As we've all been told countless times, and for good reason, practice is the only way to get good at anything. And talking is no exception. Whether its talking in person, over the phone or email, the more of it you do, the better you'll get! And here's the good news - it doesn't take years to do! All you have to do is speed up the process a little and you'll be the great conversationalist you've always wanted to be in months, if not weeks!
This method is especially easy if you're a teenager without a stable job. If that's you, all you have to do is get a job that requires you dealing with a lot of people, a good portion of them being beautiful women! Trust me, after talking to 50-100 people a day, you'll get years' worth of experience in months, if not weeks! Its the equivalent of reading the DJ Bible, as opposed to going out there and spending years to actually discover all those techniques on your own!
Think about it, there are tons of jobs like that! Your absolutely best bet would be to get a job at some store at the mall. Any store. It could be a clothing store, or if that's not your thing, it could be Starbucks, or whatever! You could also get a job in a downtown over-the-counter fast-food joint like Subway. And as you get better and more outgoing, you'll even score some numbers from the hotties you meet at work! Trust me, when you talk to dozens of them daily, you have to literally be mentally handicapped to not get any!
Or if talking on the phone is your issue, join a telemarketing firm for a few weeks! They'll PAY you to TRAIN you to know a valuable skill! If you want to learn how to persuade people, join a sales-oriented company, and once again, get paid for them teaching you something! This is an incredible country, and if you know how to play the system, anything in it is yours for the taking!
This method is especially easy if you're a teenager without a stable job. If that's you, all you have to do is get a job that requires you dealing with a lot of people, a good portion of them being beautiful women! Trust me, after talking to 50-100 people a day, you'll get years' worth of experience in months, if not weeks! Its the equivalent of reading the DJ Bible, as opposed to going out there and spending years to actually discover all those techniques on your own!
Think about it, there are tons of jobs like that! Your absolutely best bet would be to get a job at some store at the mall. Any store. It could be a clothing store, or if that's not your thing, it could be Starbucks, or whatever! You could also get a job in a downtown over-the-counter fast-food joint like Subway. And as you get better and more outgoing, you'll even score some numbers from the hotties you meet at work! Trust me, when you talk to dozens of them daily, you have to literally be mentally handicapped to not get any!
Or if talking on the phone is your issue, join a telemarketing firm for a few weeks! They'll PAY you to TRAIN you to know a valuable skill! If you want to learn how to persuade people, join a sales-oriented company, and once again, get paid for them teaching you something! This is an incredible country, and if you know how to play the system, anything in it is yours for the taking!
Its pretty good fun and I end up talking to lots of people everyday.