Oh, DJs, What am I not getting here?

[moneyisking]

Alright, I have been putting up the courage and meeting girls here and there, I read a little bit from the forum, I go out and try to apply. I do know everything. But why, why, why am I not going over the superficial "hey, watsup" phase? It's always like this.

Me: hey watsup
Her: hey
Small talk... Die out.
Outcome: No sex, No getting closer, No attraction, No Sh!t

So... I understand it is hard for me to ask a girl out since I don't have a car, and I am a college fvcking student... ridiculous, yep. But it's hard when your parents won't help out like all the other spoiled brats. Anyways, I want to be so charming and badass that girls will actually seem to be attracted to me. That the fact I don't own a ride doesn't matter. That I can do more than "hey watsup" and superficial crap. It's helpless, I do know everything from reading, yet why is this so retardely difficult? Oh you Master DJs (btw you know if you are one), I know women are not big part of my life, but they do provide good stuff and feelings. How do you make them drool over you, call you all the time, follow you, and just doesn't leave you alone? What is it that you have and I don't that You the Great DJ make all the girls attracted to you, and I, a man of hard effort, don't get any girls to like me? Is it b/c of my race? Fact that I have no car? What is it? I don't know. Ah, save me.

 

[Byezbozhniy]

If it's not a completely cold approach then it's pretty easy. If you can get some IOIs from a girl then it's plain sailing. Something that worked for me recently was this (this was after some smiling and eye contact).

Bez: Hey.
HB8: Hi.
Bez: Why are you smiling at me? It's my hair right?
HB8: Haha, no.
Bez: You couldn't look me in the eye and say no?? C'mon (hand on arm), don't lie to me woman, what's wrong with my hair?
HB8: Woman??
Bez: Yea, I like to pretend I'm a tough guy sometimes. My mum says I'm not a bad bloke really though, and girls could do a lot worse.

Job done. She's charmed. BUT, you have to maintain eye contact and have a cheeky smile. I have the type of face to pull this stuff off. I'm hardly 'handsome' but I'm often told I'm cute. I also go through phases of having ridiculously stupid looking hair.

Once she's charmed you can escalate kino. My favourite is "Hey, I have to go to the bar to get some drinks, come with me." Then I take her by the hand.

I wouldn't try this as a completely cold approach though.

Tell me, do you approach completely cold or do you wait for some IOIs first?

Something else you could try is story telling. But the story has to be interesting.

This actually happened to me once. I was stood at a urinal peeing and some guy said to me "do you want me to shake you dry?" This always gets a laugh out of the girl, and you can punctuate it by saying, "Yea, I'm never gonna fall for that one again!!" From there you can make up some OTT stories that apparently go on in women's toilets.

Just make it interesting. Make it something that no other guy in the place would ask her. If you're leading AND PEAKING with "what's up?" then you really don't deserve the girl.

Character is key. Good luck.

 

[DonJuan11]

Alright, I have been putting up the courage and meeting girls here and there, I read a little bit from the forum, I go out and try to apply. I do know everything. But why, why, why am I not going over the superficial "hey, watsup" phase? It's always like this.

Me: hey watsup
Her: hey
Small talk... Die out.
Outcome: No sex, No getting closer, No attraction, No Sh!t

So... I understand it is hard for me to ask a girl out since I don't have a car, and I am a college fvcking student... ridiculous, yep. But it's hard when your parents won't help out like all the other spoiled brats.

It's painfully obvious why you are having problems with girls with an attitude like this. No one owes you anything. You have to make it happen yourself.

I want to be so charming and badass that girls will actually seem to be attracted to me. That the fact I don't own a ride doesn't matter. That I can do more than "hey watsup" and superficial crap. It's helpless, I do know everything from reading, yet why is this so retardely difficult? Oh you Master DJs (btw you know if you are one), I know women are not big part of my life, but they do provide good stuff and feelings. How do you make them drool over you, call you all the time, follow you, and just doesn't leave you alone? What is it that you have and I don't that You the Great DJ make all the girls attracted to you, and I, a man of hard effort, don't get any girls to like me? Is it b/c of my race? Fact that I have no car? What is it? I don't know. Ah, save me.

We need specific examples. Your "all about me" attitude is a start. One thing, it's not your race or your car or your money.

 

[moneyisking]

Thank you for the great advices. I am embarrassed to say, but I have no passion. I don't know what I like. It's absurd that 20 yr old man has nothing that he likes. I mean, I like singing, writing a little, but they are not my PASSION. I don't have a passion, and I do see clear problem in that. Oh man...

 

[LinkinParkROX]

You've got pretty good advice here. I just have to add - kino. You NEED to use Kino. I believe it's the single most powerful tool in the DJ arsenal. I don't think I'd see results if it wasn't for kino honestly. Give it a try. Good luck!

 

[moneyisking]

CRY ME A RIVER!!!

You are not getting that you have to practice this stuff for at least A YEAR and let in sink in.... why do all you guys think you can be pro's after your first month.

BOTTOM LINE: YOU HAVE NO GAME

How many people become black belts in karate after their first lesson?

whoa don't get me wrong. I didn't write that to be cynical or anything. I've been in seduction sh1t for 2 yrs, but I still do not have decent game. That's why I am all about learning. It's painful to realize that getting girl is hard, which it shouldn't be but is.