Going back to it, I do miss one thing about NYC though and it is the easy competition. I mean in Miami, the competition is way tougher and the men are far more alpha. NYC obviously had a lot of obvious soyboy types but even the stereotypical alphas of NYC (some stereotypical trust fund baby or working class type from Long Island) were all bark no bite type of dudes who were awful with women and soft as nails. Like I have gone out in Miami and seen so many football player built dudes and dudes with cauliflower ears left and right while in NYC, dudes were much shorter on average and hardly competition. Even Hoboken had a lot of losers and beta males compared to my time in other cities.
If you are a guy in NYC, take advantage of what is some of the weakest competition out of any major city. I mean sure, the city has dudes like
@In2theGame who is one of the best posters on the forum and a total legend but by and far, the competition in the city is so soft. It is so easy to AMOG dudes unless you are going to some Black or Latin area in say the Bronx or something.
Maybe all the alpha NYers moved here elsewhere but these days, the city is soyboy capital. Being in Miami where the average guy is way better looking, way more alpha, and way more suave makes me miss how easy things were in NYC. Even bars you went to which were sausage fests had a ton of clueless dudes.
One thing I have noticed in comparing NYC to Miami is that in Miami, the dudes are far more bite and far less bark. I think of Jorge Masvidal smacking up some MMA fighter (think Leon Edwards) backstage, these dudes are not to be messed with. Meanwhile, in NYC the dudes talked tough but when push came to shove, crumbled fast (unless we are talking someone straight out the hood). If it was not for the black and Hispanic population, NYC guys would be some of the biggest beta males in the country.