So for those of you that havent been following my story. Its been about 5 months since ive been on this forum.
About 8 months ago my finace left me. She was muslim I was chritian, enough said.
Now ive been moving on with my life, currently about to finish my Masters.
Yesterday I get a call out of the blue from her. I answer it, and she immediately starts to shout at me. Basically saying how could i do this, I wish you were dead, that im such an *******.
She accused me of calling her family and telling them that she had an abortion with me. And apparently i did this so that they would kick her out of the house so she would run back to me.
Guys im not a child. And family is more important to me than anything, why would I try and destroy someone who I respect and care for.
I said to her that it is illogical seeing as how we are friends that I would do something like that. I currently am casually seeing two women and am very happy.And she knows this!!!!!!!
I suggested meeting up with her to talk and see if there is anything I can do to help her. she said that her family would kill me.( They are very extreme)im in london by the way.) I said that If they kick her out I am more that happy to provide her with financial support until she gets on her feet.
Pls understand tha im not doing this because i am weak or have alterior motives. this woman broke up with me, and it was difficult for a few months but I got over it. I am offering her help because when I was in need, my parents got divorced she was there. I dont burn bridges.
Anyway the conversationended yesterday with me calling her an ungrateful childish naive *****, who should grow up. I also told her tha it was her who wanted the abortion not me. My biggest regret in life is that I will not see my first son. I had the abortion to protect her from her family, why would i go and **** that up.
I realise that i should not have lost my cool and thrown my toys out of the cot. how can i help her, and fix this situation. as I do not want to be looking over my shoulder as I walk down the street. ( She asked me to never contact her again, and told me that she hates me, that all well and good. but i had nothing to do with this situation...
regards
Dalton.
About 8 months ago my finace left me. She was muslim I was chritian, enough said.
Now ive been moving on with my life, currently about to finish my Masters.
Yesterday I get a call out of the blue from her. I answer it, and she immediately starts to shout at me. Basically saying how could i do this, I wish you were dead, that im such an *******.
She accused me of calling her family and telling them that she had an abortion with me. And apparently i did this so that they would kick her out of the house so she would run back to me.
Guys im not a child. And family is more important to me than anything, why would I try and destroy someone who I respect and care for.
I said to her that it is illogical seeing as how we are friends that I would do something like that. I currently am casually seeing two women and am very happy.And she knows this!!!!!!!
I suggested meeting up with her to talk and see if there is anything I can do to help her. she said that her family would kill me.( They are very extreme)im in london by the way.) I said that If they kick her out I am more that happy to provide her with financial support until she gets on her feet.
Pls understand tha im not doing this because i am weak or have alterior motives. this woman broke up with me, and it was difficult for a few months but I got over it. I am offering her help because when I was in need, my parents got divorced she was there. I dont burn bridges.
Anyway the conversationended yesterday with me calling her an ungrateful childish naive *****, who should grow up. I also told her tha it was her who wanted the abortion not me. My biggest regret in life is that I will not see my first son. I had the abortion to protect her from her family, why would i go and **** that up.
I realise that i should not have lost my cool and thrown my toys out of the cot. how can i help her, and fix this situation. as I do not want to be looking over my shoulder as I walk down the street. ( She asked me to never contact her again, and told me that she hates me, that all well and good. but i had nothing to do with this situation...
regards
Dalton.