Social_Leper said:
I just got back from a 1. hour stretch in the office...on a Saturday. BPD HB 5s are the least of my concerns.
Anyway, what's with this worrying trend of bashing everyone on ss. Seems every week backbreaker and Zarky are posting a thread about how pathetic we all are.
Beucase it's true.
the sad thing is, you are actually one of the guys that I don't think are pathetic. You are intelligent, you seem to be on the right track. You just get too butt hurt too easily and you have an entitlement problem, but for the most part i like you. the only issue i seriously have with you and i mean i don't particarlly give a **** either way so issue is a strong word but the only gripe if you will is you taking pot shots at me then i have to respond. but i have no issue with you in particular and your drive and where you are in life. If you keep it up you will be doing the damn thing.
There is a saying in NA.. keep what you need and leave the rest. everything you read isn't meant for you to read. Just like everything on here isn't meant for me to read. I personally know that someone saying that everyone here sucks and are losers isn't something that applies to me but just because it doesn't apply to me or you doesn't' mean it doesn't apply to ost of the guys here. most of the guys here are downright pathetic. They don't offer anything they don't want to do any work expect HB 8's and 9's to just fall out of teh sky and then when that doesn't work they resort to name calling and woman hating. or they don't put any effort in at all and then you have some who sit here for months or years and refuse to grow or learn antyhign. yeah there are some pathetic people that post here.
but you actually remind me a lot of myself you have a chip on your sholder and i have one as well, it's not as big anymore but in real life i'd be you'd be shocked at how simlar we are personality wise if we ever met. we are both workaholics with type a personalities who don't like to be told **** lol
you are going to run some **** some day. no doubt in my mind if you keep your head in the game. my only thing that i particarlly try to stress to you is that you got to put the work in, just like i had to put the work in and just like everyone else who is at baller status and fvcking hb 9's on a regular and driving porches had to put the work in. but but you stand out as a guy who i have no doubt will put the work in.
the reason zarky's posts gather so much attention is because they have a bit of truth to them though he is trolling at this point. but the best trolls are somewhat true that's why they work so well.
they wouldn't have time to bash anyone
i'm quite possibly the most happy - go - lucky person on this forum. outside of boilermaker who just likes to troll my posts from time to time you can't point out an instance where i actually bashed a dude. i might get in someone specifics ass when it calls for it but i don't' bash them. I'm a positive dude. there is a reason i've never ever been banned on this forum in 11 years.
i think in general that guys on this forum for the most part don't try hard enough but i draw the line at specifically name calling and shaming that's not who i roll and you can't prove otherwise.
the reason i stay here is the same reason I go to NA meetings still; i'm fairly confident that i can survive without NA meetings i did for 2 years. but i feel i have something to give back; i can realate to very specific people, i can't tell you how many times i would be in a meeting and some white dude comes in with his beamer or whatever and he's getting off pain pills and he thinks he's better than everyone else in the meeting beucase he's not homeless and has a college degree and he sees me polo'ed down pulling up in a jag and putting sentences together. I make people who have a preconceived notion of drug addicts rethink their notion and i can relate to that guy and tell him, dude, you are a drug addict lol.
it's the same thing here i can relate to a warrior or a social leper guys who are putting their heads down and grinding to get better and what that's like. i can relate to aspiring to being better and not being there yet and having women judging you on where you are and not where you are going because i've done that. i can relate to a black guy dating white women, successfully, because i'm married to one. i can tell a guy whose goals aren't to fvck 20 women a month that hey you can be a DJ and not have women first because i never rolled like that i've always been an ambition motivated guy first and foremost.
i work my program and that's all i can do; that's all I WILL do. I don't care if you like me. Well, I CARE but I can't control it so i dont' worry about it. I'm not here for you to like me. I can just as easily be rubbing my wife's feet lol or watching netflix. but someone was here for me so when i find time it ry to be here for someone whoever that someone may be.
