not getting a girls number at a gym but says we can talk more in hear when i see ya

[whosthat]

this happened with 2 chicks the same day, both said they were single i got a little convo in and went for the numb and they both said they have to take things slow and will talk to me more in the gym when we see eachother, yet another girl the same day i got a little convo in and the num, so my question to yall is, is no number = rejection, if they were realy interested i would have the num, i dont believin any excuses for it, it sucks thoe, would yall just move on completely or stilll try to make convo with these 2 chicks, note im a busy man and dont care to just chit chat about nonsense with chciks i will prob never take there pants off anyway, wright?

 

[Mike32ct]

I also think it's a soft rejection. Move on.

If she tries to talk to you later, don't be act butthurt about it. Act normal, but politely cut the conversation short. Then go back to your workout.

But in the future, you might want to talk to girls a little longer if you can before attempting a number close. I never agreed with the PUAs doing a 30-second number close lol. At least give 5 or 10 minutes, unless you either of you is in a rush to leave.

 

[Aaron B]

she either complies or you move on

so move on

 

[st_99]

well, its just one of those things. perhaps not much rapport built or maybe no interest or maybe still a possiblility.. tough to say but all you can do is not care and perhaps just engage in light care free conversation and see if they engage further.

 

[nismo-4]

An early open and shut case for Judge Nismo.

If these girls liked you, they would've given you their #s regardless. They're trying to make you massage their ego. In reality, they're just not that into you.

This is a rejection. The court orders you to let it go.

Case closed.

 

[dankane]

Case closed.

Move on, I wouldn't even bother because any further communication that is not initiated by her would be chasing and even if she does communicate further, you gave her a chance so why wait around? If she throws herself at you then maybe but if she just wants to play you then don't bother.

 

[Aboleo]

when i was younger i worked in a department store selling shoes. After the manager retired we got this hotshot for a replacement who walked around like he was gods gift to women. He literally asked every single female employee for her number on the first day- and got shot down every time. He quit five days later because he couldn't handle all the "trash talking, back stabbing two-faced women" i heard several years later he got an asian mail order bride. He even posted pictures on his myspace of the wedding.. He was wearing a kind of red kimono with a sash- anyways, i'm getting ahead of myself. Don't be that guy. Predators scare the herd.

Oh, i later heard his bride left him. Took half his ****. He tried to shoot himself, sqeezed the trigger sideways and shot off his cheek and half his teeth... Poor bastard. If only he knew about the DJ Bible.

 

[pdx1138]

I stand by my pact with myself I will not date women/personal trainers at the gym. I don't $hit where I eat.

I had an awkward situation with a personal trainer I was gaming and it wasn't horrible but it wasn't good either. Last time she saw me (about a month ago) she avoided me.

 

[nismo-4]

when i was younger i worked in a department store selling shoes. After the manager retired we got this hotshot for a replacement who walked around like he was gods gift to women. He literally asked every single female employee for her number on the first day- and got shot down every time. He quit five days later because he couldn't handle all the "trash talking, back stabbing two-faced women" i heard several years later he got an asian mail order bride. He even posted pictures on his myspace of the wedding.. He was wearing a kind of red kimono with a sash- anyways, i'm getting ahead of myself. Don't be that guy. Predators scare the herd.

Oh, i later heard his bride left him. Took half his ****. He tried to shoot himself, sqeezed the trigger sideways and shot off his cheek and half his teeth... Poor bastard. If only he knew about the DJ Bible.

God damn. But there's the George Sohini incident.