Thanks for posting these interview threads Humble Ninja. A great idea.
Ok....
1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
A good friend of mine had his wife cheat on him. We were discussing the situation and he mentioned a website he found that taught guys how to get girls. A year or so later I found myself single and remembered him mentioning it. I googled "how to get girls" and found myself here. No real reason for it other than I like the subject. I spent about a year just reading the articles and stuff on the SS main page before I ever looked at the forum. I really bought into the whole Don Juan thing when I first came here. My goal with SS was to be the guy that women swooned over, chased and went crazy for. The pump and dump PUA stuff wasn't really my style because it just seemed like guys chasing pvssy (Very backwards IMO). I wanted to be a guy with a harem of women chasing him. That in my opinion is what a Don Juan is.
2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
Yes, it is a play on my actual name and a nickname given to me when I was younger.
3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Best: Actions speak louder than words and never take a woman or a relationship too seriously.
Worst: Anything that has to do with cheating on your gf or stealing another guy's girl.
4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
Way back when I first started out I used to hang around over on the old mASF forum. I posted a few times and learned a lot over there but it was a little too "scientific" for me.
5) How many chicks have you slept with?
I don't know an exact number but guessing in the 50 range.
6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
Worst: An old LTR gf and I were living together and going to school. She had to do a work experience stint and it became a long distance relationship for about 2 months. When she returned she had made plans to move in with a girlfriend of hers. The two of them showed up and I helped move all their sh!t into my place while they were house hunting. I drove them around for a week looking at places and after they finally found one I helped them move in. As the very last box came out of my vehicle my gf sat me down in the car and broke up with me in a very cold way. I later found out that she had been cheating and her new bf was moving in with her and her girlfriend.
7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
The friendzone doesn't exist for me. If a chick I'm interested in tries to friendzone me I just lay it on the line right away that I'm not interested in being a "friend". This has worked in my favor in that many suddenly become interested. If not I just let them walk. I never waste time on low interest women.
8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why?
Yes. I've lost count how many times. It actually happened last week at a party. I've been getting laid pretty consistently since I was 16 so there hasn't really been an extended dry period for me. Things would probably be different if there had.
9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
I don't really. Flakes just get sent to the bottom of the list. I don't let my ego get hurt by flakey chicks. It's basically just meh. It's amazing how many chicks who initially have low interest will come back around if you handle yourself properly and just be cool.
10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
Three and it was a pain in the a$$. I'm too busy for that sh!t.
11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
There hasn't really been any extended droughts for me. Ever since I was a little boy, I always seemed to have girlfriends. I actually enjoy those times when it's just me.
12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
I'm not really a fashion guy but when it comes to going out and wanting to look good I usually take the time to put together an outfit that works together. Mostly I wear jeans and nice shoes with fitted shirts (collars or tees). Something like this:
My style
13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
Yes. Solomon sent me a PM recently and it gave me the inspiration to start going at it again. I've worked out off and on forever but I always seem to get lazy or have other things get in the way.
14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)
Online dating just seems ridiculous to me. I've never gone there. I have had success in clubs when I was younger but that was never really my scene either. My game is pretty genuine and I like to take things slowly seducing a woman over several days, weeks, or months. I meet and chat up women literally everywhere I go. I call it planting seeds. Over time its difficult to go anywhere without bumping into some "romantic interest" that I've been seducing.
15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
Many times. I learned from many LTR's over the years not to get overly sentimental or nostalgic about break ups. To quote Jack Handey "When you drop your keys into molten lava, let 'em go cuz man, they're gone." Ironically what I've found is that when you handle a break up REALLY well you get a lot of respect from your ex (and her friends). I've had several experiences in the past where exes and their friends became interested after a healthy breakup.
16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
I am married. Things are going very well for us and I've never once regretted it. My wife is pretty awesome and I'm a lucky guy.
That being said I am very active in keeping my game sharp. I meet and chat up women all the time. It's just part of my personality. My wife knows this and it keeps her interest high. I never do anything to disrespect my wife but there are opportunities everywhere.
17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
Yes I've read it many times.
18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
I have been in contact with a few people away from the site (email etc.) Never in person though.
19) Favorite So Suave posters?
The guy I've learned the most from would be Senor Fingers. Fingers seemed like a really genuine guy to me and his style and attitude towards the game seemed to most mirror my own views.
I used to get along well with Player Supreme too and even though his game was totally different from mine I learned a lot about handling women through him.
These days I find myself really impressed by the guys who have this "never quit" type of attitude. To me that is the very essence of this site and I always enjoy reading the posts of guys like DieHard, Solomon, and Colossus.
20) Thoughts on online dating?
Get out there and talk to chicks everywhere you go and you'll never need online dating.
21) Your thoughts on the Manosphere?
Not much really. I get the sense that most of the guys involved aren't really great with women and there's an underlying tone of frustration there. I don't have much interest.
22) Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?
I'm mostly a keep it simple guy and from what I know about Rollo is that he is very analytic and verbose. I respect that he knows his stuff but I don't even read his posts so I won't be reading his book.
23) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
I've had a few times where things just really clicked for me in a big way. Once I was playing in a successful rock band and I was literally swimming in poon. Another time I was living with 5 chicks in one house and that was pretty great too. That was all before I found this site though. Once I started applying the things I learned here things really went through the roof for me. My early 30's were a great time where I seemed to find my groove the best.
If you haven't read it you can read a lot about my story
here
24) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
I think the home page of SS with the Articles and Tips is a really overlooked part of the site. All the information you need to be successful with women is there and in the DJ Bible. I can't believe how many people haven't read it especially considering how much time they spend on the forums.
I generally think the site is a great tool if used correctly.
