nice reports guys. keep it up
i've lost count of how many hi's and convos i've had over the past two days. i've never been so social in my life, and although it is freshers week at uni and folk seem much friendlier and hornier, this bootcamp has made a big difference since i'm putting more effort in (in my head; my body language is still laid back)
aw man, i am totally up for lifeforce's version now. (i thought it said get 20 numbers, which kinda put me off
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so i'll post a report anyway (starting on wednesday cuz it was a pretty decent day as well)
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wednesday
on the train, there were two girls opposite me (6 and 7). so i'm thinking 3second rule and we'll go. 3,2,1, shyt i'm nervous so i didn't say anything. about 2 minutes later i grabbed my balls, 3,2,1, convo. turns out they're freshers at my uni. i start talking to them and get little response - they were too shy. i was giving loads of ec but they kept looking away. didn't matter anyway, they didn't meet my physical appearance barrier. all good practise.
get off the train and start making ec with hot girls as usual. it's pretty sweet when they look back and can't stop the ec. i feel some wood. (5days not masturbating encourages you to do it more).
up at the uni - unpacked, headed down to the gym. few hi's. the usual convos with guys there who are working with me on the weights (strangers). a few open-ended questions to a couple of hot girls there, but that doesn't count as cold approaching. back to my flat, met some old friends (one is an absolute social god, so he boosted my confidence just by talking to him). got to the new halls of residence, spoke to two new flatmates, who know people i know. so i opened them up pretty well. needed a can opener for tuna, so i went about the halls looking. found a flat with 3 girls (hb 7, 8 and 5) (who looked a lot better with makeup on later). i had a good convo starter - the tuna. i had an aura of confidence about me the whole time, spoke for about 5 mins, busted on them for drinking wine alone, like three old housewives, then left, telling them to come to my flat sometime. no number closes, but they live close. two meet my physical appearance standards, so i'll see.
thursday
couldn't be fvcked first thing in the morning. just the usual ec with girls walking through the town. got to uni, met two good mates, got things sorted out and went to the fresher's fair. this is one of the best places to meet people. cut a long story short, i got a lot of convos in here; i can't remember how many, i was having such a good laugh with my mate. number of hb convos - about 5 or 6 short ones - they've got to talk cuz that's what they're there for. nevertheless, i talked about stuff other than what they were handing out/supporting. one girl (hb9) i complimented by asking if she was the model on a picture right behind her (it was such a cheesy compliment, but she really did look like her), she blushed and stopped talking. another one was a dyke (i absolutely hate these people!) - she asked me "do you want to join us (army thing)?" i said "no, i'm alright." then the cheeky biatch said "
are you?". anyway, some were hot, but i didn't want to ask any of them out, so it was all just practise for another day.
i was filled with confidence while i was speaking, which was great. if you've read anything you've read about confidence and body language, you'll know that the better your body language is (slow and deliberate (in movement and speech), shoulders back, back arched, head up straight, giving ec, smirk on my face as if i know something they don't, etc) the more confident you actually become. it's all just 'act as if' stuff.
walking through the town again, loads of ec with hot girls; the hi's don't matter cuz i'm saying more than that with my eye contact.
totals:
cold approaches - 5 (i'm not counting those girls at the fresher's
fair cuz they were like waitresses - just
doin their job)
numbers - 0
lays - 0
tonight i'm going out clubbin, so i'll be adding to the list. keep it going everyone! and whatever happens, don't take yourself too seriously. it's all a bit of fun
gav