OK, this is gonna be a long story, get up some coffee before you begin... 
First off, I was an AFC. The real one. I didn't have a bare idea how dating works, how to talk with girls I was attracted to, nothing...
And then, I started going to high school. Still the same problem. Chicks were everywhere, but I didn't have a bare idea what to do. One night, though, I told to myself that I needed to do something if I wanted to change the situation. I still remember how frustrated I was back then. The first thing I did was to Google for something of that matter. Suddenly, I found a majority of high quality dating web sites (SoSuave being one of them, of course).
I suddenly discovered the whole dating community and that was the time when I started learning.
I soon discovered the works of David DeAngelo and began reading his books. At first, it was all strange, but eventually everything made sense. That was the first time that I shifted my way of thinking, and his writings really helped me out a lot. I changed the whole perspective of girls and got a totally different mindset.
Soon after that, I made a lot more friends with girls. My self confidence skyrocketed. Things were going fine, until, well, until May this year...
There is a girl in my school which I really got attracted to, but we didn't know each other. Months passed and I was unsure if I really was attracted to her, beating myself up what to do. And then, I went camping with my friends in May this year, and she was in the group, too. We met each other, talked for a few hours, I was ****y & Funny all the time, she laughed, there were even some kino and the stuff.
We get back to school, keep talking with each other, tease each other, everything going wonderfully.
And then came the summer holiday... We were still occasionally meeting each other at nights, I was with my friends, she was with hers, but, suddenly, she doesn't initiate any contact with me. That's where everything started to f**k up. Time passed, and we started going to school again. Still no any contact from her side. Like she was ignoring me.
Then suddenly, again, we started talking to each other, like nothing happened, we tease each other again, and so on...
Then we went to a school excursion together, and again there was no contact between each other. Again she ignored me. We go back from the excursion, and she keeps ignoring me. I really don't know what's the point.
Why do I put so much energy on this girl, you may ask. Well, I know her really well now, and she actually has great personality. She also looks wonderfully. This really isn't a girl I would like to lose. I often catch myself daydreaming and thinking where is she right now and what is she doing. That's a strong indication that I would like to have a relationship with her. There are not so many girls like this one in my area. The other girls are just not so mature as this one. But I simply don't know what's going on here. Why she keeps shifting her behavior? I simply don't get it. Any clue on all this?
First off, I was an AFC. The real one. I didn't have a bare idea how dating works, how to talk with girls I was attracted to, nothing...
And then, I started going to high school. Still the same problem. Chicks were everywhere, but I didn't have a bare idea what to do. One night, though, I told to myself that I needed to do something if I wanted to change the situation. I still remember how frustrated I was back then. The first thing I did was to Google for something of that matter. Suddenly, I found a majority of high quality dating web sites (SoSuave being one of them, of course).
I suddenly discovered the whole dating community and that was the time when I started learning.
I soon discovered the works of David DeAngelo and began reading his books. At first, it was all strange, but eventually everything made sense. That was the first time that I shifted my way of thinking, and his writings really helped me out a lot. I changed the whole perspective of girls and got a totally different mindset.
Soon after that, I made a lot more friends with girls. My self confidence skyrocketed. Things were going fine, until, well, until May this year...
There is a girl in my school which I really got attracted to, but we didn't know each other. Months passed and I was unsure if I really was attracted to her, beating myself up what to do. And then, I went camping with my friends in May this year, and she was in the group, too. We met each other, talked for a few hours, I was ****y & Funny all the time, she laughed, there were even some kino and the stuff.
We get back to school, keep talking with each other, tease each other, everything going wonderfully.
And then came the summer holiday... We were still occasionally meeting each other at nights, I was with my friends, she was with hers, but, suddenly, she doesn't initiate any contact with me. That's where everything started to f**k up. Time passed, and we started going to school again. Still no any contact from her side. Like she was ignoring me.
Then suddenly, again, we started talking to each other, like nothing happened, we tease each other again, and so on...
Then we went to a school excursion together, and again there was no contact between each other. Again she ignored me. We go back from the excursion, and she keeps ignoring me. I really don't know what's the point.
Why do I put so much energy on this girl, you may ask. Well, I know her really well now, and she actually has great personality. She also looks wonderfully. This really isn't a girl I would like to lose. I often catch myself daydreaming and thinking where is she right now and what is she doing. That's a strong indication that I would like to have a relationship with her. There are not so many girls like this one in my area. The other girls are just not so mature as this one. But I simply don't know what's going on here. Why she keeps shifting her behavior? I simply don't get it. Any clue on all this?
