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drmeathead

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last night i catch this girl staring at me and my friends. i motion for her to come over several times. she does and so does her sister. they arent really that hot but it was more a show to my boys that i could make them come over.

i get talking to the sister after i screen out the first girl. she was a five in my mind. i isolate the sister from the group pulling up a stool and letting her gravitate by me. we get talking and she turns out to be very materialistic. so i told her "if i were to tell yuo i was a 6 dollar an hour beer man you would walk away?" she said she would. i told her. she did.

she went over to my friends and talked to them. i just sat there not giving a ****. this girl was a HB 6 maybe. my friends evidently told her what i really am doing cause she came right back. i talked to her for alittle bit more then decided to go after something else. i excused myself to the pisser.

i walked by her after i was done. she grabs me by the back of the shirt trying to get me to come back. now here is the part that pissed me off. she said" yourfriends tell me you cant talk to women very well". i brushed it off and juststarted talking to her. i number closed her and tried to get her home but her sister and the guy friend were too big of a **** block for me to over come.


that is neither here nor there. the thing i was pissed about was my friends telling that girl i cant talk to women. that is not cool. i called both of them on it. they were not happy with me that i did. i told them that i dont ever say anything negative about them as thier wingman and that it was outrageous for them to do so to me. it wasnt even like ball busting as they told her this when i was not in earshot.

there is some truth in what they say about me not being able to talk to women. i am better built and better looking that either one. i also screen girls early as i know what so if they dont pass then i dont bother. so they look at that as a problem. the other problem is that with my standards as high as they are i may go out of my league and 99.9% of everyone else's too and get shot down. i dont look at that as a problem though.

what do you guys think about their telling this girl about my problem?
 

skeeloo

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i woul never say anything bad against my freinds in front of other people , so i say your freinds might be jealous of you. guys who diss thier friends in front of a woman are pussies in my opinoin. my closest friends would never do that's why i have only 3 real close freinds the rest i go clubbing with but dont tell them every detail about my life, they see me with beautyfull women then they start respecting me, i dont even call them to tell them i just hooked up with a hb, i go to a club where i know they will be with this hb9 and act like i didnt know they were there. then they say they didnt know i could pick up hbs, they become all suprised , because the truth is i wouldnt date the kinda women they go after. one of them tried dissing me in front of a girl one day and i dissed him back in front of the girl he was suprissed , atleast i spoilt his chances of fuking that night now he dosnt do that again. infact i hardly call the bastard. last i heard of him he was so desperate chasing a fat girl cos he couldnt get any, and know he goes clubbing alone(what a loser).i had problems talking with women too, but i improve my self alone not in thier presence so i suprised them.
 

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Ok, first of all:

I disagree with your wings telling that girl that you can't talk to women. With friends like that who needs enemies you know what I mean, whether or not it was true. They f*cked up.

Secondly if you have high standards why would you even called those two scags over to your table.

And another thing you do need to become smoother in your verbal game. I don't care how unattractive the woman is there was no and I mean no reason to treat her that way.

It was disrespectful of that scag to grab the back of your shirt like your a nobody though.

Finally why in the hell would you try to f*ck closer her just to prove a point. You shouldn't care what your friends or anyone thinks about you.

To take home a scag speaks of your character and desperation in this game.

Just don't do it.


If you have these socalled high standards then stick to them. Don't be line a ship at sea with no real direction and blowing to any wind that comes along.
 

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oh come on. I don't see a problem except that you take yourself too seriously.
So what if one of your friends said you're not good at talking with women. friends take the piss out of each other from time to time. it's called having a laugh.

If they said that then you could have played it cool & jokingly. go with it. But you went out guns blazing kicking up a storm. thats not cool. & it shows you're obviously insecure about it.

life is meant to be fun. have fun with it! if you can't laugh at yourself then.. i feel sorry for you.
 

Don_Joffe

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Here's the deal...

1. You ment to tell the girls what they WANT to hear, ie. That you are also materialstic. Ever heard of the saying "Fake it till you make it." Its a numbers game out there and by saying you werent materilistic shows her that you have nothing in common and that she wont get along with you. You should have lied.

2. When she said "I hear you cant talk to girls." You should have said to her well lets go sit somewhere and lets see and you can judge for yourself. This would get you and her alone and if you PASS, which you should pass her TEST, then you in.

3. Your friends are obviously jealous of you and they "messed" you because they were selfish and were trying to get in their, warn your friends if they want your friendship not to ever do that sort of thing again and also another point is SHOW THEM WHO'S BOSS and show them that you can bag any girl and that you CAN talk to girls.
 

drmeathead

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mr harris

how did i treat this girl badly? so i didnt tel her iw as in professional school. ididnt lie i used to deliever beer for 6 a hour between college and dental school.

as far as calling them over...they were looking over and my friend mentioned it. so i was like watch this....just showing off...with 5s...if could do it with nines then maybe that would actually be cool.
 
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