What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
A girl named Katherina-Marie. She was exotic (Colombian/white), hotter than anything I had ever dated and she liked me just enough to where I thought I had a chance / to keep me around, but not enough to actually date me. I was in classic LJBF category. I wanted to learn specifically what I had to do to get her to date me so I found this site.
What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Stop being afraid of them. They aren't mythical creatures. They aren't to be worshiped. Living with one for the last 5 years I can tell you that even the hot ones are quite normal. They ****, they sleep, they poot lol, they eat, they do normal stuff just like you and I do. If you want to talk to a chick just grab your balls and talk to her. That's the most important thing. Once a guy gets over his fear of approaching the sky is the limit
Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
Not really. It's not that serious to me
How many chicks have you slept with?
I didn't keep a running tab. I know the year before I met my wife was my best year, that year at least 15. I was sleeping with a new chick about every 2-3 weeks just about. In all probably about 40-50.
What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
Katherina. Anyone who has been here on this forum for as long as I have knows my history with this chick. 6 years of blue balls, I like you oh I don't like yo, I'm going to leave my BF for you oh i don't know what you are talking about. She was so cold blooded she didn't want to date me but still didn't' want me to date anyone else so whenever i would get close to a chick she would put it on thick. she wanted me around she just didn't' want to **** me. She once called me.. on my birthday no less, that she was supposed to let me tak her to the movies (for my present i just wanted to go out with her that's i, that's sad)I called her asking where she was and she picke dup the phone while she was getting rammed by a guy she liked. you want to talk about low. I told myself never again
Anyone who is in LJBF category needs to go to the search bar, type in user backbreaker and the keyword onieitis and just read my posts in regards to this chick it's so sad that you will cry.
It's because of her i learned the value of a quick hard NEXT though. IF a girl is playing any games when I was single I would eject instantly.
Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?
I actually ended up banging Katherina ironically enough once I went 100% no contact and meant it. But I was so over her by that point I didn't' want anything else with her. IRonically enough I thought I could do better. And I was right.
That more than anything is what got me about the entire situation with her. it wasn't that it took 6 years to get with her. It was that all along, I could have done better than her. But once i got her, it gave me the confidence to steup my game up to the "elite" women. I probably would not have had the confidence to approach my wife if I never slept with kat, so in an odd way i Thank her.
Most plates you've spun at one time before you were married?
when I met my wife she was my 5th plate.
How did you handle having no plates before you were married?
It took some time but I got used to being alone. I made use of the time. I hit the gym, most of the time I had no plates was when i was starting my business so I was always busy. But i did things, I read, i learned how to seriously play the piano, I made use of my time. I became a better dude
Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
I'm pretty preppy. Chinos, polos, spurrys, I like to dress up and I have a thing for classic 30's/40's style clothing, so if i'm going OUT OUT lke dress up out that's how I dress. If I had to describe my style of dressing it's "clean and organized"
For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, family, work or whatever else..
cold approaching. I don't like dating in my social circle, I dispise online dating, I have never had a real job where I went to work since I was 21 and **** that was my company lol i can't date chicks that work FOR me. I am pretty good at cold approaching. I cold approached my wife.
The thing about it though is you have to have your look down, you have to have the self esteem and you have to be willing to work at it. You have to know how to think on the fly, read body language, know when a chick is into you, know when to shut it down, know when to go for the kill, know when to go for the soft sale, the hard sale, no sale, etc.
Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
I went full no contact with just about every plate I got tired of. I would try to go no contact with katherina but she would find me basically and pry her way back into my life, until I moved out of Arkansas. I literally had to leave the state to get rid of her.
But when i go no contact, i'm done.
Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
the whole thing. for a good period i read an article a day for years I did that. I would put my DJ Bible Knowles up against anyone on this forum
Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)
no
How long have you been married and how did you meet your wife?
June 18th, 2011
so 2 years, 4 month, 29 days
I met her at Santa Anita Race track at the food court called clockers corner. I went there alot of mornings and I always saw her there, she worked there as an exercise rider. I knew she worked there so I wasn't in a hurry to talk to her. Eventually I caught her playing eye tag with me one day and I knew it was time to go make my move. She actually rejected me at first but came around.
Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
Improvements
1. Add a Style forum
2. Add a finances forum
3. take away the marriage forum
a DJ is has all his **** on order not just a guy who knows what ****y funny is and this forum only addresses one, overrated, aspect of being a man. In real life, a guy who has a good job, can dress and is socialable will beat out the guy who has the DJ bible memorized 9 out of 10 times, why not teach the guy how to become both? the guy who has his **** in order AND the guy who knows the DJ bible like the back of his hand
4. somehow, make the reading of the DJ bible mandatory.
5. somehow, make the posting of actual field reports with women or real interactions with real women and not internet theories, mandatory
Last Words
I appreciate that there are some people here that look up to me, but I'm telling you, I'm not all that different from anyone here. I Just wanted it. I wanted to be successful, with business, with women and i was willing to sacrifice and work to get it. When I came here, I was basically the guy who everyone laughed at on this forum. I got flamed to hell all the time because I was an idiot with women. The difference being that I actually went out and did something about it. I went out in the real world and approached and talked and worked out and learned how to dress and learned what i was doing wrong and fixed it.
A lot of what we talk about her is how to get women, but sometimes you have to understand when to step back and fix / work on yourself first. If you are hell bent on hb8's and you aren't hb8 quality, you need to become a guy who can get hb8's first.
