Official Routine test

[IndianaJoneS]

Hey guys, don't know if this really belongs to "mature man", but as I'm 33, I'll post here.

The goal : Approach (100 repetitions), date (? repetitions) and have sex (? repetitions) with very attractive women.

The target : Attractive women, everything that spontaneously attracts me based on physical appearance and body language/voice/behaviour etc.

The method : Me : "Hi - pause - I need your help - pause -", Her : "How can I help you?", Me : "Oh that's the right question. See, I'm just scouting the area and selecting the most beautiful women. - pause -" If she doesn't ask "for what?" go on -> "I'm gonna date each of you and select the one I like the most" (most of the women will now smile or even laugh, I remain serious). - pause - "Hey, I've forgotten to introduce, my name is IndianaJones". Her : "I'm Mrs. *******/Toy/Whatever".

Here comes an optional free chat part based on her reaction. Latest after 1-2 minutes go on :

Me : "So, nice to meet you, but I have to leave, just type your phone nr., I'll contact you" (hand her the phone).

Based on her reaction :

a) Her : "Oh this is nice, but I have a boyfriend".

Me : "Oh that's no problem. My friend X is arranging an event for all the boyfriends and husbands. They'll play soccer and go swimming and cooking while we have a nice evening for ourselves. So everyone will be fine at the end."

b) Her : "No interest." / "Are you crazy?" / Nothing -> go away

c) Her : "This is very sweet from you, but I cannot do this.", You : "sure, just type the number, I know you can do it"

I take the number and go away.

The implementor : IndianaJones. 33 yrs old guy from germany. Coming from a 1 1/2 years partially destructive LTR. Currently desperatly looking for sex and getting his life managed. Trying to get rid of his approach anxiety.

The timeframe : 1-3 month from now

Any suggestions are highly appreciated.

 

[IndianaJoneS]

1/100 : Tall brunette in the subway.

She : "Do I look like I need it?", Me : "No, but you look as if you would like it", She : "No thanks" - Walks away

 

[IndianaJoneS]

2/100 : Blonde 19 yrs old in the subway

Her eyes start to sparkle, she smiles, the guy sitting next to us starts to look like he has seen an alien.

Her : "No, I got a boyfriend". Me : "Thats no problem, my friend arranges ..."

She laughs, I leave.

Every rejection makes me stronger.

 

[yuppaz]

Interesting. Where is the part where you build attraction with the girl and get to know her a little bit?

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I've subscribed to your thread. I'm curious to see how you do.

 

[the305]

What your saying is clearly "get over approach anxiety" steps i highly suggest you do NOT go with that routine to try and meet and attract women. You will get blown out WAY more then you would with a more optimized approach.

You're basically approaching them and telling them this: im out approaching every girl i think is hot to see if they will go on a date with me and THEN what im going to do is pick ONE i like, and ditch the rest.

Honest question: Do you really think women would want to get to know you after that first impression?

 

[IndianaJoneS]

What your saying is clearly "get over approach anxiety" steps i highly suggest you do NOT go with that routine to try and meet and attract women. You will get blown out WAY more then you would with a more optimized approach.

You are probably right.

You're basically approaching them and telling them this: im out approaching every girl i think is hot to see if they will go on a date with me and THEN what im going to do is pick ONE i like, and ditch the rest.

Absolutly correct.

Honest question: Do you really think women would want to get to know you after that first impression?

Yes, but not as much as with a more "normal" routine.

 

[IndianaJoneS]

Interesting. Where is the part where you build attraction with the girl and get to know her a little bit?

In the middle after I told her my intention. When she asks why I'm doing this or any other question.

Otherwise, this part is missing

 

[JonSirG]

its too direct!! you have NO value at all!+ SHE is the price cause oh shes soo beautifull.. Just imagine you would be a Girl and a guy appraoches you like that?? "oh my im beautifull ..im too good for HIM!"

try:

############
Hey do you know the time?
She: ..
YOU: (light Kino) Oh its ok I have the time here.. I m just here to flirt with you
####################

im from Mainz btw

 

[IndianaJoneS]

3/100 : nice brunette in her early 20s in the subway.

She laughs, is interested, asks questions, why I do this and how often.

Me : "give me your number", Her : "Oh that's nice, but I have a boyfriend". We have take the same subway and along the way she continuously asks questions and we have a nice conversation. As we part she says : "hey, maybe we'll see again". I don't ask again for the number...

4/100 : attractive blonde sitting at a cafe. I see her while walking to the drugstore next to the cafe to get some medicine. On my way back I approach.

Me : "I'm scouting the area ...", Her : "Oh, nice occupation", Me : "I think so, too ". There is this golden colored handy on the table. Me : "Hey, nice handy, is this colored or solid gold?", She : "No only colored, you are kidding right ?". We have a short conversation. Me : "I want a really nice women, not only looking good but beeing skilled and good mannered. What are you doing?", She : "I'm a lawyer", Me : "cool, I once had a course in my studies..." another short conversation, she is interested. Me : "I have to leave now, what is your phone nr. (handing her my phone)". She hesitates and asks for mine. Me : "this is against my religion" - and leave

5/100 : Very attractive tall latina in the subway. I stop her on the stairways. After the second sentence she laughs and says : "No thanks, no interest" - and leaves

 

[IndianaJoneS]

its too direct!! you have NO value at all!+ SHE is the price cause oh shes soo beautifull.. Just imagine you would be a Girl and a guy appraoches you like that?? "oh my im beautifull ..im too good for HIM!"

try:

############
Hey do you know the time?
She: ..
YOU: (light Kino) Oh its ok I have the time here.. I m just here to flirt with you
####################

im from Mainz btw

Servus

Yeah nice opener, I will test !

But I will continue, the main focus is conquering or at least managing the approach anxiety. Maybe I'll further refine the opener.

 

[zekko]

In the middle after I told her my intention. When she asks why I'm doing this or any other question.

Otherwise, this part is missing

I'm not a big fan of routines, but I like your spunk.
Sounds like from your subsequent posts that you have decided to mix things up more.

Every time a guy posts up some sort of challenge/experiment like this, there are a bunch of posts telling him how he's going about it the wrong way, and the guy ends up not doing it.

 

[SteR]

Sheesh, you've got balls man.. keep it up I say. Nothing to lose, right?

 

[IndianaJoneS]

Sheesh, you've got balls man.. keep it up I say. Nothing to lose, right?

No, actually, I'm afraid. I've never really done, what I wanted. And I'm still afraid, so I wanna challenge my fear. I don't know, how to handle it else.

Yeah man, NOTHING TO LOSE. Winners simply lose more often than losers

 

[IndianaJoneS]

6/100 : Brunette in the subway. I sit next to her. She's hearing music with her MP3 Player and is doing some homework with pen and paper. I open her totally relaxed : "I need your help. But first finish your lesson.". She smiles but is obviously irritated. After 2 minutes I open again : "So, now it's time". She smiles and asks : "For what?". Me : "I need your help "

This time I modify the script :

"So, I'm interested in women with good looks AND some skills" (I think the phrase 'to have something on the ball' is a good translation, I'm german...)

"So what about you, what is your profession?". She : "I'm studying lectureship" e : "Cool, my father is teacher too." Nice conversation for about 2-3 minutes. She is smiling and gives IOIs. Me : "So, back on topic. I'd like to meet you. Give me your phone nr. (handing her my phone)" She : "But I don't want to" Me : "Ok, no problem" We directly get back to natural converation and I'm NOT ASHAME. this is cool. I handle the rejection confident. She leaves, shakes hands and wishes me a nice evening (Me too, a nice evening with her...)

That was on the way to a date with a russian woman. Everything went smooth, she laughing much etc. When we parted, I tried to kiss her, she said no.

Looks like rejection day

Anyways, I'll get over it...

 

[Jeffst1980]

It's great to see you out there making cold approaches- your attitude is perfect, and you WILL get results, even if it takes a lot of rejection initially.

Just having the courage to approach will get you more tail than 90% of guys.

That said, I would change your opener. Direct game is fine, but what are you are doing isn't really direct game- it's going to read like comedy to these girls. It's akin to approaching a woman by saying, "I'm trying to be a pick up artist, so I'm going to run a few routines on you and tell me if you're attracted." You may get attention by doing this, but at the expense of all your social value.

A better opener is just to say, "Hi, you look (cute/interesting), so I wanted to to come say hi." You will be able to gauge her interest RIGHT OFF THE BAT with this one.

Then, instead of asking what she does and having a boring conversation, notice something about her or do a cold read, e.g. "You seem really outgoing, were you always this way?" or "I like your necklace- you must be the creative type." This stuff will usually prompt a more engaging conversation.

Regardless of this, you will have better success if you are well-groomed. Cold approaching doesn't give you much chance to demonstrate value, so your appearance will have to do it for you.

 

[IndianaJoneS]

its too direct!! you have NO value at all!+ SHE is the price cause oh shes soo beautifull.. Just imagine you would be a Girl and a guy appraoches you like that?? "oh my im beautifull ..im too good for HIM!"

try:

############
Hey do you know the time?
She: ..
YOU: (light Kino) Oh its ok I have the time here.. I m just here to flirt with you
####################

im from Mainz btw

Ok, I just did it with a medium attractive girl, so it doesn't count.

Me : "Hey, I need your help" - She (laughs) : "Ok, with what ?" - Me : "What is the time?" - She (searching for her handy or clock) : "I don't know" - Me : "It doesn't matter, I just wanna flirt with you". She (laughs) : "I gotta go now"

 

[IndianaJoneS]

7/100 : Nice blonde with a beautiful face in the subway

I'm eating a snack. Me : "Hi, I need your help" She : "What ?" Me : "Oh sorry, I'm eating, wait" She : "yeah, just swallow" Me : "I'm hungry, haven't eaten anything today, and you" She : "well, I had breakfast" Me : "Was it good ?" She (laughing) : "Yes, it was". Me : "Ok, so what's the time?" She : "Wait, I have to look myself ... 13.20" Me : "I know, just want to flirt with you" She (laughing) : "Ah I see, so you just hide your clock ? "

We are interrupted, the train stops and she split. I hesitate, don't ask for her number

 

[amoka]

This is a perfect way to work on your rejection spirit. There is no other way to get rejected than going this route.

 

[yuppaz]

That last one was much better because you owned the frame. You told her to wait a second while you finished eating, had her laughing etc and were direct, but chill & relaxed about it. Good set!