North American girls still have no respect for men

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The thing is man, I NEVER felt that way. Even at my worst, I never felt that way. When dealing with awful girls, I'd say "That girl is a prick." I wouldnt blame all of womankind. I wouldnt' pack up and move.

Some people look at a problem and complain about the fact that problems exist. Other people look at problems and find ways to solve it. I feel that a lot of guys here are the former and not the latter.

When I sucked with women, I looked at guys who were good with women. I'd see how they talked to girls, how they dressed, how they acted, where they hung out. I looked in the mirror and determined what I needed to change to become better socially and with women....what Gpshields seems to be doing is looking at women and determining what THEY need to change to adapt to him.

I see guys who are cool, attractive, fun, positive, and outgoing and they get girls. So I could either say, "Boo hoo. Girls only like fun, cool, attractive guys. Not me." Or I could become a cool, fun, positive guy.

There will always be bad women. As you get better with women, you get better quality women. I've gone on a sh!t ton more dates than Gpshields and I've never had the sh!tty responses he's had on this handful of dates. So he's attracting crappy women....His fault. Look in the mirror and figure out what to change. Or...blame everyone in the world, BESIDES yourself.




No. Just men like you who suck at women and therefor declare that women suck.

It's like if you were bad at baseball, instead of getting better, you're determined to ruin it for everyone else.

So if you are saying it is "men's" problem that we should stop being ourselves and pretend to be someone we are not.

How come girls don't need to improve and we need to put in all this work?

People always say "just be yourself", what you are saying is "don't be yourself"
 

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Women in other countries find you interesting because to them , you are foreign , and that is hott to most women , for a while atleast . I cant tell you how many girls were into my scrawny English friend just because of his accent . The way these women treat you is only because your exotic to them , and somewhat more interesting than the guys there used to , If you really think that going across the world is easier than improving on yourself be my guest.

but to me its honestly like going to the moon , just so you can say you can bench 300 lbs , i mean yeah good for you , but who cares .
 

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What Iceberg is saying is adapt to what will attract the market (girls) You cant play video games all day and watch porn and then go out with a girl, have nothing to talk about, then insult her that she is not in love with you.

Yes there are some girls with entitlement issues, but alot want a solid secure relationship. Find out what attracts them, and amplify it. Dont expect the world or market to owe you anything, they were both here first.
 

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I dont live in the Usa nor Im used to date american girls, but the ones I saw while doing my erasmus program were fatter than the others,loud/obnoxious and *****y in any possible way toward the more attractive girls (especially the ones from EE).
Most of them were proud of correcting lecturers or discuss what told even if they had no knowledge of the topic.
Cleaning after them at the dorms kitchen was forbidden to them apparently.

If I were sitting on the university cafeteria and suddenly being alarmed from a OMG followed from a loud laughting I was sure it was an american or an maybe english girl.
At some point even the turkish guys who were after anything with a vagina stopped chasing them, the luckiest ones got the drunk and had a pump before looking elsewhere.

The fact that all those frustrated shoters going on killsprees at malls operate in usa is probably connected to that.

Girls are not expected to be interested in any guy hitting on them, however there are many ways to reject someone without making him feel like sh1t/make fun of him/badmouth him for the only purpose of an ego boost or a bragging session with friends.

Most the guys from usa who were studying there were much better than their female counterparts, in both look and behaviour and got many positive responces from girls.
I was sincerly pissed off to see such polite serious respectful guys to be forced to deal with those cvnts.
 

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Women in other countries find you interesting because to them , you are foreign , and that is hott to most women , for a while atleast . I cant tell you how many girls were into my scrawny English friend just because of his accent . The way these women treat you is only because your exotic to them , and somewhat more interesting than the guys there used to , If you really think that going across the world is easier than improving on yourself be my guest.

but to me its honestly like going to the moon , just so you can say you can bench 300 lbs , i mean yeah good for you , but who cares .
I can bench over 330 pounds on Earth and no girl is ever impressed by that, no one cares, U could workout all day everyday and the girls here won't give a s**t. Sorry about my ranting and complaining, just had to vent.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I dont live in the Usa nor Im used to date american girls, but the ones I saw while doing my erasmus program were fatter than the others,loud/obnoxious and *****y in any possible way toward the more attractive girls (especially the ones from EE).
Most of them were proud of correcting lecturers or discuss what told even if they had no knowledge of the topic.
Cleaning after them at the dorms kitchen was forbidden to them apparently.


Most the guys from usa who were studying there were much better than their female counterparts, in both look and behaviour and got many positive responces from girls.
I was sincerly pissed off to see such polite serious respectful guys to be forced to deal with those cvnts.
great observation that must be told a thousand times!!

American women are AZZHOLES pure and simple...

THEY DON'T COOK, CLEAN, THEY DON'T DO $HIT...I've travelled i've seen this...even german chicks are wayyyyy nicer.

don't get it twisted.....no matter how much you get laid,...THE UNDERLYING FACT OF AMERICAN GIRLS SUCKING AZZ DOES NOT CHANGE.

even if you're ballz deep inside a chick, as ice cube said a biatch is a biatch...don't get it twisted dummies.

Its only getting worse fellas so buckle up.

I've said it before the time has come where american and british girls need to get smacked...a nice donkeypunch..and when they regain consciousness....tell em to put on the apron, tie it up, fry some chicken, and then come suck some d!ck while i watch football :):)
 

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gspshields2 said:
So if you are saying it is "men's" problem that we should stop being ourselves and pretend to be someone we are not.
Hm. I'm failing to see where I told you to pretend to be someone that you're not. I said be fun, positive, and social. If you can't handle that, then yeah...you're going to have a lot of trouble getting people to like you. Perhaps you should consider the Goth scene?


How come girls don't need to improve and we need to put in all this work?
Go tell some fat boring chick that she doesn't need to improve. You're pretty much in the same position as her. Well, you're not fat, but your personality would make a woman dry up faster than a sand storm.


People always say "just be yourself", what you are saying is "don't be yourself"
No. I'm saying be a cool, fun, outgoing version of yourself. Be the version of yourself that people want to hang around instead of the version of yourself that I'm dealing with right now.

Look, I've already killed like 5 posts writing to you. I'm trying to help, but you require way too much nurturing. Naughty Ninja is a f**king saint...and you should appreciate people for taking time to help you....but instead we're just met with more whining.
 

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No. Just men like you who suck at women and therefor declare that women suck.

It's like if you were bad at baseball, instead of getting better, you're determined to ruin it for everyone else.
Ha you're full of sh1t dude. I wasn't commenting on your success or failure with the opposite sex. Read my comment in context and you'll see it was in jest. Simple sarcasm. Also, assuming that everyone who has an opinion different than your own "sucks at women" is pretty close minded.

Your baseball analogy doesn't really seem to fit my way of thinking either. It's more like, the game of baseball has changed dramatically over the years and expecting the same results now without evolving your skill set is just plain ignorant. Not trying to ruin the game, or even change it. Just accept it for what it is.

I do well with women.
 

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UPDATE
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The cougar chick who was ignoring me for 8 days finally texts me out of the blue after I deleted her number.

WTF Is wrong with this woman, did she get dumped or something?
 

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SoSuave666 said:
Ha you're full of sh1t dude. I wasn't commenting on your success or failure with the opposite sex. Read my comment in context and you'll see it was in jest. Simple sarcasm. Also, assuming that everyone who has an opinion different than your own "sucks at women" is pretty close minded.

You're right. I didn't mean to personally offend you. There's just too much negativity and whining in this thread, and it's frustrating me.

Guys seem totally unwilling to step up and work for something. Like, how can it be a woman's fault that you're bad at getting dates (not YOU, I just mean "you" in a general sense). I dont know, man...my philosophy is that it's your life and you can mold it into whatever path you want. If these guys want to be a victim of "female oppression" then go ahead. I'm getting girls and I'm not angry at women, and I've dealt with the same bullsh!t as everyone else. I just refuse to let it turn me into some dark-minded freak. Life isn't supposed to be easy. Nothing worthwhile is supposed to be easy.

So again, I didnt mean to attack you. I just lumped you in with the whiners. And I shouldn't do that....it's a poor way to help people, and a failure on my part.
 

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gspshields2 said:
UPDATE
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The cougar chick who was ignoring me for 8 days finally texts me out of the blue after I deleted her number.

WTF Is wrong with this woman, did she get dumped or something?

Dude I swear your comments are hilarious on so many levels it's insane! lmao.

If it were any normal non emo dude who got that text after 8 days of her 'ignoring' them they'd play the game and act like it never happened then set up a meet with her A.S.A.P. Fvck the sh1t out of her. Take off without a trace. THEN delete her number.

Good luck trying to figure that out GSP.
 

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:down: The pof chicks are the worst, it amazes me how effortlessely Ninja got me numbers and some chicks even got mad when I didn't respond back

Needless to say my pic got flagged cause it was considered "inapporitate"

That's the way the 'rules' are on POF. Men have to be the utmost 'gentlemen'. God forbid they show their hideous bodies....period. (Especially if it works in getting responses) LMAO.

Women are free to run rampant in bikini pics, bras and panties, lying on beds etc. because it attracts the customers/fools I mean 'gentlemen' for traffic to the site to attract more advertisers.

The whole site is biased and hilarious. I simply ignore all the nonsense on there and become like the top level prisoner who's running the jail, gangs and streets regardless of even if I were in 24/7 solitary confinement lockup. If people in prison can run entire gangs, streets, and the jail itself...I find my ways around the Plenty of Fish Insane Asylum and run it to suit me. (And the mind blowing part for most people is I simply do it to pass downtime. Hahahahaha!)
 

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Women on PoF are garbage. That's your first problem. They're living in a fantasyworld.

What you need to realize is, the dating field is full of losers. Hence, why they're single, and dating around. Contrary to their delusional claims - they can't not find the right man - a lot of them aren't the right women (they only think they are, and feel entitled to someone who is - as they ***** about everything... They're really just conceited and full of themselves).

The truth is, most quality people are taken already. They get nabbed up quick. So, you're left with a lot of garbage. Players, *****es, retards, skanks, bad girls, etc. This is why being a bad boy can be so effective - because they attract a lot of garbage, and there's plenty to go 'round. It's their whole lifestyle - to bang trashy single women. Most single women are trashy, so there you go.

These girls typically jump from guy to guy, play games, attention *****, use people, act like *****es, are stuck up and snobby, and all these things - and that's why they're always single. Of course, that wont stop them from *****ing and complaining, playing the victim, claiming nice people finish last, blaming others for everything, calling everyone *******s, and so forth. Delusion and denial is common among failures - as is finger-pointing.

It's no different than a loser who has no friends due to being unlikeable (different from shy; just a worthless person). They're going to blame everyone else, but there's clearly a reason for this. You'll find a lot of these single women don't have many close friends, either - because no one can stand them. Their personalities and attitudes suck. Only if they're hot do they get a lot of attention from guys, and have "lots of guy friends" (who only want to have sex with them, since they can't stand them, either).

This is just something you have to deal with. But, you can better your odds if you choose the right women. Someone with all these issues and ****ty personalities is going to be single and friendless for a reason. Hence, going on PoF in the first place. You might as well go look for women in the ghetto, or the bar, or in the dumpster. You're gonna find the same types there. It's where they flock to. They'll be *****ing and whining about not being able to find a good man, too - as they're sucking off random guys for crack and vodka. "Where are all the nice guys? Why can't I find a good man?" -- says the loser.

So yeah, the dating field is ****. That's just reality. Gotta weed through a lot of trash; don't sympathize with, or give your heart to anybody. No expectations is an absolute must. Always pay attention, believe nothing, trust no one, weed through the BS, and make sure they're decent people. If you don't do that, and keep attracting losers - that's your fault for sticking through their bull****. Much like the girl who complains about an ******* - you're doing the same thing. "Why is this girl such an *******?" - as you keep pining after her, and potentially obsessing over it. Likely for the same reasons: desperation, denial, unhappiness, wanting a trophy girl, etc.

A good rule of thumb is to never obsess over losers - because its just the way they are. Who cares what they do? They can eat ****. Associate with quality, decent people, and you won't have to worry about it. They're not worth worrying about, anyway. Just say to yourself (or them), "yeah, I see why no one likes you / them".

Typically, if someone is obsessing over and *****ing about losers - its because they're associating with them. Or trying to attract them. Or whatever. Knock it off. Who cares if they're "hot"? A loser is still a loser.

Edit: Also, be honest with yourself... Do you like losers? Some people do. They like to ***** and complain about all the things they do, and have issues of their own. Self-reflection is a must whenever there's a repeated negative pattern. Who are YOU chasing after, associating with, etc, and why? Some people like to be miserable, and keep feeding their hate so they can be. It's a crazy world.
 

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l...I'm DREADING how bad the market will be by the time I have enough time to look for a partner.
the market for non gangbang sluts is crashing like the tulip market in 1630s....but bishes are still overcharging

I know quite a few successful entrepreneurs. Started businesses in their 20s....now in their 30s making bank.

they all find the quality of US/westernized bishes nothing short of appalling...they know the score...one dude is 6'2" and a former swimmer....all can pull 8s and up...no shortage of women

....but they are pissed.

BECAUSE THE QUALITY JUST ISN'T THERE.

not quality as in good, kind, or loyal...quality as in maybe has ACTUALLY READ A BOOK IN THE LAST 5 YEARS THAT WASN'T TWILIGHT.

bishes have turned into fvckholes for men like me and my friends who can game them....BUT THATS IT.

and at the end of the day that is sad.....but i will keep fvcking :)
 

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Women on PoF are garbage. That's your first problem. They're living in a fantasyworld.

What you need to realize is, the dating field is full of losers. Hence, why they're single, and dating around. Contrary to their delusional claims - they can't not find the right man - a lot of them aren't the right women (they only think they are, and feel entitled to someone who is - as they ***** about everything... They're really just conceited and full of themselves).

The truth is, most quality people are taken already. They get nabbed up quick. So, you're left with a lot of garbage. Players, *****es, retards, skanks, bad girls, etc. This is why being a bad boy can be so effective - because they attract a lot of garbage, and there's plenty to go 'round. It's their whole lifestyle - to bang trashy single women. Most single women are trashy, so there you go.

These girls typically jump from guy to guy, play games, attention *****, use people, act like *****es, are stuck up and snobby, and all these things - and that's why they're always single. Of course, that wont stop them from *****ing and complaining, playing the victim, claiming nice people finish last, blaming others for everything, calling everyone *******s, and so forth. Delusion and denial is common among failures - as is finger-pointing.

It's no different than a loser who has no friends due to being unlikeable (different from shy; just a worthless person). They're going to blame everyone else, but there's clearly a reason for this. You'll find a lot of these single women don't have many close friends, either - because no one can stand them. Their personalities and attitudes suck. Only if they're hot do they get a lot of attention from guys, and have "lots of guy friends" (who only want to have sex with them, since they can't stand them, either).

This is just something you have to deal with. But, you can better your odds if you choose the right women. Someone with all these issues and ****ty personalities is going to be single and friendless for a reason. Hence, going on PoF in the first place. You might as well go look for women in the ghetto, or the bar, or in the dumpster. You're gonna find the same types there. It's where they flock to. They'll be *****ing and whining about not being able to find a good man, too - as they're sucking off random guys for crack and vodka. "Where are all the nice guys? Why can't I find a good man?" -- says the loser.

So yeah, the dating field is ****. That's just reality. Gotta weed through a lot of trash; don't sympathize with, or give your heart to anybody. No expectations is an absolute must. Always pay attention, believe nothing, trust no one, weed through the BS, and make sure they're decent people. If you don't do that, and keep attracting losers - that's your fault for sticking through their bull****. Much like the girl who complains about an ******* - you're doing the same thing. "Why is this girl such an *******?" - as you keep pining after her, and potentially obsessing over it. Likely for the same reasons: desperation, denial, unhappiness, wanting a trophy girl, etc.

A good rule of thumb is to never obsess over losers - because its just the way they are. Who cares what they do? They can eat ****. Associate with quality, decent people, and you won't have to worry about it. They're not worth worrying about, anyway. Just say to yourself (or them), "yeah, I see why no one likes you / them".

Typically, if someone is obsessing over and *****ing about losers - its because they're associating with them. Or trying to attract them. Or whatever. Knock it off. Who cares if they're "hot"? A loser is still a loser.

Edit: Also, be honest with yourself... Do you like losers? Some people do. They like to ***** and complain about all the things they do, and have issues of their own. Self-reflection is a must whenever there's a repeated negative pattern. Who are YOU chasing after, associating with, etc, and why? Some people like to be miserable, and keep feeding their hate so they can be. It's a crazy world.

:rockon:

+1 repped, This post is blog worthy
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Burroughs said:
the market for non gangbang sluts is crashing like the tulip market in 1630s....but bishes are still overcharging

I know quite a few successful entrepreneurs. Started businesses in their 20s....now in their 30s making bank.

they all find the quality of US/westernized bishes nothing short of appalling...they know the score...one dude is 6'2" and a former swimmer....all can pull 8s and up...no shortage of women

....but they are pissed.

BECAUSE THE QUALITY JUST ISN'T THERE.

not quality as in good, kind, or loyal...quality as in maybe has ACTUALLY READ A BOOK IN THE LAST 5 YEARS THAT WASN'T TWILIGHT.

bishes have turned into fvckholes for men like me and my friends who can game them....BUT THATS IT.

and at the end of the day that is sad.....but i will keep fvcking :)
Gotta lower dem standards to find a quality girl. Harsh reality. But you can still bang hotties in the meantime. Or forever. Finding someone perfect isn't gonna happen.
 

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been offline for about 8 months as I've been here in the PRC.

Heres what I can tell you from my second year here.

Within 2 days of arriving in China, I had about 30 dates lined up. The second day I met the girl who would end up becoming my girlfriend and following me all over China. I'm really proud of her considering she grew up on the community farm.

Current GF:
22
Virgin
Nerd (Spends all her time watching south park/anime)
Rockin Hot Body
Chinese Face (North Jiangsu)
College Educated
English OK
Middle Class 2000/rmb/month (Has Cooking/Cleaning and Childcare skills coming out her bum)
Grew up very poor, poverty line by North American standards
Quiet, rarely talks to others, does not speak unless spoken to.
Mandarin

I have at least one or two girls hit on me per day, and almost all of my students hit on me (95% are girls). If I dropped my gf, I'd have a line up of women ready to go at a moment's notice. All hot, small, thin little girls ready to go (I teach adults).

I am not hot, I am 32 this year, got a little bit of a gut on me from eating noodles and rice constantly. I won't lie, the food here sucks balls. Life is not super great all the time, people are frequently rude (cultural problems) but
I can't complain, I make more than a doctor or lawyer on average and I have been able to make my way around China. All things considered, I am speaking from experience when I say that Chinese women are absolutely the way to go and yes travelling abroad for women IS a good thing! Women will eat up half your life so why not put yourself in a position where that half of your life will be great. Staying single and going my own way is not an option for me, I want kids and I want a girlfriend...I want to get married and I want to do it in a place where WOMEN RESPECT MEN.

Women here have A LOT of respect for their fathers as the men generally need to own a house/car and have a good job before they can get laid. It's basically an AFC wonderland if you are a foreign guy with a bit of skill. Also laowai don't need anything except a bit of confidence, I can hardly speak mandarin at all... I use to work with another PUAish guy from Nigeria and the two of us would see who could get more phone numbers in 30 mins (it was me). Chinese men generally will not approach women, they wait to be introduced by a friend or something if they don't marry their highschool gf. Most Chinese think that having had 1 boyfriend before marriage qualifies them as a slut/playboy. I have only had 8 girls in my life and they treat me like I'm some sort of casanova. The american I work with has beded 48 women this year, he is a major prick though and constantly cheats on these girls...whatever... they are all rich and 10's he tells them he doesn't want to marry... I guess buyer beware. The women here are HORNY and are always fans of porn or anime or fantasy novels...the men typically ignore them or go about playing their video games or watching crap on their ipods. I'm told that IF men have sex, its generally to have a baby and then not after. The culture here also limits the men's sexual ability as they have to introduce a girl for parents and grandparents approval...depending on her economic background she may not qualify (girls need to come from the same or higher economic levels to get a bf). Thats where the foreigner comes in...he doesn't care, judge or make her feel inferior.

My colleagues constantly hit on me and whine that they want to get married so badly but can't find men. There is like 2 men for every woman here but the men will NOT engage... I have had speed dating classes where there are 40 HOT (twent/teen) women and 8 men and the men will all hide in the corner table and get violent when you try and pair them with women... they are that awkward (had a dude punch me when trying to pair him with a nice girl)

The men who do get married are not overly alpha...most are skinny toothpick types, the real alphas here are scary criminal element types, would not want to **** with them. Someone else posted about asians and marriage, yeah men that are wealthy enough to marry, cheat ALL THE TIME here... at KTVs. Being a single mom is simply NOT acceptable and the chinese do not possess a western mentality about things, for them its black and white. If you have a bit of cash you can divorce but the majority can't afford it. Rich children here grow up with a REAL entitlement complex and believe they can do whatever they want whenever they want. So its another reason that foreigners are secretly popular. We GENERALLY come from a place where you have to rely on yourself and treat others with respect. You won't find that here...there isn't much respect anywhere. The poor are regarded as slaves by the rich and treated as such... so girls and older women are very surprised when the westerners treat them decently.


I would say that there are about 40 available women for every 1 guy who has the guts to approach. Women here think the older a man is the better off they will be. Gold digging comes to mind here but honestly you must understand the culture because there are NO safety nets in China, no health insurance, no welfare programs....you don't have money? you die on the street, period. There are no woman's programs, help groups, scholarships... you grow up poor, marry poor and poor you will stay. People know this, so $$$ and security are also top priority for girls... they are not taught to rely on men for money and their families get them educated and out working ASAP. Education is pretty harsh and militaristic, you start school as a child, live at school in a dorm, spend all of your time studying until you complete highschool. There is no time for sex, creativity or exploration. Then you study at a university/college in pretty much the same situation.... girls here are very IMMATURE and there is NO sex education, so they frequently giggle when you talk about boyfriends/girlfriends, kissing or hand holding. Some girls still have no idea how sex works. Almost everything they learn comes from Japanese A/Vs and Hardcore Sex animes that they obsess over on the net.

Women here know how to mind their family's money as there is a 1 child policy in effect...meaning that 1 child will be taking care of their parents and their grandparents with their meager salary, the parents + grandparents will continually pester the girls to get married as soon as they hit 18. HOWEVER if you are a laowai (foreigner), the parents are usually highly skeptical if not outright racist. My gf's brother used to call me white devil and tell me how untrustworthy foreigners were until he met me. Then again, if you could have any woman any time would people trust you? probably not.

My gf gets mad when I take her to restaurants and frequently offers to pay the tab (I earn 10 times her salary). She likes to cook at home as much as possible and NEVER spends on herself. I had to physically force the money from her hand to buy high heels and new clothes, she does not like shopping unless its for food.

Right now she is sitting on the bed next to me in an old nighty and panties.

I can't say that living here is bad, actually its pretty good. China is on the up and up and hopefully will continue to develop in the right direction. After having western feminism constantly thrown in my face, told I'm good for nothing and then shamed that I need to MAN UP and find a north american warpig by other north american men...I'm pretty happy out here. I get treated with a strange sort of respect, make enough cash to really enjoy my life, nice apartment, have a couple friends... things are good here. Would be fantastic if I was rich but what the hell...


Something weird I found here in my school's small library shelf... THE MYSTERY METHOD... I didn't put it there and noone seems to know where it came from.
 

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Now a word about western broads here (britian, canada, america) etc etc

THey cannot get a date to save their lives... I work with a nice canadian lady who is about 200 lbs overweight, 30 y/o, tattoos front and back and complains bitterly that she cannot find a date. So she has turned *drum roll* to lesbianism... yup... tells me up and down that she is bisexual and has sex with lots of girls. Infact unless you are super model hot here you will NOT get a date with a guy. Their political correctness falls on deaf ears and many end up turning gay/fat or going home. All of this 'backpacker' nonsense lasts about a year before they are scurrying back to their holes as fast as their hoofs will carry them.

Its very entertaining and worth the price of admission... so if you are not travelling to date women, you should at least come here to see what happens to a typical western woman when she is surrounded by REGULAR RESPECTFUL eastern attitude/culture.
 

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Just a side note, if you speak english there is likely a bright future for you here in China.

BUT AMERICANS for christsakes can you leave the 'back in americuh' actually back in america... I have had no end of problems from self righteous little prick americans who seem to think they know the answer to everything cause they went to 'college'.

The only two nice americans I have met here are a 50 something bodybuilder from Jersey and a circus clown from Boston.
 

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LiveFreeX said:
My gf gets mad when I take her to restaurants and frequently offers to pay the tab (I earn 10 times her salary). She likes to cook at home as much as possible and NEVER spends on herself. I had to physically force the money from her hand to buy high heels and new clothes, she does not like shopping unless its for food.
My company is building a facility in China so I will be visiting later in the year to hire scientists (biotech & chemistry masters, PHD students) and administrate. I should be there for 3 weeks.

You have certainly planted some seeds in my head LiveFree

What do you do teach in China?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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