Not Smoking Not Drinking

[1life]

Well, I never touch to drugs and I do not plan to. I drank a couple of times at some parties, but I didn't really enjoy the beers...I just took some because everybody did. I guess I'm a loser for that...but w/e.

At the parties, every DJ I know, I see them drinking/smoking, I think it gives them an excuse to say any random things they have in mind without looking dumb.

I really don't know what to do. I do not want to start smoking/drinking just to feel accepted. Fukk that. But how can I refuse a drink from a nice chick or w/e without looking like a real pu$$y...I mean, every ''cool" teenagers at Highschool drink and experiment all kind of drugs...Me wanting to be diff will be hard, but I don't want to fall in the trap.

Please. Help me.

 

[adit]

You don't have to do sh*t stuff to look cool at all.Start weightlifting,and get a little big and somewhat ripped.

Keep in mind this will take atleast 5-6 months just to get a hint of getting big,but it will be worth it.

Then,if anyone offers you any of those 'unholy' (lol) things,just say that you work out quite often and don't want those to ruin your gains.But also tell the hottie that you have nothing against people who drink,and that you and her should dance together and so on..You know,get the game started like that.

Cheers!

 

[familyguyfan]

I wouldn't smoke if I were you. It's bad for you. If you know how to control yourself and you don't drink and drive, drinking isn't bad though. However, I wouldn't do it if you really don't want to though, just because everyone else is doing it. I didn't start drinking until later than most people I know because I wasn't ready for it and comfortable with it until later than some people.

If you're worried about fitting in though I suppose you could just have one or two beers and milk em' all night. That way people will see you with a beer in your hand. I wouldn't be too concerned about it though. I personally can't really have fun at a big party if I'm not drinking and everyone else is, but people don't care if you aren't drinking. I just don't like to be sober when everyone else is drunk, but that's just me.

 

[Adone]

Well, I never touch to drugs and I do not plan to. I drank a couple of times at some parties, but I didn't really enjoy the beers...I just took some because everybody did. I guess I'm a loser for that...but w/e.

At the parties, every DJ I know, I see them drinking/smoking, I think it gives them an excuse to say any random things they have in mind without looking dumb.

I really don't know what to do. I do not want to start smoking/drinking just to feel accepted. Fukk that. But how can I refuse a drink from a nice chick or w/e without looking like a real pu$$y...I mean, every ''cool" teenagers at Highschool drink and experiment all kind of drugs...Me wanting to be diff will be hard, but I don't want to fall in the trap.

Please. Help me.

One of the best Don Juans I know doesn't smoke and just drinks a couple of beers when he's with his friends.
I drink and smoke a lot just because I like the feeling of being high. Being a Don Juan (and getting girls) has nothing to do with saying random things (again, I do it 24/7, just because I like it, not to get girls), it's about having confidence. It's about knowing that you shouldn't give a shìt about a girl that considers you a loser because you don't drink/smoke. You should be the one who considers her a loser for being so immature.



Adone

 

[Taviii]

No one likes you or dislikes you if you drink or if you don't. This is just an excuse for not going for that's chicks ass that offered you a drink. She just approached you and you missed the opportunity.

I drink and smoke a lot just because I like the feeling of being high.

I now what your talking about, and I'm gonna do it in a few hours cause its the weekend whohoooooooo!

 

[Soupar]

I wouldn't smoke if I were you. It's bad for you. If you know how to control yourself and you don't drink and drive, drinking isn't bad though.

If you're talking about smoking buddha thats total bull****. Sure its bad for the lungs but you dont smoke nearly as much as ciggs. Alcohal is so much worse than weed health-wise. So many people have died from alcohal, and not just while driving, while there are zero recorded deaths from marijuana.

 

[K-Rock]

If you're talking about smoking buddha thats total bull****. Sure its bad for the lungs but you dont smoke nearly as much as ciggs. Alcohal is so much worse than weed health-wise. So many people have died from alcohal, and not just while driving, while there are zero recorded deaths from marijuana.

Amen to that my brother.
With that being said, I'd just like to say, you gotta stick to what you believe in. I've never been in this situation myself, considering I got into drinking and smoking weed by second semester in grade 9. However, if you really don't wanna smoke or drink, just say "I don't drink/do drugs". No big deal, as long as you make a pooint of saying that you don't judge people that do, and you have nothing against them, it's just you're personal preference not to do it.
I believe that drinking and smoking are not bad though, when done in moderation, I mean smoking a few joints, and drinking a few beers is no big deal. It's when you start smoking like, quarter ounce a night, or a whole case of beer, that's when trouble strikes.

 

[chevypimpen]

Yea u dnt have to do ne of that and worry about looken like a puss man. The biggest thing is just to do wat u want when u want. If u want a beer grab one. If not then don't. One night I might have five the next i might refuse any.