For all you recovering AFCs who just read the Game and a few Gunwitch threads, are tipsy off a temporary confidence-buzz, and think you're going to be a playboy now, just think again. Sure, you can change by not being so passive and not letting women walk over you, but, ultimately, your personality will STILL be the same.
Some men were just meant to be "nice guys." Not everyone can be the charming, charismatic alpha that women are naturally drawn to. Some guys just have a personality that emotionally turns on women, while others are too sensitive/analytical/timid to really attract most women. I fall under the latter category. If you even begin to think you really do too, just accept it. Accept yourself. Not everyone can have the most attractive women. Stop fighting your natural tendencies. Settle for what you were meant to deserve in life. That doesn't mean at least try to go after what you want, but realize that your fantasy of becoming some popular super-g pimp even though you're really a geek is your ego talking, not reality.
After months and months of trying to be someone I'm not, I've finally realized that, deep down, I'm shy, awkward, and introverted. I'm not attractive to the majority of women, even though I'm good looking. After months of alcoholism and benzodiazepene (Klonopin) use, I became extremely disinhibited, aggressive, and ultra-confident around girls. I would go to parties, become the life of the party, the center of attention, and girls would flash me IOIs left and right. I was extremely assured of myself, and it showed. Women wanted me, people challenged me, and there was no stopping me.
Now after a few weeks of quitting drinking and benzos, my normal personality has been restored. I am socially-awkward, withdrawn, and intellectually-sensitive. I do not appear or behave "alpha" anymore. People who were used to the old me were confused as to why I was now "different", but now have accepted it, and now treat me as the actual "nice guy" that I am. Women no longer respond sexually to me anymore. Even if I try to flirt, women see it as slightly charming in a dorky and awkward sort of way, give me that fake smile, and instinctively know I'm not alpha. It is disappointing, I admit, and I miss the old charming me, but the substance dependency really had to stop.
Look at this video of Neil Strauss on Jimmy Kimmel. Sure, the dude can pull gimmicks to get dumb club slvts, but ultimately he is just jumping through hoops women set up for men to artificially score pvssy. You can still tell the dude is a geeky "nice guy" deep down inside. His methods have changed, but really has always been the same person.
The rumours are true: A good 90% of women are attracted to 10% of men. If you're not in the lucky 10% of alphas (probably most of you guys, because you wouldn't be on this site if you really were), which I believe are born not made, then just accept that you're never going to be in this 10%. Your canned openers and scripted banter lines are lame. You're not fooling anyone.
Some men were just meant to be "nice guys." Not everyone can be the charming, charismatic alpha that women are naturally drawn to. Some guys just have a personality that emotionally turns on women, while others are too sensitive/analytical/timid to really attract most women. I fall under the latter category. If you even begin to think you really do too, just accept it. Accept yourself. Not everyone can have the most attractive women. Stop fighting your natural tendencies. Settle for what you were meant to deserve in life. That doesn't mean at least try to go after what you want, but realize that your fantasy of becoming some popular super-g pimp even though you're really a geek is your ego talking, not reality.
After months and months of trying to be someone I'm not, I've finally realized that, deep down, I'm shy, awkward, and introverted. I'm not attractive to the majority of women, even though I'm good looking. After months of alcoholism and benzodiazepene (Klonopin) use, I became extremely disinhibited, aggressive, and ultra-confident around girls. I would go to parties, become the life of the party, the center of attention, and girls would flash me IOIs left and right. I was extremely assured of myself, and it showed. Women wanted me, people challenged me, and there was no stopping me.
Now after a few weeks of quitting drinking and benzos, my normal personality has been restored. I am socially-awkward, withdrawn, and intellectually-sensitive. I do not appear or behave "alpha" anymore. People who were used to the old me were confused as to why I was now "different", but now have accepted it, and now treat me as the actual "nice guy" that I am. Women no longer respond sexually to me anymore. Even if I try to flirt, women see it as slightly charming in a dorky and awkward sort of way, give me that fake smile, and instinctively know I'm not alpha. It is disappointing, I admit, and I miss the old charming me, but the substance dependency really had to stop.
Look at this video of Neil Strauss on Jimmy Kimmel. Sure, the dude can pull gimmicks to get dumb club slvts, but ultimately he is just jumping through hoops women set up for men to artificially score pvssy. You can still tell the dude is a geeky "nice guy" deep down inside. His methods have changed, but really has always been the same person.
The rumours are true: A good 90% of women are attracted to 10% of men. If you're not in the lucky 10% of alphas (probably most of you guys, because you wouldn't be on this site if you really were), which I believe are born not made, then just accept that you're never going to be in this 10%. Your canned openers and scripted banter lines are lame. You're not fooling anyone.