imarockstar
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 1, 2008
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hey guys, i havent posted here in a while, but recently i found myself wanting to get back with my ex. the problem is, i was the one who dumped her. we had been dating about 5 years, i moved away with her, left all my friends and family for her, but soon after i found myself resenting her for it. i guess i just wanted to be single for a little bit and just grow and find myself. i felt that i let everyone make my desicions for me and i wanted to take life into my hands. we were broken up for about 5 months, but the problem is that every girl i meet and talk to i just feel they dont compare to her or could never be what she was to me.
i dont know what to do. i talked to her about it and told her how i felt, but it seems that she met a new guy, and theyve been hanging out here and there. she says she feels she has to move on, and that i hurt her so bad when i dumped her and she doesnt want to experience that again. but i know deep down she still cares for me and that i still have a chance. besides this guy lives hours away. but the worst part is that she did the same thing to me not too long ago, just needing her own space for growth, and it hurt me like crazy, but i still took her back. i just dont feel like its fair. but then again i dont blame her, because i told her i was going to move back home and i havent really given her a reason to have hope for us. im just so confused right now, me and her had something great but it just kinda fell apart, we fought everyday for a while and i didnt know how to deal with it, so i just broke up with her.
she still wants to be my friend and hang out with me, but i just want what she and i had before we moved here. should i just keep my feelings to myself and let her decide? i need some advice from the fellow don juans on how to get this chick back
PS i know i sound like a b*tch but, well man i got extreme oneitis for this girl and i dont know what to do in this situation
i dont know what to do. i talked to her about it and told her how i felt, but it seems that she met a new guy, and theyve been hanging out here and there. she says she feels she has to move on, and that i hurt her so bad when i dumped her and she doesnt want to experience that again. but i know deep down she still cares for me and that i still have a chance. besides this guy lives hours away. but the worst part is that she did the same thing to me not too long ago, just needing her own space for growth, and it hurt me like crazy, but i still took her back. i just dont feel like its fair. but then again i dont blame her, because i told her i was going to move back home and i havent really given her a reason to have hope for us. im just so confused right now, me and her had something great but it just kinda fell apart, we fought everyday for a while and i didnt know how to deal with it, so i just broke up with her.
she still wants to be my friend and hang out with me, but i just want what she and i had before we moved here. should i just keep my feelings to myself and let her decide? i need some advice from the fellow don juans on how to get this chick back
PS i know i sound like a b*tch but, well man i got extreme oneitis for this girl and i dont know what to do in this situation