Ok! Choices...

[n00blar]

There is a girl that everyone I know thinks is HOT and VERY attractive. I don't really like her features nor do I find her attractive. However, I can tell she is coming on to me. Do you think I should just mislead her and use her for social proof? any suggestions?

 

[dogstar]

Of course! Just don't do anything with her to turn your reputation not in favor of yourself. Don't come off to others as just having her and getting sex or something and then dumping her off. But I'd do it for the practice.

Hey, I'm just a newb though.

 

[PiNkMaGGiT]

no that's just stupid. Unless of course you're either a) very young or b) crap with chicks cause you're gonna need everythin you can get to boost ur image

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by n00blar
There is a girl that everyone I know thinks is HOT and VERY attractive. I don't really like her features nor do I find her attractive. However, I can tell she is coming on to me. Do you think I should just mislead her and use her for social proof? any suggestions?

maybe shes an interesting person inside, possible? maybe take a min or 2 to get to know her and maybe shell be worth keepin around

espically if she is social proof,

 

[n00blar]

lol... she is definantly wanting to go on a date with me and she keeps pushing it. For instance, she casually mentioned to me her best friend is out of town and now she is bored because she has no one to go to the movies with. I asked her what movie is it that you want to see... we casually talked about it, and then she asked me what my plans are for the summer. The thing is, despite the fact that my friends all think she is HOT and it would give me a good image. I don't think I even want to kiss her... I don't think I can dodge this for too much longer... any more suggestions?

 

[Ser_i]

Social proof


just tell her, that you are not looking for a relationship but very much like to go out with her...

That's what women do to us when they have this situation

 

[golf299]

i would definitely go out with her...at least once. it will build your confidence so that when find a girl you really want to go out with, you will have no inhibitions. go out, have a good time and enjoy yourself for you.

 

[Entity]

you said she asked you what your plans for the rest of the summer are...that worries me a lil bit. seems like she's looking for something long-term. even if you go out with her just once, it could lead to drama down the road. if your friends think she's so hot, why don't they ask her out? also, why would you waste your time with her (other than social proof) if you can't even see yourself kissing her? what if some HB sees you with her and assumes you're with the chick? you could be losing out on something. just my opinion

 

[n00blar]

Yes, that worried me too... and to answer your questions, my friends have AFC spelled across their foreheads. Plus, I've been sort of bummed lately (yes, I know, not the attitude of a DJ) and wasn't looking to go out with anyone for a while, and I could take this chance to get my image back up...

 

[RedHerring]

Go out with her and enjoy yourself. It never hurts to have company, and it'll make your friends jealous

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by RedHerring
Go out with her and enjoy yourself. It never hurts to have company, and it'll make your friends jealous

NO, wrong attitude

she has to be fitting enough for you to be willing to spend your time with her

i have some issues with social proof but, jus hangin out with a girl you dont like and aren attracted to just to change the way your friends think? NO WAY!

btw why do all your friends think she is hot yet she repulses you??

 

[REDblueOI]

There is nothing wrong with a casual gettogether with a girl whom is known for being so goddamn sexy. If you spend some time with her, especially if her intrest is so high, she might turn out to be a really cool girl.

 

[htemorp]

Are you freaking stupid? This is like a perfect social proof. It's like you're gay, but you're not (maybe you are?). You're not attractive to the girl, but she's gorgeous. FREAKING PERFECT.