Last night i went clubbing with three friends of mine.
My mindset: I gonna get some tonight! I wanna get laid and bang some chicks.
Mindset of one of my friend: Just have fun with my buddies.
When we were in the club, I was walking around the club trying to spot
my target and then approach right away after the eye contact.
Even though I got make out and digits from those chicks, i didn't get laid
last night because of logistics problem.
For my friend, he just stood there at the table and dance and had fun
with other friends of mine. He just didn't care whether he got laid or not.
But, eventually, two chicks on the table beside my table, i approach them
but they didn't seem to be interested in me.
Instead, one of them even licked my friend's neck.
WTF!! Why is it so easy for him to get girl but is so hard for me?
I am sure I am quite good looking with good and open body language
and so is my friend.
Can s.body tell me why this happens?
Usually, when i think i gonna get some tonight, i fail.
But, when i think i just gonna have fun with my buddies, i mostly got some.
PS I can rarely go clubbing, so everytimes i go there, i wanna bang some chicks silly!
That is always my mindset. But, rather, my friend can go clubbing anytime he want so
just didn't care anything. Furthermore, I just start go clubbing and lose my v-card when i was 19
(I am 20)
while my friend started clubbing and lose his v-card like when he was 16.(Now he is 22)
So, i think experience does matter in this case.
My mindset: I gonna get some tonight! I wanna get laid and bang some chicks.
Mindset of one of my friend: Just have fun with my buddies.
When we were in the club, I was walking around the club trying to spot
my target and then approach right away after the eye contact.
Even though I got make out and digits from those chicks, i didn't get laid
last night because of logistics problem.
For my friend, he just stood there at the table and dance and had fun
with other friends of mine. He just didn't care whether he got laid or not.
But, eventually, two chicks on the table beside my table, i approach them
but they didn't seem to be interested in me.
Instead, one of them even licked my friend's neck.
WTF!! Why is it so easy for him to get girl but is so hard for me?
I am sure I am quite good looking with good and open body language
and so is my friend.
Can s.body tell me why this happens?
Usually, when i think i gonna get some tonight, i fail.
But, when i think i just gonna have fun with my buddies, i mostly got some.
PS I can rarely go clubbing, so everytimes i go there, i wanna bang some chicks silly!
That is always my mindset. But, rather, my friend can go clubbing anytime he want so
just didn't care anything. Furthermore, I just start go clubbing and lose my v-card when i was 19
(I am 20)
while my friend started clubbing and lose his v-card like when he was 16.(Now he is 22)
So, i think experience does matter in this case.