Not sure how to play this one

[Vanderdonck]

I probably am. The women I was in a relationship with had various conditions, over the last couple years I've been through a rollercoaster. I swear I have some mild form of PTSD from it ( I honestly wish I could say that was joking).

Just trying to find me feet again. Actually starting to feel like myself lately. Going decent with both, still holding at arms length though, there are also a few others in the picture.

But trying to not over do it. Just in the background. Last thing I want is complications as I'm building myself up. At the moment I think I'm mostly using them for validation.

That will start changing soon enough. I really want a bit of a wild summer, so I'm keeping focused on that as a goal.

Another complication is my ex, she has been sending me messages putting her feelers out. I need to avoid that like the plague.

Hopefully around may/june I'll be full steam ahead!

I totally feel you, have been there. I disagree with others who say just go for it (though I respect their opinion here, it makes sense).

If you're fresh off of a relationship with PTSD to boot, and there's a girl you like a lot coming on strong and you want to be out tearing through new a$$, it makes perfect sense to avoid her. Just because you can fukk a girl doesn't mean you should. In the end you gotta do what's best for you.

However, it's important you also don't place any narratives on this girl and her intentions either. For all you know she might just want a romp in the hay or something casual. It's very easy to build a girl you like up to be a princess when in fact she's got a vagina and wants it filled like any of them.

But in the end this is about where you are at and what you can handle. If you don't have the headspace to keep this girl as just a plate (assuming it goes that way) then give yourself a break. There will be PLENTY of women, dog. Abundance is abundance.

 

[Solomon]

OP if you just got out of a relationship there are a few way you can approach this

1. Take a break nothing wrong with taking 6 months-1 year off- focus on your mental health and other aspects
2. Date casually-If you just want to have fun let the women know you just don't want something seriously some women will be down for that most won't

However with your mindset right now, you will just set yourself up for disaster because you're obviously emotionally not ready for anything right now besides maybe getting your rocks off.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

Okay, so the main three.
The dog girl seen her a few times, that's awesome (not much to say really)

The teacher. Full on kinky one. She went quiet for a lil bit , so I forgot about her/ignored her low effort communication. I think that must of triggered some insecurities or something as she's now chasing hard.

There is also an Arabic women. Which is a wildcard.

It's like she's teleported out the 1950's, as in super traditional, submissive, so easy to lead, completely the opposite of western women, looks like a young Natalie Portman. I've only kissed her.

The kiss was a massive deal for her we kissed on the first date, I think I'm the third guy she's ever kissed in her life, she's in her early 30's (8 years younger than me), she was blown away by the kiss and can't stop talking about it.

I've put the breaks on escalating physically out of pure respect.