Now this is an awesome technique!!!

[PRMoon]

I still prefer my number exchange method so we both have each others numbers. It's still the least intrusive way of getting a girls number and getting yours to them. I also only exchange after building some basic repore so I've already gauged some level if intrest before the attempt. You get a real number 100 percent of the time, you retain your ability to call her and you recognize her if she decides to call you.

It's a completely flawless approach that's tried and true. It leaves no room for doubt, it presents no errors, you can avoid unusual or uncomfortable situations in all circumstances, and it's an overall confidence booster after you've pulled it off.

 

[Derek Flint]

Some of you guys will never understand this concept. You're so stuck on this "Be a man-take the lead" bullshyt that you can't even see straight.

YOU ARE BEING THE MAN. By putting the ball in her court, you're weeding out those with low interest level. If she doesn't call you, so what? What's the difference between what I'm suggesting and asking for her number? She can still say no, or give you a fake number. At least this way, if she calls you, you know she's interested. You're not waiting around for any particular girl to call you, you're out gaming.

I've tried this technique approximately 20 times. Of which I think 3 women called me. That doesn't sound like a lot, but it's 15 percent. That sure beats the shyt out of the 2 percent success rate most guys get with cold approaches.

15%?

That's it?

As for low interest level, if you've got game, you raise a girls interest level.

Even after the initial meeting, you can do it by phone.

And yes, you are the Man - you get the number, make the call, make the plans, make the first move, and all that other stuff.

If you want to wait and hope 15% of those girls you give your number to will call, be my guest, but I'd rather create my own destiny, instead of hoping my phone rings.

It's a simple concept - be a Man, take the lead.

Women like that.

And it works far, far better than the passive approach you're pushing.

This "give them your number" BS is for those guys that are too afraid to be direct, so they would rather be rejected passively than to flat out ask for a number and to make the call.

Pretty weak ****.

Grow a pair, be a Man, watch your success rate skyrocket.

 

[ryannath]

Well, unless you are some kind of super hot guy or rich and famous, I would say this wouldn't work very much. Even when a woman is very attracted to you and you don't ask for her number, she will give you her number. That has happened to me before where I never asked for the woman's number, she just volunteered it. She expected me to call, cause that's how it works.

 

[Oxide]

Hey to the original poster. Let me ask you, what is the success rate for this? What is the motha****ing success rate of her dialing your digits after the cold approach with an intent to actually GO ON A DATE WITH YOU. No, I didn't say "Hey I am bored with my friend...what are you doing?" That doesn't count, she must call and say "Hey I wanted to take you out"... how often did that happen? Huh?!





Dude I've been to that store and bought that shirt. This works rarely, but this is a GREAT tool to check if the girl has any backbone. Do they? The truth is, most of them don't. They are scared of calling a guy with an intention... man look at yourself when u are about to call a chick... and they are the weaker sex.

So my point is - get her digits. Call her phone so she has your digits. Then work it from there but you will probably call first.

This reminds me, I never called back this girl...and it's been like 4 days. Ha

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

This is an awesome technique, if you don't agree with this it is because you are a loser who can only get the hottest babes by the use of manipulation, if a large percentage of the hot babes that you meet are strongly attracted to you they will happily phone you to arrange the date, this is the best way to go if you are a true AlphaMale with confidence, charm, and, charisma.

 

[jonwon]

This is an awesome technique, if you don't agree with this it is because you are a loser who can only get the hottest babes by the use of manipulation, if a large percentage of the hot babes that you meet are strongly attracted to you they will happily phone you to arrange the date, this is the best way to go if you are a true AlphaMale with confidence, charm, and, charisma.

I dont agree and i bet you all your money i have fu** more hot women then you!! does that make me a looser?
Ok!

Let me break down your post, simply due to your negative attitude which tbh as annoyed me by stating anyone who does not agree is a looser!

Quote:
if a large percentage of the hot babes that you meet are strongly attracted to you they will happily phone you.

Exactly my point, so your saying most babes will be attracted to you simply by walking upto them and giving them your number? right, so what are we seeing here, yes this goes back to super flash guys only (suppose this is manipulation too, right!!!?)! get it? no, even then its still subject to alot of circumstance with the result not around the cold approach but around alot of other things, i cant be arse* posting this here, if you dont know why i aint going to enlighten you, simply due to the fact i dont want to!

Also you contradict your-self here too.
Quote:
a true AlphaMale with confidence, charm, and, charisma.

So giving a number out to a random women, equals confidence?
Yes sure it does, any smuck can go up to a women and give her a number, takes about as much confidence as getting out of bed on a morning. So this point fails!
Charm, where is the charm? Charm tell me where it is?#
Charisma? again how did you show charisma?

A true alpah male shows, charm, charisma and confidnce by talking to the women first, manipulation you say?

You really think women are that stupid?

I do pitty stuff like this i really do!

I do hope your being sarcastic!

 

[Last Man Standing]

It is not in the woman's nature to be a pursuer - this will not work most of the time! Remember, you are the predator and she is the prey!!

 

[lookyoung]

It is something that is worth trying. U figure u must be a pretty good looking guy to get called back with this method. But here is the thing, if the girl calls she is probably going to be easy to have sex with..

Even though the chances of getting a callback are slim. For a cold approach your chances are slim anyway, and this takes a lot of pressure off of you. It is easier to just give phone number anyway.


I think if a girl is single and is realllly into u I think this method could work 0-20% of time.

 

[~attrACTION~]

I've tried this a few times, and I will say I've had incredible success with it. It not only weeds out the flakes, but it gets you women who really want to be with you.

Try this: If you see a woman you want to ask out, walk up to her and tell her that she seems nice/attractive/interesting etc....... THEN give her YOUR PHONE NUMBER, and tell her if she'd ever like to go out and spend some time together to give you a call.

Here's why this is better than asking for her number.

1) You take the pressure off her having to answer right away. Normally she might be too defensive to say yes right away, but given the chance to think about it, she might change her mind. Because you were a gentleman and left the ball in her court.

2) Safety issue. A lot of women are scared, and rightfully so, of giving out their numbers. If they can reach you, it might creat a comfort zone for them that they'll run with.

3) If she does call you, then you instantly know she's at least somewhat into you. Why else would she make an effort? This reason alone weeds out a lot of flakes.

4) It's less chance of rejection. More women will comply with this request than handing out their numbers on a cold approach. And even if she doesn't call back, who cares? You don't lose any face, and you didn't waste any time playing phone tag wondering if she likes you.

I'm not sure if this has ever been mentioned before on the board, but I truly think it's a superior alternative to the traditional cold approach.

Hey Mr_knowit_all, when you've done this, do you carry around a pen and paper to write your number down?

I was thinking what if you wrote it on her hand? I might try this. Still, I'm interesting in knowing how YOU give your phone number to a girl without telling her to take out her phone and enter it with your name. Also, do you do this when the girl is already showing you signs?

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

It is not in the woman's nature to be a pursuer - this will not work most of the time! Remember, you are the predator and she is the prey!!

Puhlease...you're living in the 1950s.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

15%?

That's it?

As for low interest level, if you've got game, you raise a girls interest level.

Even after the initial meeting, you can do it by phone.

And yes, you are the Man - you get the number, make the call, make the plans, make the first move, and all that other stuff.

If you want to wait and hope 15% of those girls you give your number to will call, be my guest, but I'd rather create my own destiny, instead of hoping my phone rings.

It's a simple concept - be a Man, take the lead.

Women like that.

And it works far, far better than the passive approach you're pushing.

This "give them your number" BS is for those guys that are too afraid to be direct, so they would rather be rejected passively than to flat out ask for a number and to make the call.

Pretty weak ****.

Grow a pair, be a Man, watch your success rate skyrocket.

You're a dyckless wonder. This technique is totally alpha. If you're the prize, the bytch should put in a little effort too.

As far as me growing a pair, If you and I stood side by side, I'm willing to bet my nuts hang lower. Again, put a picture up. I'm sick of these big shyt talking idiots who never show who they are.

 

[Freddy1]

.... That sure beats the shyt out of the 2 percent success rate most guys get with cold approaches.

How did you come out with that figure?

 

[Derek Flint]

Whatever dude, your 15% "success" rate speaks volumes.

Guys like you are so scared of rejection, that they take the indirect, passive route.

Your fragile ego can't stand being directly rejected, so you take passive rejection instead.

Guys with balls do cold walk ups, spit game, get the digits and tap ass.

Guys without balls give out their number and wait by the phone, hoping it will ring.

Your "awesome technique" is lame, and I have a feeling it won't be in the DJ bible any time soon.

BTW, my pic is in my profile, for anyone who wants to see it.

 

[Freddy1]

Mr_knowit_all
My second question wasnt answered.
"2) Whats your age? How do you rate yourself in the terms of appearance? (1-10 scale)"

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

How did you come out with that figure?

That's the figure that's been thrown around on here.

I happen to think 15 percent is pretty good. Are you telling me that if you could land 15 out of every 100 women you asked out, that you wouldn't be satisfied?

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

Whatever dude, your 15% "success" rate speaks volumes.

Guys like you are so scared of rejection, that they take the indirect, passive route.

Your fragile ego can't stand being directly rejected, so you take passive rejection instead.

Guys with balls do cold walk ups, spit game, get the digits and tap ass.

Guys without balls give out their number and wait by the phone, hoping it will ring.

Your "awesome technique" is lame, and I have a feeling it won't be in the DJ bible any time soon.

BTW, my pic is in my profile, for anyone who wants to see it.

This has nothing to do with ego, or being able to take rejection. It's obvious you're delusional. If you do "cold approaches, spit game" I can assure you don't tap any ass.

You're just another big mouth blow hard who's too insecure to try something different.

The point of this board is to offer advice on how to pick up women, not how to project a false "ballsy" image. Only guys who have no balls do that.

By the way, half of your picture is covered up by the flash, and what is visible takes away from any credibility you have on here.

 

[PRMoon]

What are the benifits of this method over a number exchange method?

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

What are the benifits of this method over a number exchange method?

I happen to think the number exchange is a pretty good idea. I don't know if there are any "benefits" over your technique, mine just works better for me.

 

[pimpin IS easy]

That's the figure that's been thrown around on here.

I happen to think 15 percent is pretty good. Are you telling me that if you could land 15 out of every 100 women you asked out, that you wouldn't be satisfied?

if a girl calls u, that doesnt mean you've landed her.........please refrain from your geek pimp techniques, don't pollute this great forum

how many girls u ****ed from doing this? ZERO??

 

[Freddy1]

I happen to think 15 percent is pretty good. Are you telling me that if you could land 15 out of every 100 women you asked out, that you wouldn't be satisfied?

To be honest not really. (a 100 women?!)
1 women in 2 is alot better.

I couldnt find the 2 percent success figure using the search function anywhere here (other this post topic). Can anyone else find it????