Went on a second date with a chick; cute, smart, interesting job (can't stand biimbos) things been pretty casual, not really much touching or heavy flirting. I'm kinda geeky, she's kinda geeky, not sure if she's shy or guarded. I feel I'm being pretty confident and DJ, but I'm not being too agressive with the kino and sexy talk. Part of me think's she's DTF but might be a bit of a puzzle I have to figure out. At the end of the date tonight we walked back to her place and I started kinda chatting about when we'd hang out again, her door is right there she could have asked me in, or I guess I could have asked. We hugged and I went home. Am I not being forceful enough for this one? Usually I throw around a few innuendoes and see if they bite, but she plays it pretty straight. I don't want to "next" her too fast, I like quality in my women, enjoy them on multiple levels; so a smart, stable one who's a freak when the lights go out is worth the extra effort for me.