OK calling some of the older guys here.

[princelydeeds]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
My thoughts are to try and figure out what other limits she has sexually. Then I would proceed to slowly break down those barriers. However, I would not focus on the BJ aspect at this moment.

After slowly expanding her barriers, when you think you have shown her the pleasures of living outside her comfort zone, I would SLOWLY start on the BJ front.

Mac has it exactly right. This chick is over 40 so she is of a different era/ mindset. You have to make this broad fall deep in love with you. Then you have to expand her sexual boundaries. If she is into you she will be into making sure that you are happy. She thinks of giving a Bj as job, she needs to think of it as pleasing you. If she is only kind of into you, you are fighting an uphill battle. First, find her boundaries, then expand them.

I had this one chick who is really religious, when I first met her she thought it was kinky to do it doggie style. After 1 month with me, I had to make her stop because she was trying to give me a hand job under the table at a church function. She stopped because I agreed to do her behind a tree in some woods beside the church (it was night time). I got there becuase everytime we had sex I demanded more from her.

Some women simply arent sexual, especially when they get older. Is she one of those women who don't really like/desire sex? Is she the type who enjoys it once a month flat on her back? You have to determine if she is one of these chicks.

You have to figure out what her libido is like. If shes not really into sex your pissing into the wind. If she needs to get boned 3x's a day, begs you to have a threesome, then uses her d!ldo while watching her 1000+ DVD collection of porn, you have a real freak on your hands and she can probably be talked into some freaky stuff.

Also, reassure her constantly that giving bj's isnt dirty. Tell her it wont change the way you view her. Don't beg or bring it up constantly, when it does come up tell her how much you would love/appreciate a woman who did that for you.

 

[Eileen]

Originally posted by princelydeeds
Some women simply arent sexual, especially when they get older.

Especially when they get older?

You've got a lot to learn young grasshopper.

 

[Eileen]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
YOU ARE A FAGGOT!!!!

LOL ... He might well be but I find his sense of adventure appealing. I look at a statement like yours and think: YOU'VE GOT HANG-UPS!

 

[Ricky]

Ross Jeffries- BJ pattern

or maybe start going down on her alot. Generally if you do that a girl will return the favor every once in a while.