BackInTheGame78
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Have had this happen quite a few times now where I will be out on an initial date and we will be sitting next to each other at the bar talking. At first she isn't really giving any indications to me of interest, I will continue playing it cool, spreading out, leaning back...some small Kino like grabbing her hand/wrist and asking about a bracelet, etc...
At some point, maybe 20-30 mins in, I will notice her turn her entire body to face me, usually ending with our legs/knees touching. Obviously this is a pretty good IOI, and then she will usually start Kino on me...
Just interested as to why the nonchlantness at first even tho she ends up being into me? Is it a desperation test? As in seeing how I will respond? Something else?
Just had it happen again last night...ended date with a pretty strong makeout after she was very touchy feely on the walk to her car...
Wondering if maybe my calm, relaxed demeanor has them more guarded? Just interested in the dynamics going on here...
At some point, maybe 20-30 mins in, I will notice her turn her entire body to face me, usually ending with our legs/knees touching. Obviously this is a pretty good IOI, and then she will usually start Kino on me...
Just interested as to why the nonchlantness at first even tho she ends up being into me? Is it a desperation test? As in seeing how I will respond? Something else?
Just had it happen again last night...ended date with a pretty strong makeout after she was very touchy feely on the walk to her car...
Wondering if maybe my calm, relaxed demeanor has them more guarded? Just interested in the dynamics going on here...