Non-intrest sign after number?

[Gamestarr]

This is my first post on this site, however Iv'e been browsing for a year or longer and have gained a lot of knowledge. Once I started understanding the "game" if you will I didn't neccesarily applied it right away. It took experience and time to start approaching. As of late iv'e been doing the 3 sec rule approach with some numbers and some let downs. The thing is this; I'm becoming lazy with getting numbers and becoming not intrested after I attain a number after I game. I'm a confident dude, pretty attractive, athlectic, etc (not to boast) but I feel like I should be getting some type of feedback from women once I get their number. I feel it's always one-sided with me doing ALL the work, asking questions, in all of that.

For example today, I was talking to this girl randomly that I caught walking in my school hallway. She looked alright, anyway I asked for her number and she said no of course (understandable since Im a stanger to her). I started talking more, got her laughing, then I asked again. She accepted, I felt I was doing all the work with no volenteraliy intrest on her side, no questions for me, no concern... it's like yo I'm gonna be doing this untill I hit? or even if it's long term? So after she said "yes" I then rejected her.

My question to yal'l is do you get boresome with women that you game up and find out she's not 'that' intresting from jump?

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

This is my first post on this site, however Iv'e been browsing for a year or longer and have gained a lot of knowledge. Once I started understanding the "game" if you will I didn't neccesarily applied it right away. It took experience and time to start approaching. As of late iv'e been doing the 3 sec rule approach with some numbers and some let downs. The thing is this; I'm becoming lazy with getting numbers and becoming not intrested after I attain a number after I game. I'm a confident dude, pretty attractive, athlectic, etc (not to boast) but I feel like I should be getting some type of feedback from women once I get their number. I feel it's always one-sided with me doing ALL the work, asking questions, in all of that.

For example today, I was talking to this girl randomly that I caught walking in my school hallway. She looked alright, anyway I asked for her number and she said no of course (understandable since Im a stanger to her). I started talking more, got her laughing, then I asked again. She accepted, I felt I was doing all the work with no volenteraliy intrest on her side, no questions for me, no concern... it's like yo I'm gonna be doing this untill I hit? or even if it's long term? So after she said "yes" I then rejected her.

My question to yal'l is do you get boresome with women that you game up and find out she's not 'that' intresting from jump?

i seem to have this problem also..even on dates..i end up asking all the questions with little to no effort recpricated..so i tried offer more about myself(lastnight) and was plainly rejected..although i did mack a little with her a little later..anyway..I think this is a feminin response so these girls don't have to worry about falling for you..espcially if they find you attractive..this way if they let you do all the work..your chasing them..they know nothing about you cause your learning about them... therefore they are never apt to get emotionally invested..thats just my take and i'm still working on a soultion the only thing i don't like is that the only one of all the girls i ever meet and date or even talk to..its only my ex girl that actually asks me questions..to see how i am. doing.????

 

[Tyson420]

If you don't want to do all the chasing then you may as well say **** it...

It's not worth all that work. Because to me, that tells me they aren't interested, that's just me.

 

[Gamestarr]

Thanks for the responses...

To me one thing is to be a stranger to a female but then another is intrest to be friends. There has to be middle-ground. This is why women are placed on pedalstals so much then act different when your bringing something new the table i.e being a jerk, or whatever.

 

[Igetit!]

I feel like I should be getting some type of feedback from women once I get their number. I feel it's always one-sided with me doing ALL the work, asking questions, in all of that.

I think you've got a misunderstanding about what numbers are for.


The purpose of getting the number ISN'T so you can create a connection with a girl,it's to continue the connection you created during the approach.




This girl was just out,minding her own business,and out of the blue,you walked up to her....because you were attracted to her and wanted to know more about her.



YOU approached her.



Since you started the whole interaction between you two,why is it you want her to take over WHAT YOU STARTED,and start asking you a bunch of questions?


We guys are attracted to women based on their appearance.

Women are attracted to us based on how we make them feel through our behavior around them.



Like Chrisgoodrich25 said,the women aren't emotionally invested in you enough yet. They don't investment much of themselves in the approach itself.



It's usually that way in the beginning. WE do all the work upfront,then later on,once some time has passed and they're more emotionally connected,then they'll start putting more of themselves into the interactions.

For example today, I was talking to this girl randomly that I caught walking in my school hallway. She looked alright, anyway I asked for her number and she said no of course (understandable since Im a stanger to her). I started talking more, got her laughing, then I asked again. She accepted, I felt I was doing all the work with no volenteraliy intrest on her side, no questions for me, no concern... it's like yo I'm gonna be doing this untill I hit? or even if it's long term? So after she said "yes" I then rejected her.

No,you do't have to do it until you "hit".

What you do is you continue doing what it was that caused her to give you her number in the first place for a while,then you gradually start to scale back.


She'll "sense" you starting to pull back then she'll step forward to fill in the gap....but you do it GRADUALLY.


What will happen is she'll start to investment and get emotionally bonded to you without even realizing it.



You just need to be a little patience.


The approach is just THE FIRST STEP in a sequence,not the WHOLE GOAL.



You don't win the Super Bowl on opening day of the NFL season.


You seem to be on the right track,just have a tad more patience.