SexManiac
Don Juan
Nah, rarely the confident guy gets kicked out of a group. Being bald is many times confused with being confident and that is because there is still not a damn ****ing verbal definition that can describe what is a very confident dude in all type of situation and context. If there were we all would be getting girls left and right because Confidence is the #1 attraction trigger for women.What I'm saying, this is the kind of thing women do to each other alot. Its all politics and female nature. If there is a social group and new woman comes into it, gets all the attention from guys, becomes the life of the party, doesnt respect the existing social 'order' then they will just treat her in the same way, exclude, belittle, backbite etc.
But you are not a female, your a guy. That means you have got into their heads and they wanna play you. They are making plans to play you and affect you, one hinting to you theres a party, and then another one letting you know you arent invited, just to get your feelings hurt and manipulate you to defeat your masculine energy with female guile, lower your confidence and make you feel you did something wrong.
Ofcourse parties and social circles require social calibration and flirting, relationships etc need to be handled with care.
Clearly all the girls here have talked about you and see you as a confident male. Thats not a bad thing, women will talk about high-value guys not low-value guys. You already have status now, just wait and see, slow it down, be nice and then you can work your way back in the group, now with higher status, but as others have said, these social groups may not provide what you want so its up to you whether you wanna play this game.
However many questions come to my mind:
- is it confidence being non needy or is it about being bold?
- is it confidence a better trait than having a good social calibration?
- can a man be confident and needy at the same time? And if so. Isn't confidence the biggest key on being successful with women? Or is it just way too much overrated?
- is there a full definition of what Confidence is?
- isn't a guy who go for what he want very consistently, who approach women every day and take a lot of action a confident dude? If so. Why isn't this behaviors leading to a lot of success with women alone ?
- is it more about status than confidence?
- can't a guy be high status without having confidence?
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