aprilia825
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 28, 2006
- Messages
- 10
- Reaction score
- 0
Hey whats up guys....great site here, lotsa great info.
Ok here's the deal....I'm in my early 20s, and there was this smokin hot girl I was hookin up with a couple years ago. She was actually the one who approached me (my best friend is going out with her best friend). We were hookin up for a while, and then it ended..."I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now....I think we're better just as friends." Now keep in mind we were going at it like rabbits for awhile there....anyway, we kept in touch, still chilled once in awhile, but talked a lot. I now realize I was being an intellectual wh.ore. Well anyway, fast forward to 2 years later, and we start hooking up again...I think I made her jealous one night cuz she saw me with someone else. Anyway, same thing as before.....but this time when she 'dumped' me (we weren't officially going out, just chilled a lot and were humping) she said the same things again...."I think we're better as friends.....I didn't want anything more" blah blah
Now the thing is, this time I know why she ended it....cuz I fell back into the same trap I swore I wouldn't fall into again. When we weren't together, I went around and did my thing and didn't care what she thought. Once we started hooking up again though, I realized I still liked her (a lot) and turned into a big pssy....so I know why it happened this time.
My question is, how do I handle seeing her now (I'm gonna be running into her when I go out cuz of our friends)....so should I just keep it at "hi" and then move on? or should I go and act like it doesn't bother me and do the ****y/funny thing? This one may take time....but knowing what I know now, if we hook up again, I'll handle it properly.
This situation is weird, cuz I don't have this problem with any other girl....I pretty much naturally go 'by the book' and it works...a lot of other girls want me, and I have no problem hooking up with other girls....but this one has a hold on me, and its like when we start hooking up, all of that goes out the window and I turn into a needy, powerless, pssy. Also, this is weird cuz in all the articles I've read, I haven't found one about 'ok, so you've banged the girl, and now you're being too nice.....and she put an end to it" Normally this stuff happens early on before you get in bed with the girl
VERY CONFUSED.....give me some guidance, stories from experience, anything.....cheers guys
PS sorry I wrote a novel....
Ok here's the deal....I'm in my early 20s, and there was this smokin hot girl I was hookin up with a couple years ago. She was actually the one who approached me (my best friend is going out with her best friend). We were hookin up for a while, and then it ended..."I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now....I think we're better just as friends." Now keep in mind we were going at it like rabbits for awhile there....anyway, we kept in touch, still chilled once in awhile, but talked a lot. I now realize I was being an intellectual wh.ore. Well anyway, fast forward to 2 years later, and we start hooking up again...I think I made her jealous one night cuz she saw me with someone else. Anyway, same thing as before.....but this time when she 'dumped' me (we weren't officially going out, just chilled a lot and were humping) she said the same things again...."I think we're better as friends.....I didn't want anything more" blah blah
Now the thing is, this time I know why she ended it....cuz I fell back into the same trap I swore I wouldn't fall into again. When we weren't together, I went around and did my thing and didn't care what she thought. Once we started hooking up again though, I realized I still liked her (a lot) and turned into a big pssy....so I know why it happened this time.
My question is, how do I handle seeing her now (I'm gonna be running into her when I go out cuz of our friends)....so should I just keep it at "hi" and then move on? or should I go and act like it doesn't bother me and do the ****y/funny thing? This one may take time....but knowing what I know now, if we hook up again, I'll handle it properly.
This situation is weird, cuz I don't have this problem with any other girl....I pretty much naturally go 'by the book' and it works...a lot of other girls want me, and I have no problem hooking up with other girls....but this one has a hold on me, and its like when we start hooking up, all of that goes out the window and I turn into a needy, powerless, pssy. Also, this is weird cuz in all the articles I've read, I haven't found one about 'ok, so you've banged the girl, and now you're being too nice.....and she put an end to it" Normally this stuff happens early on before you get in bed with the girl
VERY CONFUSED.....give me some guidance, stories from experience, anything.....cheers guys
PS sorry I wrote a novel....