TheMonkeyKing
Master Don Juan
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Men get rejected or just flat ignored for all sorts of reasons; one of the main ones being thirst/desperation.
Deleting after 24hours is fine, but it signifies, a) placing too much investment and expectation with someone you hardly know, or even only just met, and b) placing too much value on oneself, i.e. you think you're so much different to every other schmuck who has come on to her that day. If you're the type to be deleting after a mere 24hrs, you probably gave off a very weird vibe in the first place; like your whole existence is hanging by a thread on this person's acknowledgement. Something to think about.
A few points;
-Most women have at least five inboxes, to which they receive a steady stream of messages from guys pretty much on a daily basis, even the ugly ones. Most of these dudes will have been disqualified long before the first message is ever sent. Let me tell you, unless you have a vivid imagination, outstanding social skills, genuinely authentic high value in some way, or ideally all of the above, you're no different to the rest. If you've piqued a girl's interest, she's not leaving you hanging for 24hrs, or much longer than that anyway.
-Out of all of those encounters, most women will have had AT LEAST one guy who has gone off on one, simply for the fact that this bird didn't reply within a timeframe that he deemed 'acceptable'. This is someone she hardly knows, in many cases with OLD, has not even ever met. Yet, he's already acting fcking weird, pretty much because he probably hasn't been laid in forever and now one woman shows half a second of interest.
-Women have evolved to play the game. And most are more competent at it than most men. I take numbers, and ye some never even message back, so what. There are a million more where they came from.
Men who are successful with women are not investing in taking numbers. They are investing principally in themselves and success with women is simply a bi-product.
Deleting after 24hours is fine, but it signifies, a) placing too much investment and expectation with someone you hardly know, or even only just met, and b) placing too much value on oneself, i.e. you think you're so much different to every other schmuck who has come on to her that day. If you're the type to be deleting after a mere 24hrs, you probably gave off a very weird vibe in the first place; like your whole existence is hanging by a thread on this person's acknowledgement. Something to think about.
A few points;
-Most women have at least five inboxes, to which they receive a steady stream of messages from guys pretty much on a daily basis, even the ugly ones. Most of these dudes will have been disqualified long before the first message is ever sent. Let me tell you, unless you have a vivid imagination, outstanding social skills, genuinely authentic high value in some way, or ideally all of the above, you're no different to the rest. If you've piqued a girl's interest, she's not leaving you hanging for 24hrs, or much longer than that anyway.
-Out of all of those encounters, most women will have had AT LEAST one guy who has gone off on one, simply for the fact that this bird didn't reply within a timeframe that he deemed 'acceptable'. This is someone she hardly knows, in many cases with OLD, has not even ever met. Yet, he's already acting fcking weird, pretty much because he probably hasn't been laid in forever and now one woman shows half a second of interest.
-Women have evolved to play the game. And most are more competent at it than most men. I take numbers, and ye some never even message back, so what. There are a million more where they came from.
Men who are successful with women are not investing in taking numbers. They are investing principally in themselves and success with women is simply a bi-product.
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