Player_Supreme
Banned
I am going to steal a few words from Da kidd from the pimps network and add some of my own Sh*t to it to help teach observation.
Observation
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In this game, observation is the key. Without the ability to properly observe a situation, the analysis of any given situation will be far from accurate.
It also helps to know what you are looking for in the women that you select.
According to Arthur Gordon there are 3 types of women out there:
1. the good girl. This is the type of B*tch whom a N*gga wants to marry or settle down with. She is the nice one who does everything for her man. She comes from her heart. Everything that she does is based around how in love with you that she is.
2. The Freak. Ahhh the freak is the one who breaks N*gga's hearts, have them up at night wondering where she is at and who she is ****ing. Freaks usually become strippers or those *****es you see who dress like all she wants is attention. Freaks come at you on the sexual tip. If you look like your packin and can put it down then they will be all up on ya. These are usually the ones you see chasin after brotha’s cause of our reputation for fawking and having big dycks.
Which is exactly what they want, and they will get it from anyone. Most freaks love sex and will always have a waiting list of N*gga's to call. You've seen them with their garish outfits and overdone make up on. Usually they are the freakiest dancers in the clubs. These are the *****es who just need a little push to put them on the stage and from their onto a track selling that cat.
3. Ho's. These are the professional *****es who already ho. These *****es will only do it for money or material gain of some sort. The mild form of a ho is a gold digger. The serious form is your common street walking ho. According to Gordon, many high school cheerleaders are ho’s in training. They sell their bodies to the atheletes for the currency of popularity. I’m sure you’ve seen fine women with old assed men. Look at Anna Nicole Smith. She is a ho. Many ho’s become groupies for Sports or Entertainment stars. These are the ones who marry those guys and then divorce them later for millions.
Knowing what type your dealing with will determine what type of game you spit at her. Good girls you do the old fashioned Sh*t. Freaks since they only want fun and sex, you show her how much fun it is hangin out with you. Freaks you use your career or where your going in life and how much money and toys you have.
To try the approach of a ho on a good girl will get you nowhere. I’m sure many people have seen or heard of idiots trying to impress a good girl with how much money he makes and getting shot down.
Ok now back to further observation skills:
The amount of observation necessary varies per situation. If you are out of town (or out of your environment), you shouldn't spend near as much time observing as you would where you live.
The reason for this is simple. When your azz is on vacation, you can afford to make a few mistakes like cold approaches (i.e. very little if any eye contact, etc.), because you aren't going to be there long enough for the consequences to affect you. But, since the majority of us aren't going anywhere anytime soon, so lets focus on long term observation.
The first thing you want to do when observing is to set up your 'base of operations'. This is where you sit yourself down somewhere, be it school, the club, the mall, whatever, and remain stationary. What I like to do as you’ve seen me post is stand on the edge of the dance floor so that I can be seen and can see who is looking at me.
You gotta fight the temptation to eye ball your surroundings. This makes you look hungry like the rest of the nyggas up in thurr. Trust me, if a biytch likes what she sees, she will put herself in your perimeter. Just make sure that you are sitting or standing somewhere highly visible.
If you have to be the 1st one in the club to get a good seat. What you want to keep an eye out for is what Da Kidd over at the pimps network (and whom I took the outline for this post from) calls 'the perimeter breach'. This is basically when a girl is all in your
area. She will probably glance at you occasionally and jock you on the subtle tip. She is wondering why if all of these other guys are up her ass, why aren't you.
How you react to this depends on environmental factors. “If you are out of town, throw your fingers up and beckon that B*tch to you. If you are on your home turf, try to chill. Remember, chances are that the B*tch lives there too, and you will probably see her again. This is where patience kicks in.”—Da Kidd
Da Kidd also said remain a mystery to them. He further went on to say that you shouldn’t try to run down every girl that you see. Remember the saying "chase a ho and get a chumps cop, Stalk a ho ( do your homework on her ass) and get a pimps cop. Cop stands for having her on your team.
This shyt will take some time to get used to, but will pay off in the long run. “Remember...you aren't going anywhere, and neither are they. Drive their curiosity to a fever pitch. When they finally do speak to you or you decide that they are jocking you so tough that it's time to make that move, the amount of static she gives you (depending on your approach, of course) will be much of nothing.”
One key thing to remember is this... women jock men on the sneak. Not the way the we jock them. If you know this, you can use this against them. If you can see them, then they can see you…ie my standing on the edge of the dance floor or sometimes in the middle of it. I make people move around me sometimes. At the edge or in the middle of the floor.
If a byitch is on your Sh*t, she will position herself where she can get a good view of you. If you are sitting near the dance floor, and hoes start dancing like right in front of you, chances are they are jocking you. Especially if the dance floor isn't packed and they didn't have to dance right there. The less crowded an environment is, the more 'clean-cut' observations are. If the joint is jumpin', then you will have to rely
more on eye contact, proximity, and other subtle factors.
Here is an example: Lets say that you went to a mall or a lounge at school, and a B*tch is sitting quite a ways from you and tries to throw some trash away in the can that is in your proximity. No big deal right? WRONG. How about if there was a trash can a lot closer to her than yours was. She didn't have to come way over here just to throw away a lollipop stick, then return to her seat. Most people don't think twice about things like that, but they should. That is an excellent example of subtle jocking. If your obsevation skills are not up to par, you would miss that incident and quite a few more which could have been very revealing. Observations skills are hard to teach over the internet.
I always tell my buddies that I’m “on” 24/7. If I’m awake then I am alert and paying attention. I always notice when women are jocking me. This is why I’ve been successful in the night clubs at meeting women. You must pay attention at all times.
About 4 years ago I went to this thing called Burningman http://www.burningman.com
I was working for channel 6 in Sacramento with my buddy doing a story on this week long freak fest up in the Nevada desert. I was at one of the huge rave tents and had fallen asleep to the driving beats of techno/trance.
Suddenly I awoke to feel someone starring at me. I looked around and saw a ho that I new from my own town trying to figure out if it was me or not.
Here is an exercise that I want you to try: sit yourself down in the mall or at school or a book store and just practice. Watch which hoes decide to sit near you even when there are chairs all over the damn place. How many times a particular broad walks back and forth in front of you for no damn apparent reason at all.
Do this for a little while, then try your luck at the club. In the club, however, hoes are a little more aware that they are being watched, and will be a little harder to read. But, if you know what subtleties to look for, it won't be too hard. Soon you won't be getting dissed anymore because you will know exactly which broad(s) actually want to holla at you. As you know about my direct approach style based on my eye contact post, I don’t holla unless the ho is choosing.
There are other styles out there such as indirect and other seduction mixes. With indirect you holla at every ho even if there is no eye contact. This style you gotta have your game intact and going strong. There are pro’s and cons of each style out there.
But for this one get to practicing.
Observation
-------------
In this game, observation is the key. Without the ability to properly observe a situation, the analysis of any given situation will be far from accurate.
It also helps to know what you are looking for in the women that you select.
According to Arthur Gordon there are 3 types of women out there:
1. the good girl. This is the type of B*tch whom a N*gga wants to marry or settle down with. She is the nice one who does everything for her man. She comes from her heart. Everything that she does is based around how in love with you that she is.
2. The Freak. Ahhh the freak is the one who breaks N*gga's hearts, have them up at night wondering where she is at and who she is ****ing. Freaks usually become strippers or those *****es you see who dress like all she wants is attention. Freaks come at you on the sexual tip. If you look like your packin and can put it down then they will be all up on ya. These are usually the ones you see chasin after brotha’s cause of our reputation for fawking and having big dycks.
Which is exactly what they want, and they will get it from anyone. Most freaks love sex and will always have a waiting list of N*gga's to call. You've seen them with their garish outfits and overdone make up on. Usually they are the freakiest dancers in the clubs. These are the *****es who just need a little push to put them on the stage and from their onto a track selling that cat.
3. Ho's. These are the professional *****es who already ho. These *****es will only do it for money or material gain of some sort. The mild form of a ho is a gold digger. The serious form is your common street walking ho. According to Gordon, many high school cheerleaders are ho’s in training. They sell their bodies to the atheletes for the currency of popularity. I’m sure you’ve seen fine women with old assed men. Look at Anna Nicole Smith. She is a ho. Many ho’s become groupies for Sports or Entertainment stars. These are the ones who marry those guys and then divorce them later for millions.
Knowing what type your dealing with will determine what type of game you spit at her. Good girls you do the old fashioned Sh*t. Freaks since they only want fun and sex, you show her how much fun it is hangin out with you. Freaks you use your career or where your going in life and how much money and toys you have.
To try the approach of a ho on a good girl will get you nowhere. I’m sure many people have seen or heard of idiots trying to impress a good girl with how much money he makes and getting shot down.
Ok now back to further observation skills:
The amount of observation necessary varies per situation. If you are out of town (or out of your environment), you shouldn't spend near as much time observing as you would where you live.
The reason for this is simple. When your azz is on vacation, you can afford to make a few mistakes like cold approaches (i.e. very little if any eye contact, etc.), because you aren't going to be there long enough for the consequences to affect you. But, since the majority of us aren't going anywhere anytime soon, so lets focus on long term observation.
The first thing you want to do when observing is to set up your 'base of operations'. This is where you sit yourself down somewhere, be it school, the club, the mall, whatever, and remain stationary. What I like to do as you’ve seen me post is stand on the edge of the dance floor so that I can be seen and can see who is looking at me.
You gotta fight the temptation to eye ball your surroundings. This makes you look hungry like the rest of the nyggas up in thurr. Trust me, if a biytch likes what she sees, she will put herself in your perimeter. Just make sure that you are sitting or standing somewhere highly visible.
If you have to be the 1st one in the club to get a good seat. What you want to keep an eye out for is what Da Kidd over at the pimps network (and whom I took the outline for this post from) calls 'the perimeter breach'. This is basically when a girl is all in your
area. She will probably glance at you occasionally and jock you on the subtle tip. She is wondering why if all of these other guys are up her ass, why aren't you.
How you react to this depends on environmental factors. “If you are out of town, throw your fingers up and beckon that B*tch to you. If you are on your home turf, try to chill. Remember, chances are that the B*tch lives there too, and you will probably see her again. This is where patience kicks in.”—Da Kidd
Da Kidd also said remain a mystery to them. He further went on to say that you shouldn’t try to run down every girl that you see. Remember the saying "chase a ho and get a chumps cop, Stalk a ho ( do your homework on her ass) and get a pimps cop. Cop stands for having her on your team.
This shyt will take some time to get used to, but will pay off in the long run. “Remember...you aren't going anywhere, and neither are they. Drive their curiosity to a fever pitch. When they finally do speak to you or you decide that they are jocking you so tough that it's time to make that move, the amount of static she gives you (depending on your approach, of course) will be much of nothing.”
One key thing to remember is this... women jock men on the sneak. Not the way the we jock them. If you know this, you can use this against them. If you can see them, then they can see you…ie my standing on the edge of the dance floor or sometimes in the middle of it. I make people move around me sometimes. At the edge or in the middle of the floor.
If a byitch is on your Sh*t, she will position herself where she can get a good view of you. If you are sitting near the dance floor, and hoes start dancing like right in front of you, chances are they are jocking you. Especially if the dance floor isn't packed and they didn't have to dance right there. The less crowded an environment is, the more 'clean-cut' observations are. If the joint is jumpin', then you will have to rely
more on eye contact, proximity, and other subtle factors.
Here is an example: Lets say that you went to a mall or a lounge at school, and a B*tch is sitting quite a ways from you and tries to throw some trash away in the can that is in your proximity. No big deal right? WRONG. How about if there was a trash can a lot closer to her than yours was. She didn't have to come way over here just to throw away a lollipop stick, then return to her seat. Most people don't think twice about things like that, but they should. That is an excellent example of subtle jocking. If your obsevation skills are not up to par, you would miss that incident and quite a few more which could have been very revealing. Observations skills are hard to teach over the internet.
I always tell my buddies that I’m “on” 24/7. If I’m awake then I am alert and paying attention. I always notice when women are jocking me. This is why I’ve been successful in the night clubs at meeting women. You must pay attention at all times.
About 4 years ago I went to this thing called Burningman http://www.burningman.com
I was working for channel 6 in Sacramento with my buddy doing a story on this week long freak fest up in the Nevada desert. I was at one of the huge rave tents and had fallen asleep to the driving beats of techno/trance.
Suddenly I awoke to feel someone starring at me. I looked around and saw a ho that I new from my own town trying to figure out if it was me or not.
Here is an exercise that I want you to try: sit yourself down in the mall or at school or a book store and just practice. Watch which hoes decide to sit near you even when there are chairs all over the damn place. How many times a particular broad walks back and forth in front of you for no damn apparent reason at all.
Do this for a little while, then try your luck at the club. In the club, however, hoes are a little more aware that they are being watched, and will be a little harder to read. But, if you know what subtleties to look for, it won't be too hard. Soon you won't be getting dissed anymore because you will know exactly which broad(s) actually want to holla at you. As you know about my direct approach style based on my eye contact post, I don’t holla unless the ho is choosing.
There are other styles out there such as indirect and other seduction mixes. With indirect you holla at every ho even if there is no eye contact. This style you gotta have your game intact and going strong. There are pro’s and cons of each style out there.
But for this one get to practicing.
