NOFAP AUGUUUUUUUUSTTTTTTTT 2017!!!!!

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Day2 for me. I noticed last month, more ladies making eye contact at the grocery store. I felt more relaxed in my interactions with them too at social events. Been about a month since my last date, so hopefully, I'll get some #s or the ball rolling this month.

A few things that are working that are complimenting NoFap:
- Progressing more in academics
- Graduated with my bachelor's degree this summer
- Now, planning for grad school admissions
- Progressing in the gym (shirts feel tighter and better, love that feeling)
- Cold showers
- Finding contentment in life overall
- Improving diet to a more plant-based diet after bulking fast April~July this year
- Guitar skills improving
- Social spheres expanding/taking more leadership role in leading a group
- More genuine in conversational interactions

Still want to look less for validation that lingers from previous issues. Be more present in the set.

I'll see how things go this month. At the end of this month, I'll be celebrating one-year divorced. :D

 
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Good luck this month, guys. Make NoFap productive chase some goals you've been after for a while, yet felt lazy or unmotivated to chase em'. The world is your oyster! ;)
 

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BOOOM! I'm day one today. Whole month, let's go!
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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Definatley in

i'm on day 27 at the moment, at the beginning of last month i hit a rock bottom in regards to my life, and porn addiction has been a huge problem for me for many years. I know from previous experience that it makes a huge difference to be off of it.

In only 27 days i have gone from maybe a 1/10 mood to around a 6 and noticing good benefits.

I am seeing a therapist too, the goal is to deal with the root cause of the reason i am a porn addict in the first place, so that relapsing won't ever be an issue again.
 

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I despair what chance young men may have in life when they are so easily and constantly 'brutalized' by hard core pornography at the click of a button.
 

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I think the root cause of porn addiction for me was sheer laziness. It allows you to sit at home and be a couch potato while seeking sexual gratification through a screen. The problems really start when you get bored watching the same ol' same ol' suck and fukk and you start delving into really bizarre fetishes. It got to a point where I couldn't even get aroused watching regular porn. I had to see the women get abused and degraded for me to get turned on. It's like a drug addict who has to keep escalating his drugs in order to get high because they built up an immunity to it. It is some scary ****.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I think the root cause of porn addiction for me was sheer laziness. It allows you to sit at home and be a couch potato while seeking sexual gratification through a screen. The problems really start when you get bored watching the same ol' same ol' suck and fukk and you start delving into really bizarre fetishes. It got to a point where I couldn't even get aroused watching regular porn. I had to see the women get abused and degraded for me to get turned on. It's like a drug addict who has to keep escalating his drugs in order to get high because they built up an immunity to it. It is some scary ****.
Yes, it is vicious corrupting stuff, and just shows how degraded we have become, as a society, all in the name of 'freedom'. Men who want real freedom in the lives have to 'go feudal'.
 

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I don't even know how long it's been since I fapped, but I'm in. Got an unfair advantage though since I have a girlfriend.
 

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Spiderman knows when you fap.



day4 / social game FR
Last night I went to the movies with a new social group. A chick that just graduated with a PhD in a healthcare field just moved to my city. She was talking to me a lot at dinner, gave me half her food because I just ordered a beer, heh. I noticed some interesting proximity before and after the movie. She leaned in / tilted heavily with body language while standing, yet didn't rub shoulders. To see if she would calibrate to me, I moved slightly back and next to my guy friend, she closed the gap. Lol.... I had another girl next to me at dinner give me half her burger too. She asked more questions about me, maybe jelly of the other girl giving me attention.

Anyway, during the movie, this other guy next to me told me "Dude. Didn't you see her big fat engagement ring at dinner? She's engaged, man. Her fiance is back mid-west and hasn't moved out yet. She's out tonight for attention." "Me: Yeah, cool. Whatever."
 

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Had sex with a girl but I finished with her by fapping. Does that count as a fap?
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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