Recent convo from OKC with some comments/translation in parentheses, feel free to leave any feedback or thoughts. I don't generally post about individual girls but this shows how much BS you have to push through to get a number sometimes. This is about as persistent as I ever want to be getting a number from online and even this was probably too much..
me: damn, youre pretty.. and 81% match.. pick you up around 8?
her: Oh my you don't waste time do you
(i may blow you soon if youre not an idiot)
me: why waste time.. when i see something i want i go get it (total b.s. i have almost zero ambition in life)
her: I guess that's true no beating around the bush (giggity)
me: i have tennis tonight actually but leave me your # and we can meet up during the week (tired and wasnt actually expecting a response from my first msg)
her: Before I do that what are you looking for from a woman ? (please dont pump and dump me)
me: hmmm, feminine, can dress sexy, can be goofy, make each other laugh, communication is number one really (thats what normal people say right?)
her: Ok I just I didn't know if you just wanted to hookup that's all guys see me as but I'm not like that. I want to be treated like a lady (recently ive been pumped and dumped several times)
me: im glad to hear that (wasnt quite sure how to respond)
That was all sunday, then on yesterday I send this:
me: lets meet tomorrow night at 8 at XYZ
No response for over a day, I msg again a few hours ago:
me: Hey dont ignore me
her: I'm not I've been ridiculously busy lately (hmm trying to play it cool, genuinely was busy, wants to see if i am actually interested? who knows)
me: Haha jus messin with u.. Busy doin what pretty girl??
her: blah blah family issues (B.S.)
me: Ah sux sorry to hear that, let me know when u ready for good time
her: What do you define as a good time (seriously, you're not gona pump and dump me?)
me: Haha u really think im a bad guy dont you! A good time would be chatting getting to know you, smile and laughing, maybe go for a walk if its nice. (yikes that was dogsh!t haha)
her: I'm sorry I've just more bad experiences than good I don't mean to make you feel bad. I'm sorry
20 minutes later..
her: my number is xxx-xxxx
Gona txt tomorrow and just keep pushing for meetup and try to avoid getting sucked into conversation. This is a bit tricky I don't want to come off as a player who doesnt give a sh!t because she'll tighten up/back off most likely, but I can't be too beta or she will lose interest. See how this tight rope walk goes..
me: damn, youre pretty.. and 81% match.. pick you up around 8?
her: Oh my you don't waste time do you
(i may blow you soon if youre not an idiot)me: why waste time.. when i see something i want i go get it
(total b.s. i have almost zero ambition in life)her: I guess that's true no beating around the bush (giggity)
me: i have tennis tonight actually but leave me your # and we can meet up during the week (tired and wasnt actually expecting a response from my first msg)
her: Before I do that what are you looking for from a woman ? (please dont pump and dump me)
me: hmmm, feminine, can dress sexy, can be goofy, make each other laugh, communication is number one really (thats what normal people say right?)
her: Ok I just I didn't know if you just wanted to hookup that's all guys see me as but I'm not like that. I want to be treated like a lady (recently ive been pumped and dumped several times)
me: im glad to hear that (wasnt quite sure how to respond)
That was all sunday, then on yesterday I send this:
me: lets meet tomorrow night at 8 at XYZ
No response for over a day, I msg again a few hours ago:
me: Hey dont ignore me
her: I'm not I've been ridiculously busy lately (hmm trying to play it cool, genuinely was busy, wants to see if i am actually interested? who knows)
me: Haha jus messin with u.. Busy doin what pretty girl??
her: blah blah family issues (B.S.)
me: Ah sux sorry to hear that, let me know when u ready for good time
her: What do you define as a good time (seriously, you're not gona pump and dump me?)
me: Haha u really think im a bad guy dont you! A good time would be chatting getting to know you, smile and laughing, maybe go for a walk if its nice. (yikes that was dogsh!t haha)
her: I'm sorry I've just more bad experiences than good I don't mean to make you feel bad. I'm sorry
20 minutes later..
her: my number is xxx-xxxx
Gona txt tomorrow and just keep pushing for meetup and try to avoid getting sucked into conversation. This is a bit tricky I don't want to come off as a player who doesnt give a sh!t because she'll tighten up/back off most likely, but I can't be too beta or she will lose interest. See how this tight rope walk goes..
