Now what? Bring the player back?

[metalwater]

I told her it was from stress brother it wasn’t. The real reason was I started a steroid cycle. No way in **** I can admit that to her so I told her it was stress from work.

well, that is a different matter then. sorry for the bad advice, it was based on what you had told. just scratch it, doesn't apply to this case.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I told her it was from stress brother it wasn’t. The real reason was I started a steroid cycle. No way in **** I can admit that to her so I told her it was stress from work.

Your estradiol levels are out of whack. Classic symptom. What estrogen controls are you taking?

 

[captain55]

A "player" would never say such a thing. Only a beta.

Just curious...what benefit do I have to lying to people on this forum? What I am admitting on here is beyond embarrassing.You are generalizing. There are guys who **** lots of women who never get attached and those that lose their **** and commit suicide

Your estradiol levels are out of whack. Classic symptom. What estrogen controls are you taking?

None arimidex shuts my sex drive off.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Just curious...what benefit do I have to lying to people on this forum? What I am admitting on here is beyond embarrassing.You are generalizing. There are guys who **** lots of women who never get attached and those that lose their **** and commit suicide


None arimidex shuts my sex drive off.

Try Aromasin. If you are on cycles without estrogen control you shouldn't be doing cycles. It's exceptionally dangerous for males to have out of control estrogen levels and is likely what is causing your emotions to be all over the place. You basically have the emotions and mood swings of a women.

Aromasin and progesterone cream will fix your issue.

 

[Murk]

Just curious...what benefit do I have to lying to people on this forum?

Well... you made out in your OP and to your GF the "not getting hard" was lack of sex drive/stress-related... now you're saying it's steroid related.

I think if you approached this girl and won her being a "player" and can't keep up the facade it's time to find a new gameplan

 

[captain55]

Whether you invest in chicks or not, its going to end at some point. Not investing keeps them invested and trying to hook you but soon they get sick of that and move on. Investing in them turns them off because they know they have you. Its a no win situation. She sounds like a manipulator and you should stay away form girls like that.

Just try to calm down, take a step back and look at the situation without emotions. Then you can work out on how to proceed.

I hear what your saying but eventually you have to take a chance. Constantly spinning plates to avoid ever getting oneitus is good though I did it the last 3 years. But to be honest I prefer the feeling of being in love. Just amazed at how quickly **** turned south. Up until two weeks ago I was in the drivers seat

 

[captain55]

What do you mean selfish? Its been said no girl is bad in bed. Not my quote but i do know desire to take control goes a long way. During those times of low Labedo take breaks and work out

In the beginning of the relationship when I was a ****en stud, just going up to her was enough for me to get me hard and **** the **** out of her. She would come onto me often as well. I felt like a king. Things were natural and easy, Even though it was always strictly about me pleasing her.

But the last few times I’ve failed in bed with her that stopped working. And after the first bad performance it led to 2-3 times where I was getting performance anxiety things didn’t flow anymore ...if she would simply have given me head a few times I think all of this could of been prevented. I’ve been hard many times with her since and she never makes a move on me ever anymore so it’s not like I got a medical issue.

In a nutshell- I feel like my gf has the attitude that she’s hot so she can be lazy and if a guy doesn’t stay rock hard for two hours at the mere sight of her bending over there is something wrong with him. Bomb ***** I admit, but if she doesn’t start giving me head I don’t know if the mere sight of her is going to Just give me rock hard wood 24/7 like she expects. She did tell her gf she loved my ****

 

[captain55]

I think I hold the record on this site. I don’t think any guy here has Dated a chick 3 months, maintained frame for that long... gone from a legit 10 in a woman’s eyes to where her friends say all she does is talk about you, to her legitimately not being into me in a matter of one week. I’m Dead serious in 3 months I maybe called her or texted her first twice.

Lesson learned I got too ****y. Thought my game was so advanced, and that I was so alpha and good in bed...that I could start a steroid cycle with a selfish chick in bed that was raped 4 months prior to meeting me and things would be all
Fine and dandy somehow. Sometimes you gotta laugh . Dig the girl I hope it works but I’m not gonna force it.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Just goes to prove how important secs is. Its the glue.
Im not here to judge the steroid thing or whatever it is you are taking. But maybe take breaks during that time and work in some soft dread game.
The devil makes it real easy to have self defeating thoughts in this world. Be aware of that too.

No reason that has to happen on steroids. People simply don't do enough research into everything they need to so that they can do it safely with maximum supports and maintain functioning in the bedroom. Hormones are not something to be cavalierly played with without understanding 100% of what is going to happen and what needs to be done to combat it.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

i promise all you young players The girl you fall in love with will never be the girl you have the best sex with. And the girl you have the best sex with you most likely won’t be able to stand being around for more than a few hours.

this is PROLIFIC.
i hope to never see you post like this asking what to do ever again, you got the game already.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

interesting you say this. She grabbed my phone and saw some Snapchat’s from other hot women. I deleted them. When I really committed to her,thats when **** fell apart. When I had other bitches on my radar, things were better for me. She even asked me “baby are you hiding anything”

are you guys saying I have to cheat on her to keep her? I would rather not honestly just for karma

Bruh... This is done.

You talk to them in real life only, approach, bruh this is a face palm, never do this again, approach in person only when attached, no trail to follow

 

[Romanemp22]

Any kind of pressure or stress will lead you to be bad or not in the mood for fvck which is perfectly normal in those situations and she should know that. She's indeed very selfish.

If she was a worthy gf she would understand you and gave you the most epic BJ you ever had. After that you would relax and would fvck her to the core.

Sex is not about pressing or anything, it happens naturally because you want to enjoy it.

You love her and I may be wrong because I don't know your overall relationship but I think it's a wrong one.

When a woman say she's sexually frustrated she already have her mind on calling another guy to fvck her if her boyfriend is not in the mood. No quality woman will do that, EVER!

But as you say you care about her and you as a former player, should know that if you're stressed out or pressured, you still have your fingers and tongue to rock her universe.

 

[Kotaix]

You're being duplicitous. You say you want to settle down with a while picket fence because you've become more religious and yet you're keeping random skanks on Snapchat as backup? She's right to turn on you, you haven't been honest. If you're such a great player then why would you need to keep any women on the backburner.

It seems your problem is that you've violated your own rules and you're in a state of cognitive dissonance. Women don't respect loyalty? Sounds like projection to me. You need to own up to your mistakes before you start accusing others.

And I don't want to come across as sanctimonious here either. I've been guilty of this same thing many times and I've lost girls because of it. All we can do when we fall down is get back up and try harder next time.

 

[captain55]

Well fellas, should I go out and bang some slut to get my swag back? Feel like I might have to in order to save this relationship

Any kind of pressure or stress will lead you to be bad or not in the mood for fvck which is perfectly normal in those situations and she should know that. She's indeed very selfish.

If she was a worthy gf she would understand you and gave you the most epic BJ you ever had. After that you would relax and would fvck her to the core.

Sex is not about pressing or anything, it happens naturally because you want to enjoy it.

You love her and I may be wrong because I don't know your overall relationship but I think it's a wrong one.

When a woman say she's sexually frustrated she already have her mind on calling another guy to fvck her if her boyfriend is not in the mood. No quality woman will do that, EVER!

But as you say you care about her and you as a former player, should know that if you're stressed out or pressured, you still have your fingers and tongue to rock her universe.

yes ate her out like crazy. In regards to your comment “if she was a worthy gf she would understand you and give you the most epic bj you ever had. After that you would relax and **** her to the core” yes I couldn’t agree more. This weekend I was hard as hell and that’s all I wanted. She could of saved the relationship right there but she’s selfish. If she would of given me head this weekend this entire thread wouldn’t be happening.

I try to tell myself to be understanding because this is a chick who was raped in the past. She hates losing control. An emotionally healthy chick would “take one for the team” and go out of her way to get her our sex life back, I don’t think this one is capable of that. I’m being patient with her, but if she wasn’t raped I probably would of been done after this weekend.

my logic- our relationship is falling apart because I couldn’t get hard with you the last 2-3 times, here I am rock hard and you don’t even touch me because your tired and not in the mood. What the ****?! You don’t reject a boyfriend of 3 months when you know his confidence is probably at a low point. Maybe subconsciously she wants the relationship to fail who knows. I will say this, she did admit to me the less I wanted to **** her the more it turned her on. She always tried to have sex With me when I ignored her

 

[captain55]

You're being duplicitous. You say you want to settle down with a while picket fence because you've become more religious and yet you're keeping random skanks on Snapchat as backup? She's right to turn on you, you haven't been honest. If you're such a great player then why would you need to keep any women on the backburner.

It seems your problem is that you've violated your own rules and you're in a state of cognitive dissonance. Women don't respect loyalty? Sounds like projection to me. You need to own up to your mistakes before you start accusing others.

And I don't want to come across as sanctimonious here either. I've been guilty of this same thing many times and I've lost girls because of it. All we can do when we fall down is get back up and try harder next time.

This was in the beginning of the relationship yes. But I have never cheated on her and wasn’t planning on doing so. Brother you never really know a girl 100%

 

[bat soup]

I hung up the player cleats. Reasons? A combination of baby fever, becoming more religious, and wanting the house with the white picket fence.

I met a 21 year old and we fell in love. Of course I got her to say she loves me first you ****s I’m no rookie

The girl prior to her was a stripper, of course she will never know this I Don’t ever want her to know how many women I’ve ****ed or about my player days. But yeah my game was good. I saw her across the bar and said “she’s next” and sure enough pulled her. That’s how advanced my game was ..not being ****y just being honest ...


Things were great for 3 months until about 3 weeks ago. Ive been stressed with work and my sex drive took a dip. Prior to this, she was calling me daddy and was very clingy to me. Now the tables have turned. I’m shocked she’s still with me honestly, Saturday she said she is sexually frustrated but says she wants to work it out. I can tell she’s hanging on...desperately waiting for the stud to come back that approached her at the bar that night and ****ed her brains out. I’m trying hard to get back to being that guy too. And I did Saturday night... I was hard as hell and she doesn’t do anything.

My confidence is at a low point right now and a simple ******* Saturday night I feel could of saved the relationship. I am having a hard time admitting to myself the girl I decided to settle down with is selfish in bed.

So what do I do fellas. Do I bring the bad boy back and start hitting the strip clubs? I used to game strippers and date them for fun. Do I become the cheating Verbally Abusive ******* like I was in the past? At least those women viewed me as alpha,

Life is a trip I will tell ya. i promise all you young players The girl you fall in love with will never be the girl you have the best sex with. And the girl you have the best sex with you most likely won’t be able to stand being around for more than a few hours.

I’m going to give it a week. If she doesn’t turn **** Around I’m out fellas. What would you do? I love her and I want it to work. But I feel like a shell of a guy that I was a month ago. I can’t let this girl take my confidence away. I need to **** the **** out of some hot slut and get back to being the guy that I used to be. Im counting on her, she’s everything to me. If the sex turns around I’m gonna wife her up. But she’s selfish in bed so I’m not getting my hopes up. **** this sucks..

Why not take her to a Tijuana strip club and let her watch whilst you lick cocaine out of a stripper's *****? That's what I always do.

 

[Grinderman]

Does she want to be "wifed up"? I highly doubt it.

In what way have you become more religious? Do you attend a church / mix with others of the same religious vocation? Probably your best bet if you want to "wife" someone up is to be found there, with time and patience.