Oh. My. God.

DogFashionDisco

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Ok, so I’ve been ‘going out’ or whatever with this chick for about 2 weeks or so, and I’m more than sure she’s into me, and I’m into her. The day before yesterday she invited me to a highschool dance, and so I accepted and we went. I had a pretty good time there with her, the only thing about this chick, and I know it’s not a good idea to get with these kinds of chicks, is that she has a lot of guy friends, and only a few girl friends, because she says guys are funner to hang out with, but whatever.

Anyways, to the real point of this post, and bare with me, it’s a little long.

Yesterday (9/10), I went with this chick to the mall again, to hang out with some of her friends (she knows only 3 of them, the rest are friends of those 3 friends lol). So we’re at the mall, and things are going really well so far. So we’re trying to find some of her friends, and after a bit of looking we finally do. When I first see these people (3 girls), I am utterly speechless. They look like a bunch of ugly gothic crack*****s with purple hair (one of them had purple hair). And I’m surprised that this chick would have these kinds of friends. I mean she does look a little bit gothic (mostly skater), but she’s beautiful, and it’s strange that she would hang out with these losers lol. Anyways, so they talk for a bit, I am totally silent about the whole time (I make a few sarcastic neg hits to the chick, but I act as if the others don’t exist).

So after we meet, we go over to this fountain, and she tried to splash me with water to get my attention since I’m so quiet, she gets me a little bit wet, and I’m like 'you're dead'. So then I splash her with quite a bit of water, and she gets a bit soaked lol. After that we head over to this place called the Love Sack (those places in the mall with those big bean bag looking chairs). Now I’m thinking to myself that I really don’t want to hang out with these kind of people lol, so I still act quiet for some reason and only respond with a few comments. The chick tried to get my attention by being playful and giving me bit of kino like hugging me and saying she ‘loves me’ but in a playful tone (ya know, how a young kid says he/she loves a teddy bear or something).

Anyways, then this one guy comes in and the chick says hi to him. We meet him and stuff (he's 17), and this guy seems to be pretty normal. Then some more friends (2 girls, 2 guys) of hers come in. The rest of the freak squad look about the same as the first friends except one of them is pretty good looking. What’s even more terrifying is that one of the guys is bi. He’s a really messed up queer. So now I’m hanging out with a bunch goths and stoners and a fag. Next we go to Starbucks (why the fvck do they need two Starbucks in a mall?). Anyways, so then while the others are getting coffee and crap, me, that chick, and that one guy we met earlier are talking. This guy seemed normal at first, but it turns out he’s a nerdy anarchist drop-out who uses a lot of ‘big words’. By now, I am completely surprised why I’m not ditching these people, but for some reason I continue to go along. So after Starbucks, we head over to the food court, and on the way, Mr. Anarchist says to the chick “I hate to be blunt, but you have a fantastic looking ass”. She gets a little freaked out by this lol, and we start to stray away from him for now.

So we’re heading over to the food court, I get a little more kino from the chick, and yeah. So now we’re at the food court, we get some stuff to eat, and hang out for a bit. During this time I felt like I lost a lot of attention from the chick, and I seriously am just thinking about saying “screw you guys, I’m going home”. But I still don’t! But there was a little humor from this experience. Her friends see this one guy that they know that is really crazy. He thinks he’s an angel sent from heaven to start a band and play rock n’ roll, and that he invented Nirvana and all those kick ass bands. Now I’m laughing about this, but I don’t really believe it. The chick gets sick of hanging around with this really ugly fat crack***** chick, and so me, the chick, and again the anarchist guy, walk off. We talk a bit while we’re walking, I get some more kino from the chick (which will be the last kino I get from her all day). And so we somehow arrive in Toys R Us lol.

So we screw around in Toys R Us, but this is the place where the chick seems like she shifted her attention away from me and over to the anarchist guy. After Toys R Us, we head back to that Love Sack place, and we meet up with the others. Now, I see three more people have joined the freak show, one of them another ugly goth chick, a goth kid with green hair, and the other the gayest guy I’ve seen in my life (he wasn’t bi, he was gay, really gay). After we get out of Love Sack, I totally just say ‘fvck it’ in my mind, and I tell the chick that I’m gonna take the bus home. So as I’m walking through the mall by myself, I go grab something to eat, and afterwards I realize I lost my bus ticket, plus it’s kind of to late to ride the bus, and so now I go back to the freak show, and I have to hang out with them some more.

By now, the chick isn’t really giving me any attention (she still laughs at some funny things I say, but she doesn’t get into any conversation with me, so I have to do it). So then we head over to Target for some reason to hang out there, and I feel like these losers are kind of ignoring me. So we’re in Target, and the anarchist guy is making friends with this other goth guy, and they’re just acting like a bunch of fvcking retards. I’m not sure, but I think I can tell that the chick is starting to talk to other people other than the anarchist, but she still does talk to him maybe because he’s starting the convo.

So finally, I hitch a ride home with the chick and her parents lol. I’m tired, and really don’t know what to say except for ‘well your friends are really interesting’. Finally I get home and I thank God it’s over.

This might sound a little more harsher than it really was, but it was still really fvcked up. This would’ve been a lot better if I would’ve just not worried about these people being freaks, and would’ve acted normal instead of being so quiet, and acting so different.

This chick likes to flirt with guys, I know that. But she’s a teenager, what do you expect, though she doesn’t have sex with them lol, and she’s not easy. And the only person I’ve seen her kino is me.

I’m still gonna hang out with her, I just won’t ever hang out with her and her friends. I dunno where this is gonna end up, but I’m just gonna go along with it for now.

:down:

Tomorrow (9/13) I might hang out with her alone in this hella cool town by the beach, and on friday, we're going to a concert. She asked if she could bring some of her friends. I only okayed it because my friends are gonna be there, and if they turn out to be freaks, I'm just gonna ditch her and hang out with them there.
 

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Why is SHE kinoing YOU?

I'm pretty sure it's supposed to be the other way around.
 

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Dude, i'm jealous you have a Love Sac store at your mall. I am getting one for my birthday. I sat in one at the Mall of America and I haven't been the same since. It's gonna be my piece of furniture dedicated to getting ass.

Meanwhile, if you don't like people with different tastes than you. Next her.

I've hung out with a girls friend who was bi before.... very uncomfortable because he was into me as well. That freaked me the hell out but otherwise they were cool people.

Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.

Spending more time dedicate to climbing the social ladder will in effect get you hotter women.
 

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Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
Dude, i'm jealous you have a Love Sac store at your mall.
Haha.

Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
I am getting one for my birthday. I sat in one at the Mall of America and I haven't been the same since. It's gonna be my piece of furniture dedicated to getting ass.

Meanwhile, if you don't like people with different tastes than you. Next her.

I've hung out with a girls friend who was bi before.... very uncomfortable because he was into me as well. That freaked me the hell out but otherwise they were cool people.

Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.

Spending more time dedicate to climbing the social ladder will in effect get you hotter women.
No, luckily the gay guys weren't hitting on me. I was a little worried about that when I met them, but I didn't really talk to them much, and I only caught a few glances at me from them and that's it, which is still a little creepy lol, but I can handle it.

She doesn't really have any different tastes than me though. She really likes skater people (which I am, and my friends are), but I guess she just has a few gothic friends as well. There's no way I'm gonna next this chick unless things are going downhill fast, because this chick is what you would call a 9.5 out of 10. And that's only because she has braces.
 

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Thankyou for wasting 5 mins of time reading that... and, could you be any more boring? The mall is like the absolute last resort, but I can see since she is a highschooler it might make sense. I at first had the impression that that chick was just doing her thing and taking you along for the ride for a while, but then you mentioned the concert. This girl is clearly acting like she is running the show, so I would either find another one who isn't so boring and more mature, or take over.
 

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That makes me laugh.

Well, people are weird, you shouldn't care, and should of been lighter, and more fun, but the culture shock was probaly alot for you. Seriously, if you go from one group to another, you realize how ****ed up one of the groups is. Atleast I did, when I moved from clique to clique.

But it is good to meet new people, even if they are weirdos.

I know a goth group, and they are totally messed up in the head.

One of them thinks he can beat my ass, boy does he have soemthing coming his way. lol.

But there are some pretty cool gothic chicks, and stuff, most of them are fat uglies.
 

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wow, its a good thing your so open minded or some people might think your an a$$hole

the reason she wasn't giving you any attention is because you acted like some scared little kid when you saw someone that was different then you. You didn't attempt to make friends (- social proof) you didn't speak, and you tried to bail, and THEN (tho this wasn't your fault) you ended up having to go back to them.

you screwed up man, don't forget that she's not likely to give up her friends for someone shes been dating for two weeks. Had you at least tried to make friends or even speak, things would not have turned out like that.

grow up
 

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good job chief, you fail at interacting with your girl's friends and you talk sh!t about them.

that's a great way to build up social proof.
 

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Fu-ck those friends, lol, you don't need them. If all she cares about are how friendly you are with HER friends, I wouldn't even worry about her. But then again, this is just another one of those stupid things some women care about for some reason. Fuc-k her brains out and then see how much she cares about your dam-n social skills.
 

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She's emo, it don't work that way. ^^^
 

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Her and her friends clearly have low social status. Generally, goths and gays in highschool are at the bottom of the social ladder. You will end up there if you carry on seeing these freaks.

When a girl is with me, she flirts, kinos me ONLY. If she sees other guys I'd just go home. I've done it before. Nexting in the literal sense.

I'd say next her. Carry on seeing her if you like, but theres red flags already that will only get worse.
 

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you need to either go do something just the 2 of u, or get a mature woman.
I have NO clue how u date woman in high school, woman my age are little girls generally.:eek:
 

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I remember in highschool how immature the girls were, and even though I had plenty of opportunities, I just never wanted anything to do with them. I told myself things would be much better in college, but to tell you the truth, it isn't that much different... now instead of being just purely stupid, the women all put on 20 lbs (all that drinking), wear big sunglasses, and talk on cell phones 24/7... I'm not sure, but I would rather have highschool girls again than these slu-tty bit-ches. But, yeah, you should find a new girl. Get used to girls like that though, they are everywhere. If you can somehow find an attractive girl WITH a good personality, invite me to the celebration.
 
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