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OamImrsNemo

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Thank you all first off for all the help you have been.

I am going to start a field report both for being able to go back and see how I have grown, to write it out and for those of you who would like to correct me. Please be brutally honest only way I can grow. I know I still need major work on myself. I feel some times I am better at giving advice then following through so hopefully this will help me.

Went to a party last night. Small get together mostly good friends. Was no way expecting any pvssy to be there as it was more of a guys night. So I was getting pretty drunk and a couple chicks came in I knew one and she brought in a HB7. I was not really interested only for the fact I don't like gaming girls when I am borderline drunk. I am sure I will forget something and I don't like the false confidence I would rather do it sober.

But we start playing beer pong and she can't keep her eyes from staring into mine. Every time I looked at her I would hold eye contact until she looked away. She couldn't make a cup for her life. My buddy kept joking saying quit staring at nemo's cvck and you might make a cup and she would blush and smile then stare into my eyes again. Sooo fvck it I was like this bvtch wants the ****. I started gaming her all night little flirts here and there trying the push pull method. Later that night I finally got her into a room alone. That's where she started drilling me with questions about my life she told me I had to sell myself for her. I was like fvck that come here. I made her sit on my lap then told her to tell me her qualities and why I should pick her out of all the flock of women I know. So she sold herself. I was joking around said O maybe your worth A date so I grabbed her number. I kept trying to progress sexually but she wouldn't even kiss me. She said she is not that easy. I am not gonna lie my sexual game was probably off since I had been drinking a lot.

She leaves I had her number. Next day (fvck the 3 day rule some times guys.) I text her later in the after noon. Which was my first mistake. Texting is a horrible idea I don't know why I did it!

ME: Hungover :D?
Her: Yeah.
Me: what you up to today?
3 hours later
Me: lets do something tonight

That ^---Ladies and gentlemen was where I fvcked up again. She did not respond I should have waited and called another day but I felt our connection was decent last night and maybe I could ring her in for something exciting tonight and I was horny as ****. But no response So I am going to have to next her and keep getting those numbers. I am camping with a big group on Sunday so hopefully some hotties will come but seeing as it is camping I doubt it haha.

Any improvements or ideas or suggestions feel free. Be as brutally honest as you want. I know I made some dip **** moves but whateva. My main focus is on improving my life and she does not fit my standards.
 

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I think she's an AW, based on how she essentially opened you, then asked you to qualify yourself.

That said, you came on too strong. When she qualified herself, you should've continued the push/pull. The best strategy is to verbally DISqualify yourself while physically escalating. Something like saying, "You need a guy that is gonna put you on a pedestal...I'm all wrong for you. We can be friends, though" Then, test her compliance and push things a bit more. With girls like this one, you CAN'T feed their ego by acknowledging that they won you over.

The text was bungled, but you already knew that. It probably didn't matter, anyway.

This was a good start, though. Your confidence is strong, and that's 90% of it right there.
 
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yo cuz i just got in from playin pong tonight, we should chill, i love playin pong :) haha the girl i played with the other day couldnt make **** either..
 

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Started a new job Thursday. I am hosting which sux as I am so used to serving but none the less.

hb8 Lead her to her table she kept talking and talking and talking.
I finally said hey I got to go back to work but if you would like to continue this conversation should leave your number. She wrote it down #close...


Question for anyone in the restaurant business any tips on getting girls numbers at work without getting in trouble? I see lots of hot chicks but don't really know how to open most of them at work?

Also what about dating co workers? I have a couple Hot b!tches I work with who I wanna hook up with.

Today I was letting this milf out of the door and she surprised me she started saying how much a gentlemen I was grabbed my hand with both of hers and kept talking me up then put both her hands around me and hugged me very intense couple minutes? I shoulda got her number ha ha...
 

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Called the chick whose number I got from while working. Left a message hey this is *** left my number and hung up. No response for 2 days now. Next....

Approached a chick at the mall today she was hella fine!

Me: Can you tell me where blah blah store is?
Her: Im not from here I am from blah blah (which is only about 30 mins away)
Me: damn...well maybe you can still be of some use.
Her: yeah? how so?
Me: well you could buy me dinner some time (handing my phone to her to typer her number)
Her: I dont know how my bf would feel about that.
Me: Well it was very nice meeting you (shake her hand and walk away)
 

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OamImrsNemo said:
Called the chick whose number I got from while working. Left a message hey this is *** left my number and hung up. No response for 2 days now. Next....

Approached a chick at the mall today she was hella fine!

Me: Can you tell me where blah blah store is?
Her: Im not from here I am from blah blah (which is only about 30 mins away)
Me: damn...well maybe you can still be of some use.
Her: yeah? how so?
Me: well you could buy me dinner some time (handing my phone to her to typer her number)
Her: I dont know how my bf would feel about that.
Me: Well it was very nice meeting you (shake her hand and walk away)
You didn't build any sort of rapport with this girl. You need to keep the conversation going a little bit longer in a situation like this, keep amplifying the attraction. You switched gears way too fast, you didn't give yourself time to work your charm on her! Talk to her a bit more before closing next time.
 

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Yeah I'd say so. Don't be boring, but at the same time don't jump the gun. Find out just a little about her, without making it seem like an interview. It takes awhile to get this down, and this whole thing is very situational, but generally speaking slowing it down and making a bit more fluff talk will definitely increase your numbers.
 

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Since no one answered about the co workers I have been gaming them.

One girl kept following me around at work always talking I finally decided fvck the fluff talk whats your number lets do something after work.. she gladly obliged but she did not get off of work until late and I had passed out :crackup:

2nd girl was today. I had been working on her for a little while kinda made fun of her for being such a big soccer fan (really like soccer but needed something) so I challenged her to a one on one soccer game she agreed got her number.

3rd girl I was flirting with all day long today as well giving her the I wanna fvck you eye's she asked me if I was dating anyone I said noooo why? Well my roomate....thats when I turned away ha ha. later I said if you want to ask me out on a date or my number don't give me those lame excuses.....She said she would when we wern't busy but never did .....o well..

I really don't feel like these were full on approaches but thought I would put them here anyways....
 

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Went out with co worker. We went out to this viewpoint and talked I escalated majorly then we move viewpoints across town. We talked alot and I think she is crazy started telling me stuff I did not need to know. I probably could have taken her home and fvcked her but I didn't want her to know where I live...
 

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