jafyk
Master Don Juan
Ok, for starters I'm calling this a noobie question because it seems like such a simple thing to ask but i will ask anyway because I'm losing my touch a lil bit and not sure about this situation.So, if you have nothing helpful to say to me here please don't respond. So, here goes.
Alyssa is a girl at works my local grocery store and I always thought she was cute. I'd see her, admire and go about my business. In the past even if we've made some eye contact she didn't give much of a reaction. Lately (maybe I'm reading too much into it), when I see her she smiles and says hi. Here and there I've made brief convo with her. A few days ago when I had gone to the store even though I hadn't stopped at her register. We made eye contact she smied and asked me to have a good night (That was new). I had said to myself I'd approach her to get her # and see if she'd like to go out (Just looking for the best time).
Surprisingly, I had seen her at my college today (apparently we go to the same school too, lol). So, I approached her smiled and started talking to her (asking her what she was going to school for and what her life outside of work was like. She told me she's always busy (1st bad sign). She said she works a lot, school and at free times sees movies with friends. She did ask me what I was going to school for as well. I told her I had to get going but before I could ask her for her number she said " I guess I'ill see you at around" (the other bad sign). Given she didn't even ask for my name and how busy she said she was I figured she might not have been interested. So, I just left. I haven't totally given up on the idea of giving it another try. My question in all of this is when a girl states that she's always busy with this and that and doesn't have much time for bla... is that always a sign she's not interested and to just move on. Especially if she doesn't even ask for my name?
Alyssa is a girl at works my local grocery store and I always thought she was cute. I'd see her, admire and go about my business. In the past even if we've made some eye contact she didn't give much of a reaction. Lately (maybe I'm reading too much into it), when I see her she smiles and says hi. Here and there I've made brief convo with her. A few days ago when I had gone to the store even though I hadn't stopped at her register. We made eye contact she smied and asked me to have a good night (That was new). I had said to myself I'd approach her to get her # and see if she'd like to go out (Just looking for the best time).
Surprisingly, I had seen her at my college today (apparently we go to the same school too, lol). So, I approached her smiled and started talking to her (asking her what she was going to school for and what her life outside of work was like. She told me she's always busy (1st bad sign). She said she works a lot, school and at free times sees movies with friends. She did ask me what I was going to school for as well. I told her I had to get going but before I could ask her for her number she said " I guess I'ill see you at around" (the other bad sign). Given she didn't even ask for my name and how busy she said she was I figured she might not have been interested. So, I just left. I haven't totally given up on the idea of giving it another try. My question in all of this is when a girl states that she's always busy with this and that and doesn't have much time for bla... is that always a sign she's not interested and to just move on. Especially if she doesn't even ask for my name?