I made a list of all the women i have dated, theres two types of women, one is the type that i really like, the other the so so women, i was amazed when i started to separate the groups, it seems i treated the so so women like friends, i stood my ground, played hard to get, and i had them eating out of my hand, they where also at some point, dumped by me. But when it comes to the women i really like, i treated them like gold, was always there for them, and guess what? they lost interest in me.
The only exception to the rule was a superhot girl i met 15 days before i was going to leave town, she showed some interest, i ignored her, she kept following me, and i decide to talk to her and make it very clear there was no point because i was going to leave, so guess what? she wanted me badly, and that turned out to be a 3 year relationship, the best one i had, and during all that time i always kept the feeling alive that the relationship would end anytime.