Not Getting Setup

jaymbrs

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Apparently it’s because my status and looks should be good enough to find someone on my own. That’s what 2 people told me when I told them to introduce me to their female friends. They’re technically not wrong but they don’t know how fuked up the game is right now though. And finding a decent chick is tough.
 

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You dont wanna get setup. Lots of opportunities to interact with women out there if you want to. No one can guarantee you anything hence you need to be able to enjoy talking and interacting with women you like. You can meet them in many places but you have to play the 'long game' although that can be quite easy if you interact with more than 1 girl, make things easy for yourself, and just let it come to you instead of trying to 'make it happen'. It obviously takes longer but you are not suffering in the process so its actually much easier.
 

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Why do you want to get set up for? That's very passive thinking on your part. It sounds like you are putting sex above self-respect.
 

jaymbrs

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You dont wanna get setup. Lots of opportunities to interact with women out there if you want to. No one can guarantee you anything hence you need to be able to enjoy talking and interacting with women you like. You can meet them in many places but you have to play the 'long game' although that can be quite easy if you interact with more than 1 girl, make things easy for yourself, and just let it come to you instead of trying to 'make it happen'. It obviously takes longer but you are not suffering in the process so its actually much easier.
I'm doing that as well. But I'm referring to an attractive friend or relative of someone I know who I find attractive and would like to talk to.
Why do you want to get set up for? That's very passive thinking on your part. It sounds like you are putting sex above self-respect.
WTF? What in the world is wrong with asking to be introduced to someone?
 
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