Not calling Chicks from AFC days.

[felony]

OK as part of becoming a don juan, i cut most of my ties with chicks i knew as part of my afc days. I still see them occassionally but its only never more than twice a year- this usually occurs out in the club or at a party.

But i seem to often get caught by chicks with the "you never call or message me anymore-why?". I don't really want to say because i don't have time for chicks i'm not screwin so i was wondering if there is a better way? I would like to say something classy that meant i'm busy and don't have time for friendship but not as bluntly put.

I want to say something that also implies or can be said later that i would have time for a FB arrangement.

Suggests most welcome,
Felony.

 

[felony]

the only thing i can think of to say is that i lost her number.

but that's C+F and not really a real reason... she'll ask me again i guess lol

 

[felony]

views but no replys.

don't tell me you guys have never been in the position before.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by felony
But i seem to often get caught by chicks with the "you never call or message me anymore-why?". I don't really want to say because i don't have time for chicks i'm not screwin so i was wondering if there is a better way? I would like to say something classy that meant i'm busy and don't have time for friendship but not as bluntly put.

They seem to be showing some level of interest so put it on them to show just how much. Reply with something like "What, do you have something planned for us?" She'll either reply with something off the cuff or either ask you for an example.

You can give her the example of renting a couple of action videos, cook dinner or order delivery and invite you over. She'll either agree or give you a WTF look.

Either way, you'll know her interest level by what she says and if she doesn't go for your suggestion you can easily reply "And you were wondering why I don't call you." and walk away.

 

[KiInCollege]

"I've been busy."

Do Not Elaborate.

Let them hear about how you are dating other girls. Don't suddenly chat them up like you are trying to make up for lost time. Let them know in this subtle way that they are unimportant.

 

[Julian]

Or you could reply with "Why havent YOU called me?" Then you can suggest her taking YOUR number and getting a hold of YOU. Its not like you care about them anyway, so if they want your nuts they will attempt to get a hold of you.

 

[Knicknack]

i'm 2 years out of high school and i still have 1 goal regarding it. i want to date 1 of the 5 extreme-hotties from there. i often run into people that i haven't seen in a couple years and they are shocked at how much i've changed.

being a complete AFC and middle-of-the-road HS student, it would be amazing to date one of the hotties. this is just a goal in the back of my mind. in the meantime i'm dating as much as possible.

 

[TesuqueRed]

You wanna go from answering "why don't you call?" to a fvckbuddy conversion in one or two sentences--???

wahhhaahaahhahahahahaha!

Sure--what the hell--why not see if anyone has something on that...

I kinda like that spirit--ask for everything, and if you can't have it, then try being reasonable.

Gotta love it!

Oh, keep the name, felony, I don't know why but it fits!

 

[tiburon]

ok take Take Franciso and KinginCollege advices and put them together

Say : " i have been busy". "why do you have plans for us or somethiN"..etc...

Tiburon

 

[felony]

Awesome ,

thanks guys i'm going to do just that and see what happens !

ciao,

felony.