DharmaBear
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Well said, Tony; I couldn't agree more.
no, the other 7 were real. 1 already had plans, but promised she really wanted to still hang out? 2 said they'd call back...never did; 1 i left a message for...i think she'd already left the dorm for the summer (just my luck); 1 has no answering machine and wasn't there...i may call back; 2 i haven't called yet because i don't think they had enough IL on the approach...and i don't think i will, so they might as well be fake too.Originally posted by al77
Why? the rest 7 numbers were fake?
You should tell us how you managed to get so high success rate without having supe handsome looks and not a lot fo experience?
The only thing I can say you look somewhat better than average
...if the convo never goes beyond "what school you go to to..."? It is a mystery to me. Maybe it is about connection - when you just "click" with a girl - and she talks.. talks and talks... and yeah ready to go on a date with you?
but, you have to be specific. i made the mistake of just saying "let's go for coffee sometime" and sure, most of the times they offered their phone number, one even asked for mine. but i should have said "what are you doing tomorrow/later?" and gone from there...i have to be more specific, and Francisco d'Anconia's post opened my eyes to this.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
...Don't ask her for her number, ask her to do sh!t with you first, and if she is into you, she will say yes and offer the number herself, and you wont have her flaking over the phone.
Doing this, you get a 100% calling success rate.
I guess you have to catch her off guard. i.e. even if she is interested but het IL is medium lets say, when you come with ""what are you doing tomorrow?" she may still resist and play "hard to get" just cuz she is a girl.. and you are a stranger.Originally posted by h2o
i made the mistake of just saying "let's go for coffee sometime" and sure, most of the times they offered their phone number, one even asked for mine. but i should have said "what are you doing tomorrow/later?"
Rapport is the key. Women by nature are EXTREMELY talkative. You only need to do two things:Originally posted by al77
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Anyway, if you can lead convo to that extent that she is willing to go on a date .. yes, it is due to true skills. Much better than anythig else. Would you elaborate on you conversational approach that leads to a date in teh end istaed of just a row of digits? That would be very interesting.