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Cool. There's nothing wrong with this. The only problem is you're going about it the wrong way.Brighty said:To pursue her and see where this goes, whether it be a summer fling or a relationship. I sort of see her as relationship material.
Being "pretty sure" ain't gonna get it.And I'm pretty sure she has an idea of what my intentions are...,
You gotta KNOW FOR SURE she knows what it is you want from her.
I think that everybody here has different ways of doing the same thing.
You already know you have to be confident/aggressive/be a man. And here,we have many,many ways of demonstrating these things.
There's no standard,cookie cutter way of doing this. I can only share with you what has worked for me.
Click on my name and find the last thread I created. It's a field report where I gave an account of an interaction with the girl I happen to be dating right now. Take a look at it. When I said that she needs to know what your intentions are,that's(my thread) what I meant.
Don't worry,it isn't 4 or 5 pages long. It's only one.
I also gave a breakdown of what I did,but more importantly,why I did it.
Look at it and tell me what you think.