heres the story :
SO i live with this girl for about 6 weeks now , she has a boyfriend of 6 months but he left to go traveling around the world for half a year leaving her behind from february. hes coming back in july but leaving again after a month.
She tells me sometimes that shes lonely and always worried that he will find another girl . she is chinese and the guy is white and 29 years old. i think shes interested because its her first white boyfriend. so i tell her to find someone better then that midlife crisis having loser. but she just says she will wait for him until he comes back then see what happens.that she doesnt want to change boyfriends.
Myself i am of indian decent average goodlooking. born and raised in sweden.
she even tells me sometimes that im goodlooking nice and sweet smart and funny.
and she always tells me that she wants me to find a good girlfriend or that she will find me one etc etc.
Well lately i kinda started to like her , because she has a great personality , but shes stuck on this 30 year old dumbass. We flirt a little bit not much but i dont think she thinks of it as flirting , i tickle her she gives me backrub sometimes . we spend most of the day together since we live together. I am very nice to her , yeah i know i could be stuck in the "friend zone" , but i am just a nice guy to everyone , and dont wanna be a jackass.
well one day i walked by her laptop , she was writing an email to her boyfriend, i wouldnt snoop but i saw my name there and wondered what she wrote.
well she wrote "dezidarko is so nice , maby he likes me. but hes not my type . But he is such a nice guy . I hope he will find a good girlfriend."
now this coudl mean
1.that i am stuck in the "friendzone"
2. she doesnt want to make her boyfriend jelous and just writes that.
but yeah i dont think i have oneitis , its just her boyfriend isent around shes always lonely , and we have so much in common. smae kind of personalities , same likes and dislikes. so why the eff am i not her type ? she doesnt like smart goodlooking funny people. guess its just bothers me a little.
I tease her i call her grandma since shes 2 years older then me , i tickle her push her around sometimes . use her as a cusion etc etc.
but yeah i havent really directly flirted with her yet.
my question is should i be worried about her writing im not her type to her boyfriend , or is this a positive sign ?
sorry for the long write any input is greatly appriciated.
SO i live with this girl for about 6 weeks now , she has a boyfriend of 6 months but he left to go traveling around the world for half a year leaving her behind from february. hes coming back in july but leaving again after a month.
She tells me sometimes that shes lonely and always worried that he will find another girl . she is chinese and the guy is white and 29 years old. i think shes interested because its her first white boyfriend. so i tell her to find someone better then that midlife crisis having loser. but she just says she will wait for him until he comes back then see what happens.that she doesnt want to change boyfriends.
Myself i am of indian decent average goodlooking. born and raised in sweden.
she even tells me sometimes that im goodlooking nice and sweet smart and funny.
and she always tells me that she wants me to find a good girlfriend or that she will find me one etc etc.
Well lately i kinda started to like her , because she has a great personality , but shes stuck on this 30 year old dumbass. We flirt a little bit not much but i dont think she thinks of it as flirting , i tickle her she gives me backrub sometimes . we spend most of the day together since we live together. I am very nice to her , yeah i know i could be stuck in the "friend zone" , but i am just a nice guy to everyone , and dont wanna be a jackass.
well one day i walked by her laptop , she was writing an email to her boyfriend, i wouldnt snoop but i saw my name there and wondered what she wrote.
well she wrote "dezidarko is so nice , maby he likes me. but hes not my type . But he is such a nice guy . I hope he will find a good girlfriend."
now this coudl mean
1.that i am stuck in the "friendzone"
2. she doesnt want to make her boyfriend jelous and just writes that.
but yeah i dont think i have oneitis , its just her boyfriend isent around shes always lonely , and we have so much in common. smae kind of personalities , same likes and dislikes. so why the eff am i not her type ? she doesnt like smart goodlooking funny people. guess its just bothers me a little.
I tease her i call her grandma since shes 2 years older then me , i tickle her push her around sometimes . use her as a cusion etc etc.
but yeah i havent really directly flirted with her yet.
my question is should i be worried about her writing im not her type to her boyfriend , or is this a positive sign ?
sorry for the long write any input is greatly appriciated.
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