Not interested, sorry girl!

Wysiwyg

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I have a girl who is a great friend of mine. I'm not interested in her, but i see that she's about to make a move on me. How can i say no without hurting her feelings (not too much, at least)? Is it possible to still be friends after that?
 
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vinstyle

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Tell her about some new chick you met. If she doesnt get the message you'll have to stop being a girly-man and reject her.
 

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Ouch, girly? C'mon, she's fun to talk, i don't wnat to miss that. I f*cked so many girls, can't i keep one as a friend?

Can I, daddy? Can I?

:p

No, seriously. :cool:
 

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I once had a chick as a friend.
She was really fun to be with.

One thing is that I wasn't interested in her sexually.
Then one day her friend come to me and say the she would be interested.
It was almost a schock to me. (I've been approached by girls a lot before her)
I don't know why.
Maybe women feel just the same way when some guy tells them about his feelings.
It hits like a wet towel.
You just get turned off.
She tried to get in my pants hard and for a long time.
Luckily she got it in the end and got a boyfriend.
I can say that we are still really good friends.
And there is no hard feelings.
It's like it never happened.

Like I said I have had MANY girls approached me in my past.
I think only one time I've just said plain "no" to a date idea.
Keep in mind they rarely turn up really hating you if their IL has been high.

I've done it many ways :p
Haha, one good is what chicks use themselves and they kinda "understand" is telling her that with your current situation in your life you don't want a girlfriend right now. I know this is bull**** but it works! Well, on the other hand it leaves girl thinking that if things were different you would have accepted her. That can be good or bad.
Nah, just say to her the magic words "Let's just be friends" and she will be glad that she has an opportunity to be your friend even if you rejected her.

Whatever you do, it's most obvious that she wants to be your friend afterwards.
Otherwise she is emotionally unstable b*tch.
 
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