiom to rent a video or something?

Thanks

 

[Slickster]

Don't lie. Thats terrible advice. Childish examples.

You're doing great. Lindseys interest will go up.

And in my opinion you're on a date with Natalie so you shouldn't go say hi to Lindsey.

Enjoy your night with Natalie and go out with Lindsey later.

You have nothing to hide.

 

[white_hype]

keep us updated on both chicks, and other chicks who's numbers you WILL get while juggling these 2... you WILL get other numbers, do not be satisfied with 2 HB's

sounds like youre doing very well, cant wait to hear from you

 

[Starman]

hehe electron is a natural born DJ and he didnt even know it!

The only objection I would have is you seem a little too eager ****** with lyndsey (hand holding, multiple offers to go out)..she probably smells relationship..and is retracting a bit..

Lay off Lyndsey for a bit..and work on natalie..and STOP going to local areas where people you know will run into each other.

 

[electron]

Thanks for the feedback and support!


I should clarify that it was her, and not I that said, Tues/Wed would be better this week..........I simply mentioned initially that we should get together this week in general........she said that she probably can't until Wed/Thurs........I assumed this is because she was out with me on Thursday, and she went out with her friends Saturday, so most likely she can't ask her sister to sit any more for a few days......???

I am just looking for BS but she did say on our dat and when I first called that she usually can only get out once a week......

Like I said she is shy and more reserved than the other girls I have dated recently...makes it a little harder to figure her out....