Update: Cancelled date with 1st 24 yo Friday. I was getting sick and stayed in. Was supposed to go today (Sunday) but cancelled as I got too much sht going on with the holidays coming up, people visiting, work etc. plus her aunt has a medical issue. So were meeting up again two weeks from now.
Some people chicks included do have other things going on. I don't believe unless you simply have no life or nothing else going on you can spin loads of plates at one time. You can keep them as "Contacts" but to spend time seeing them, going out, travelling to see them etc. It gets to be not only possibly money spending but time consuming as unfortunately most of us should have a well balanced life with other things going on.