Not Interested

[DonJuanJnr]

Hi,

I've been in this community for a while now and I am reasonably good looking, clever and popular.

However, I don't speak to many girls due to not having many opportunities and maybe a little nervousness but whenever I do there just not interested in me, i'd love to know why as the people they do go out with are more ugly than me.

Any ideas what it might be and what I need to work on?

 

[ENIGMA16]

You need to be way more specific than this. We can't tell you what you're doing wrong if you don't tell us what you did.

 

[DonJuanJnr]

that's what I mean though I really don't no.

It's not one girl in particular its just girls seem cold towards me, and i'm not ugly or anything. I have mates who get laid like hell who are well worse looking than me and even less confident, I jsut don't get why girls don't show any interest and act cold.

 

[ENIGMA16]

Well you're obviously doing something wrong. Give us some examples of specific situations.

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

that's what I mean though I really don't no.

It's not one girl in particular its just girls seem cold towards me, and i'm not ugly or anything. I have mates who get laid like hell who are well worse looking than me and even less confident, I jsut don't get why girls don't show any interest and act cold.

Don't have interest in them. It's GOLD.

Ever notice when some guy is totally interested in one specific girl? Other girls pop out of the woodwork to get his attention even if he's not good looking? It's because he's got ZERO interest in what they have. But, when there's a breakup and he's going after other girls suddenly the feast turns to famine.

Stop being "hungry" if you want to get girls interested.

 

[DonJuanJnr]

I do understand what your saying however surely I have to make a move at some point? I don't understand the not showing interest principle when I need to make a move to get anywhere?

 

[r0cky]

I do understand what your saying however surely I have to make a move at some point? I don't understand the not showing interest principle when I need to make a move to get anywhere?

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