"Nympho with morals."

[seanarcher]

A girl described herself as a nympho with morals. Last time I checked, a nympho is someone with an irrepressible sexual appetite. I think what she means is, if she's going out with a guy, she can justify the sex because she thinks she's "in love."

This seems to be a common trend. A lot of women who are "born-again virgins." Will have sex if the guy commits, or pretends to commit (of course, we know the guy is probably just saying what she wants to hear and tapping her best friend on the side, but that's another issue) but won't have intentional casual sex even with the guy with the greatest game in the world.

My question is, how can these women just turn their sexual appetites on and off? I understand WHY they do it...they can justify sex in a relationship...anti-slut defense..."I'm not a slut if I'm only having sex with one guy" etc., but I don't know how they physically can deal without sex if they really like it.

 

[Interceptor]

Thats why they look for a man that satisfies her sexually.

 

[seanarcher]

Yes, and they'll commit with such a man, but my question is, how can they turn their sexual appetite on and off like a switch? If I'm horny, I'll hook up with a 7 who isn't exactly my type rather than "do without." Girls can just turn it off and wait for their "perfect guy."

 

[Interceptor]

I dont think they ever 'turn off' their sexual appetite.(unless it is some sort of medical condition or mental issue) Why should they?

Anyway, they manage it. And of course they also 'service' themselves when they cant find a suitable lover.

And my question is , why is this of concern to you?

 

[seanarcher]

It's important to me because I don't want to commit, or lie to them, to get laid. Not looking for a girlfriend, but also sick of the drunk women I see at bars and clubs. Would like to meet a girl that wants sex as badly as I do without being under the influence or in a relationship.

 

[The Bat]

So you want a fvck buddy?

Plenty of those out there. It's a matter of "game" and your skills with words.