this thread is a prime example why i don't bother posting in the general forum. I'm just wasting my daily allotment of posts for no reason
congrats! you just took a girl who wouldn't even give you a kiss on the ****ing lips, and basically rewarded her stuck up behavior with a plead for another date, at any time that is convenient for her i might add.
then the same dudes will come back here and ***** about how all women are stuck up or how they all want jerk and how she is BPD or how she is a player or how she is a slut or whatever excuse youc an come up with
Her: I don't think I can...I have to go somewhere with my dads friend.
Me: Alright so your not going to be around all day?
translation= i don't have a god damn thing to do all day long but sit here by the phone and hope i can spend my time in your presence. I've also confirmed this behavior by trying to setup a date with you event hough you have not given me a prudent reason to want to move forward, i'm just that desperate.
Good shyt, man, well played. Ball's in her court. Meet her at the ball game and see how it goes. I went through the exact same thing. They love the attention, but for some reason or another you don't spark a sexual flame in them. Not a problem. It is what it is. You go on as if nothing ever happened and you state that, ''we should just give it a rest because I don't wanna just be friends" as Mike32ct said. Nothing wrong with YOU putting her into the 'Next Zone'. I, for one, hate being c0ck teased and it's what I would do.
that's the thing! she's not a **** tease.
HE JUST DOESN'T HAVE ANY GAME
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HE HAS NOT GIVEN HER ONE REASON TO WANT TO **** HIM. HE'S AVAILABLE ALL THE TIME. HE CALLS ALL THE TIME. HE ISN'T EXCITING. NO ONE ELSE WANTS HIM. WHY THE **** SHOULD SHE BE PINNING TO **** HIM? AND THE ONE TIME HE TRIED TO PUSH THE ISSUE, SHE SHOWED A TAD BIT OF SLIGHT RESISTANCE AND HE RAN INTO THE CORNER LIKE A DOG WHO JUST GOT SPANKED.
Since she said she was busy and I go ghost and she DOES NOT reach out to me once before sunday...how would I play it when I see her?
SHE ISN'T GOING TO REACH OUT TO YOU. AND YOU KNOW THIS.
this ****, verbaitum, is exaclty what i told you was going to happen on the first page. her interest in you is waning beucase in her mind you are just friend 1000585 who is always there and is going to try to win her over by showing her how mature and understanding he is. and i gave you a blue print plan to get her interest back. the only way you are going to get her interest back is for her to come to the conclusion that she had you pegged wrong, and you are more interested/desirable than she originally thought.
and what do you do? you go the exact opposite way and you re confirm that you have no more options, you re confirm you don't have **** else to do.
this **** is a lose cause. not because she's bad girl, you just haven't differentiated yourself from anyone else. she doesn't have a tangible reason to want to be wtih you and you keep snatching defeat from the jaws of victory
dating is a lot like training a dog. you don't give your dog doggy treats for ****ting all on the carpet. at least i hope you don't. that's pretty much what you just did. when a girl doesn't' act in a manner in which you find desirable, you have to take som ething away from them.. i.e your availablity/time/****/whatever/. and you don't have to even come uot and say it just don't be available. she will get it.
like hwen i was single a long time ago i had this chick named amber, the black chick i posted pics of on the other thread, and while we were courting she would get *****y every time i got off work and did not want to see her (i had other dates).. lol so i just stopped picking up the phone. evrytime she calle dwith that siht she got the dail tone. if every time i call you, you are going to bust my balls, i'm just not going to call you. that's the mentality you have to have. eventually she got the message.
women are mustangs. when you first get one out there int he wild they have bad habits nad siht. you got to break them down and break all the barriers and stupid **** they got pilled up. you start this off as soon as you meet them. if a girl acts an ass on a date let her go in time out do some other ****. you don't reward negative behavior.
if a girl lets you take her on 2 dates, comes back to your house and won't even let you get a kiss, you need to take away soething, not double down
