Number Close, now what?

[Leah]

Saw this guy in class, waited for him after and offered him a ride home whoch he accepted. Had chit chat, asked myself out with him and he said it'd be awkward as there's a girl there he's kind-of seeing. NEXT!

 

[catch]

hey, your doing everything right, youve already got his interest, thats evident!

anyhow, if your going to next him because hes seeing someone else then you've lost before youve even started...
its ten times easier to take a man than it is to keep a man.

now if you want to game this guy, you still can... he sounds pretty open to you, which means he will be pretty easy to bag if you play the cards right!:woo:

 

[Leah]

Elaborate....

 

[catch]

he's told you that he's kind of seeing someone, iv'e always thought if your just "seeing " someone then your options remain, open!

hes playing hard to get, which guys do "do", and he's trying to send you mixed signals! maybe hes not the afc, some thought he was, therefore, you are the one being seduced! hes causing you to"wonder" about him!

007 is a secret agent, his main skill was seducing his enemy!
a classical military tactic "infiltration", he would slip through the defenses of his enemy, like a trojan horse!

if you, abide by his rules, follow his lead in the game, become what he wants you to become, chase him...for now... and slip through his defenses where, then, you strike...!

once you gained his interest, once he thinks he has you under his control, then it is your turn, it will be your chance to make HIM "wonder" about you!
play his game for now, when the opportunity arrises, then TURN THE TABLES!

 

[Iamnotacrook]

Originally posted by Leah
I'll try my luck tomorrow casually, and hope he doesn't LJBF me!

This is hilarious. A chick using the DJ terms. :crackup:

This site... is not actually for women... you do know that, right? Neg hitting a quiet guy doesn't help JACK!! lol

 

[TxCowboy]

Originally posted by The_Shezzler

Personally i think the whole philosophy around when to call/ when not to call as gone to a level of complete nonsense.

My field tested methods (that work - because the initial meeting built rapport and made a connection) are to call the girl WHENEVER YOU feel like it.

Is she/he really gonna lose sleep about whether or not you call her/him?:

1. The day after you met?
2. 2-3 days later?
3. 1 week later?

No way, if you build the connection when you first meet her/him, that initial approach will justify calling her/him anytime you wish (within reason) thus eliminating the so called 'Phone Rules' from seduction history.

Yeah these chicks have caught on to all that BS ....

I asked a random chick the other day at a party I was at on campus and she was telling me about girls knowing about that 3 day waiting period and what cr@p it is. Most can tell that your just playin' em if you do that and they'll just blow u off

 

[Leah]

Found a new toy now anyway. Ha! Thank you all for your help xxx