not allowed to watch tv how can i dj this way

[Crank_It_Up]

No Job???

Originally posted by chitownboi
Just started looking this year and its very hard finding any let alone a decent one you can live off with. It will be very hard for me to move out and pay bill my self cause its a first timer but i have to be a man and do it...

whoa there, one step at a time. First get a job, any job, money does not matter. Next, look for a better job and after you land the better job, quit the first job. Repeat process until you make enough money to move out.

Do not blame your parents for your shortcomings. That was ok when you were a small child but you are old enough to think for yourself now.

Learn from the mistakes they made as parents and don't repeat them on your kids.

 

[chitownboi]

I appreciate all this. I cant wont talk to them in person like an adult because they are ignorant like most parents.

 

[Zoso]

"My mom always had to know what I was doing and where I was going all the time. It got to where she made me call her and tell her everytime I went somewhere. So I called her up and said, 'Hey, mom. I'm over at Ricky's and we're drinking beer and watching pornos.'

' Wait'll I tell your father!'

'Hold on, I'll put him on the phone. Where'd ya think we got the beer, ma??'"

Seriously, though... You really need to at least try to talk with them. Don't yell, don't let them make you angry and irrational, just tell them that you are 18 and don't deserve to be treated like a baby. Throw in some guilt, tell them their spying is painfully obvious and is the reason for your depression. You could threaten to move out if they can't give you some privacy. Talking to a school counselor or grandparent or some other adult who could talk with your parents wouldn't be a bad idea either.

Btw, why do you claim that your parents are the reason for your depression and not having a life? TV is not at all important, I hardly watch any myself. And internet porn should have no effect on your social life. Is there more to the story?

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

You can tell most people on here are high school kids.


While parents will always be your parents, you learn to deal with them as you grow older.

There are many times when your young when some of the stupidiest things you've ever heard said were things said by your parents.

That is until you grow older, have your own kids, and suddenly, some of those things that were said, aren't as stupid anymore.

Some parents are overprotective and power happy, others are laid back and want to be more like friends, either eay it can be a problem.

As for privacy and the house, it all comes down to trust.

if your out partying every night and inviting not so good friends over all the time, it is your parents house.

And in today's society, there have been plenty of parents fined and jailed because of things found or did at their house because of their kids.

WHere I live there were parents who were going to trial because their son threw a party when they weren't home. Plenty of kids showed up and did the usual party things. Neighbors complained and there were plenty of underage drinkers at the house.

Being that it's the parents house, they are held responsible.

It can be fought and all that stuff, but in today's society, if you think your kids or your kids friends are doing anything illegal, it's better to check up on them then to have the police come check up on you one day.

And you complain, complain, complain, yet all you say is "YOU CAN"T FIND A JOB."

Why not?

You never mention going to school or college either.

So your some 18 year old kid who stays home all day with no job, no college, and what not. Maybe your parents are trying to tell you something. Get out and get a freaking job or education.