not able to make a decision

[hungnan]

There is this chick who is totally into me. She calls me all the time and emails me all the time and wants to spend one on one time with me. The thing is that she has a great body but an average face. Her personality seems kinda cool too.

Have you guys ever had a chick totally into you but you not completely interested? I know that if I start dating this girl seriously, a better chick will come along.

 

[becker]

I can tell you right now, don't go after this girl if you're not totally into her. It just causes problems. Hold yourself back and wait until someone you really like comes along.

I personally have been involved with girls who I wasn't totally into, but just did it anyways. Bad news, especially if you're not into them. And, you're right, once you're with them, a better one will come along and you'll be kicking yourself, unless you're desperate.

Recently I had the same situation, a girl was throwing me all these hints that she was into me, totally blatant, and she was similar to the girl you describe, but I just acted like I didn't notice the signals, and she more or less stopped. She gave me her number twice, even though she knew I had it, without me even asking for it. I never called her.

 

[dionysius_d]

Becker is 100% right. If you're not into her now, later you will be not into her, as in LAST WEEK.

 

[bugsquish]

Screw her anyway. You don't need to get married

 

[squirrels]

If you happen to feel horny when you're around her, then go after her. If you're not feeling horny, then don't waste time or try to force it.

 

[becker]

Unless you want all the attention that you're going to get from this girl after you sleep with her, I strongly recommend against doing anything. You can't be that desperate. Be patient, and you will find someone better, and when you do, you'll be free to act however you want because you don't have some psycho woman on your back..