blackhatter
Don Juan
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Here it is..
I'm currently in college, broke up with the ex. Without bragging, everyone tells me "I'm in demand" as far as women are concerned in greek life.
So I my friend tells me that his girl's friend thinks I'm cute. I ended up hooking up with her at the bar about a week ago. She's very cute, very outgoing. I showed a good bit of interest, but I didn't chase her in the least.
We ended up hanging out this weekend. I took her home from the club after dancing, hooking up with her, etc. Slept at her place.. the girl was all over me. She kept dropping comments like "oh you think you're so hot with your shirt off, etc." Basically did everything but sex.
The next I called her up to see what she was up to after going out. She tells me to come by her place. I told her I'd come by only if it's worth it. She says to me "I'll bring a visitor pass out so you can stay the night. Is that worth it?"
Once again, I slept at her place and things worked out well. The morning turned to be a little awkward. We were cuddling and all that bs, but I ended up leaving a little early not to wear out my welcome. Things were feeling "boring" so I picked that time to leave.
NOW here is what gets me. I goto kiss her bye and she goes for the half cheek/half lip kiss. I'm not imagining things, it was a deliberate kiss to the side of the lip. She was in front of a few of her friends, so that could've been a reason. Just Weird because when I said good bye the other day she gave me a huge kiss on the lips.
It's been a day now, haven't talked or called her at all.
I like the girl but I'm trying to decide whether I came on a little too strong and overstayed my welcome, or if she's just insecure that I don't like her. I'm not the type to chase women, so I don't think I'll contact her until she contacts me. Am I doing the right thing?
I'm currently in college, broke up with the ex. Without bragging, everyone tells me "I'm in demand" as far as women are concerned in greek life.
So I my friend tells me that his girl's friend thinks I'm cute. I ended up hooking up with her at the bar about a week ago. She's very cute, very outgoing. I showed a good bit of interest, but I didn't chase her in the least.
We ended up hanging out this weekend. I took her home from the club after dancing, hooking up with her, etc. Slept at her place.. the girl was all over me. She kept dropping comments like "oh you think you're so hot with your shirt off, etc." Basically did everything but sex.
The next I called her up to see what she was up to after going out. She tells me to come by her place. I told her I'd come by only if it's worth it. She says to me "I'll bring a visitor pass out so you can stay the night. Is that worth it?"
Once again, I slept at her place and things worked out well. The morning turned to be a little awkward. We were cuddling and all that bs, but I ended up leaving a little early not to wear out my welcome. Things were feeling "boring" so I picked that time to leave.
NOW here is what gets me. I goto kiss her bye and she goes for the half cheek/half lip kiss. I'm not imagining things, it was a deliberate kiss to the side of the lip. She was in front of a few of her friends, so that could've been a reason. Just Weird because when I said good bye the other day she gave me a huge kiss on the lips.
It's been a day now, haven't talked or called her at all.
I like the girl but I'm trying to decide whether I came on a little too strong and overstayed my welcome, or if she's just insecure that I don't like her. I'm not the type to chase women, so I don't think I'll contact her until she contacts me. Am I doing the right thing?
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